mayb she dosent want to get infected

ThoniaSlim:

mayb she dosent want to get infected

how do u mean,infected by what?

it's just weird!!! i cn't imagine wht her reason is.

reasons:
-cultural - i think this is the major reason.
-religion
-your mouth odour
-her mouth odour
-her inability to kiss -----> afraid she might not be as good as you'd like.

-her inability to kiss -----> afraid she might not be as good as you'd like.
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lol well if dat's d case she'll never learn cuz practise makes perfect

hey my advice is simple are u sure u guys didnt meet at the altar while taking holy communion and if not check ur breath maybe it disgusts her or try takin chocolates or ice cream then talk into her face so she can smell ur breath and make sure u are gentle, u should kiss this tyme , if not seek ur pastor,s assistance

Maybe your lips just look like a combination of Obie Trice and Angelina Jolie
[Just kidding, unless they do].Or maybe she's never kissed before.Just give her some time.I'm sure U'll get those lip's sooner or later.ButI can't help but think,if it's takin' long to get a kiss,how long for

She might be shy to break out the first kiss, am sure other thing have not taken place, because without a kiss how can you proceed, just give her some time to give you the first kiss and other things would follow, common girls it may not be easy as you think it is with you, fisrt of evrything is always a major decision even if it is "kiss"

this is really wierd!!! am kinda surprise, well sha patience is a virutue

thats weird lol

IS NOT NORMAL 4 YOUR OWN GIRLFRIEND TO REFUSE UR KISS.
MAYBE IS BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T LIKE U OR SHE IS CHEATING ON U CUZ A GIRL OF 22 CANT BE AFRAID OF A KISS.I DONT THINK SHE REALLY LIKES U.
U SHOULD FOLLOW UR HEART,THINK ABOUT IT CAREFULLY.

boi,
itz either she dont like u or
she thinks ur breath stinks(if she liked u she wulda told u) or
ur lips r weird or
u ugly or
u jus got sum' bout u dat reads "u'll throw up wen i kiss u" wen u talk n start to move close.

or she might hav herpes simplex II or sumn

Every Emotional Step mostly carries a little tension n fear along with it in d beginning.
I belive u shud giv her som space to catch up with the emotional aspect of it cos frm d way i see it, she wants d first kiss 2b very special 2her.
On a second thot,Wat is her age And i thnk u shud clearly put it 2 her that eventually,it will b ur pleasure to b the one 2 show her how 2 appreciate kissing and also try 2 convince her that their is no harm what so ever in kissing the one u truly love,

it's absolutely abnormal.it's one of those tricks that girls play on those guys they don't love but like,pls don't fall for it.
kissing brings intimacy,so go for it,

create the environement for her to want to
like bite your lower lips with your teeth softly
like when she's reading a novel or something
just move dangerously close to her face
make her look into your eyes
lips so close, as in about to touch
then ask her what is the title of her novel
follow this and more
and she will be the one to kiss you

am not an expert in this issue, i read this trick in a novel "a lesson in seduction"

o, k

if you need anymore tips from my novel
holla at me

well, if she loves u, she'll kiss u hard.
How can someone be afraid to kiss

it happens gurl.
blive it or not
d thing is, it depends on d bf init

maybe she is afraid of what come next ,
because kissing bring sex and maybe she is not ready 4 that , o is just that she doesn't know how to kiss
you just give her time never force  her

may be she thinks your mouth smells

Ye it could be the funky breath or she's just shy?

Nope. She's just taking things slow.

Layi have said it all,Correct.

maybe your girl is scared of kissing and taking it to the next level if u know wat i mean(sex, )

I don't think so. She seems to be the traditional nigerian girl.

boy u are in trouble, this one wey even kiss u no dey see how eh come be for de oda one naaaaaaaa____not joking

more seriously that girl doesn't deserve you, she must be dating you for your money or something good from you, you know what,,,,,,think about changing her. or is she too good in, that you can't leave? joking but think, goodluck

ha ha ,

nairalanders u people go kill some body oooooooooooooo

make this guy talk true why his chic is afraid to kiss him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

something is fishy

I think the problem is that she has never been kissed before. And she doesn't want to seem like she doesn't know how. Just give her time and let her know that you wont bite her lips and if by accident she bites yours, you won't skin her alive for that. Or better yet, she doesn't find kissing hygenic.

You guys are forgetting one major fact.

The guy is an asian. Nigerian girls are among the most racist I have ever seen. Most of you lot will snap your fingers over your head and say 'God forbid' if you were asked whether you'd kiss the indian/indonesian/chinese guy across the room, no matter how handsome or rich or whatever. Oh, you'd bang him alright. But kiss? Ya mama would die first!

Of course this doesnt go for white boys

Disclaimer: If u are an Akata girl, exclude yourself from the generalisation. Its the sistas back home I'm talking about.