NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Looking forward to a good rapport with my MiL

gbenyi:
"Me and my girlfriend went out to watch a movie. The movie was about mother-inlaws and some of the wicked acts they do. And next she said without thinking;


"thank God your parents are dead"

Knowing how well attached I was to my parents, and the fact that the way they died was so heartbreaking for me. I have been down since, don't even know what to do or even think. I am currently on my sixth bottle, trying to calm my nerves so I would be able to sleep. I am so disappointed, heartbroken and angry at her for trying to see an advantage in my pain - celebrating my pain as a plus. I have a feeling that she has been a pretender all the while and was never that nice person she was claiming to be. Did she ever love me? Am I overreacting? This might just be the end of this relationship"

ranmoor:
The truth is almost every women prefer not to have mother-in-law.

swiz123:


Fickle words

ranmoor:
The truth is almost every women prefer not to have mother-in-law. They will try to turn the son against the mother if the woman is living with them. The only exception is when the mother in-law is rich and influential, someone they can gain from. Its not really their fault, its the innate desire for greed.

gbenyi:
"Me and my girlfriend went out to watch a movie. The movie was about mother-inlaws and some of the wicked acts they do. And next she said without thinking;

"thank God your parents are dead"

Knowing how well attached I was to my parents, and the fact that the way they died was so heartbreaking for me. I have been down since, don't even know what to do or even think. I am currently on my sixth bottle, trying to calm my nerves so I would be able to sleep. I am so disappointed, heartbroken and angry at her for trying to see an advantage in my pain - celebrating my pain as a plus. I have a feeling that she has been a pretender all the while and was never that nice person she was claiming to be. Did she ever love me? Am I overreacting? This might just be the end of this relationship"

Anonymous.

Your advice is needed on this.

IamPlato:
...


She Didnt Say Anything Wrong...

ImaIma1:
If only wives and mothers inlaw stop seeing themselves as competitors. Wives should be more receptive and mother less manipulative.

You can imagine my neighbour reporting to me that her her mum in law called her husband to send money. The guy complained that he was broke and his wife had just asked for money for food and he didnt have.

His mum said if he doesn't send money same day, if she dies, he shouldn't come to bury her. The guy had to run helter skelter to borrow and send meanwhile pregnant wife and children had not eaten.

SoapQueen:


My dear. A friend of a friend gave birth via CS, the mother-in-law insisted that she would massage the girl's CS wounds (4 days) after surgery but the girl refused and told her that it was against the doctor's orders.

Mother-in-law said she would lock the girl outside, since the house belongs to her son.

Daughter-in-law says "Mama, you can't lock me outside because I paid the rent".

Mama said okay, she packed all her things including pepper soup spices and told her son to accompany her back to Delta State. The son did.

@Op, your girlfriend is insensitive. Very bad way to talk.

SoapQueen:


My dear. A friend of a friend gave birth via CS, the mother-in-law insisted that she would massage the girl's CS wounds (4 days) after surgery but the girl refused and told her that it was against the doctor's orders.

Mother-in-law said she would lock the girl outside, since the house belongs to her son.

Daughter-in-law says "Mama, you can't lock me outside because I paid the rent".

Mama said okay, she packed all her things including pepper soup spices and told her son to accompany her back to Delta State. The son did.

@Op, your girlfriend is insensitive. Very bad way to talk.

ubunja:
if she hurt you that much sack her. a girl talked shìt about my mother during a heated arguement and i showed her the door. she apologized a million times and i forgave her but everytime i saw her face her words came to mind. instead of subjecting myself to the hurt i broke it off with her. we still see each often and are good friends. but we can never be lovers because of what she said in a moment of anger.

kimbraa:
But you once said your mother is useless. Shouldn't you have given the girl a medal for talking shìt about your mother?