I don't know maybe I am not made for relationship and true love. Why do guys always come into my life and jilt my heart then walk away?
This is my third relationship
Its all start due some uncalled situation, we became closed friends but ended up falling in love with each other. Then he proposed love to me and I accepted since he knew everything about my past relationships. The love between us was so strong not until my body started changing. I started adding weight and having this stubborn acne on my face. This change makes me look totally different from before. Suddenly, his attitude changed towards me completely and I was worried wondering if I offended him. So I decided to ask him y, so he said that he don't like how I look now that if I looked that way with the acne on my face and weight, he wouldn't have asked me out. I was so hurt and kept wondering if he love me because of my beauty. And he will also walked out of my life if I had had accident that disfigured me too. I told him I will work on it in fact I joined a team in a gym which I always go every day but his attitude is not different. I am hurt, I am feeling so much pains in my heart and I am losing focus. I love him so much and I can't stop thinking about him.
It is now my notice that whenever guys are my body, they will just walk away by making complains about me. Same thing happened in my first and my second relationship. All these relationships ended within the second month. Don't know if I am the one with the problems. Please help me, I don't want to lose myself yet. If possible I want to forget about love

All I'll say is that you need to look inwards. What do you reflect ? If you are sincere with yourself, therein would you find the solution.

Don't let it upset you. Just take care of yourself. Don't let yourself grow too big.

When you are fit and look healthy you'll feel confident of yourself and your looks.

It is that confidence that attracts guys not necessarily facial beauty.

There are ways to take care of acne problems and weight gain.

Don't chase love, let it come to you.

My dear, there's nothing wrong with you. Maybe this is not the right time for you to start having boyfriend. Don't let anybody make you lose your self-esteem, look in the mirror and admire how beautiful you are.

Cry baby!!

You know how many guys have been hurt too?

Fvcck off here with your pathetic pile of shhit story!!

Bullshit!!

So many whack relationship experts already in the house. Even those who can't handle a phone wants to handle a man! Useless!!

Uniquetani1:
I don't know maybe I am not made for relationship and true love. Why do guys always come into my life and jilt my heart then walk away?
This is my third relationship
Its all start due some uncalled situation, we became closed friends but ended up falling in love with each other. Then he proposed love to me and I accepted since he knew everything about my past relationships. The love between us was so strong not until my body started changing. I started adding weight and having this stubborn acne on my face. This change makes me look totally different from before. Suddenly, his attitude changed towards me completely and I was worried wondering if I offended him. So I decided to ask him y, so he said that he don't like how I look now that if I looked that way with the acne on my face and weight, he wouldn't have asked me out. I was so hurt and kept wondering if he love me because of my beauty. And he will also walked out of my life if I had had accident that disfigured me too. I told him I will work on it in fact I joined a team in a gym which I always go every day but his attitude is not different. I am hurt, I am feeling so much pains in my heart and I am losing focus. I love him so much and I can't stop thinking about him.
It is now my notice that whenever guys are my body, they will just walk away by making complains about me. Same thing happened in my first and my second relationship. All these relationships ended within the second month. Don't know if I am the one with the problems. Please help me, I don't want to lose myself yet. If possible I want to forget about love

Change strategy... Don't give people chance to take you for granted.

BiafranBushBoy:
Cry baby!!

You know how many guys have been hurt too?

Fvcck off here with your pathetic pile of shhit story!!

Bullshit!!

Beht where exactly dey pepper you?

Uniquetani1:
I don't know maybe I am not made for relationship and true love. Why do guys always come into my life and jilt my heart then walk away?
This is my third relationship
Its all start due some uncalled situation, we became closed friends but ended up falling in love with each other. Then he proposed love to me and I accepted since he knew everything about my past relationships. The love between us was so strong not until my body started changing. I started adding weight and having this stubborn acne on my face. This change makes me look totally different from before. Suddenly, his attitude changed towards me completely and I was worried wondering if I offended him. So I decided to ask him y, so he said that he don't like how I look now that if I looked that way with the acne on my face and weight, he wouldn't have asked me out. I was so hurt and kept wondering if he love me because of my beauty. And he will also walked out of my life if I had had accident that disfigured me too. I told him I will work on it in fact I joined a team in a gym which I always go every day but his attitude is not different. I am hurt, I am feeling so much pains in my heart and I am losing focus. I love him so much and I can't stop thinking about him.
It is now my notice that whenever guys are my body, they will just walk away by making complains about me. Same thing happened in my first and my second relationship. All these relationships ended within the second month. Don't know if I am the one with the problems. Please help me, I don't want to lose myself yet. If possible I want to forget about love

call me

PM me, let me teach you how to handle guys. sorry to say, but you are behaving like a fool in love and no man wants that. see how a man made you feel bad about your beautiful self?

Just try nd work on does tins he complained about, nd if he still continues wit his behavior, den u should try taking ur mind off d relationship. Life is too short to b killing ur self ova a man, cus a broken relationship is better dan a broken marriage.

Go for deliverance babe, sometimes when things dnt go the way we have planned with consistent occurance, one seeks the face of God in prayers..its well

Humans are selfish in nature and there is no such thing as unconditional love,there is always something that keeps us with our partners,some na money,some na beauty,others na sex....remove those things and we fall out of love,my advice...let him go,u can't force a man to love and stay with u.

The problem is yourself.
No one can call you inferior without your permission.
Your presentation to men has been faulty.
My take is: build yourself, esteem, ego, and mannerism. 4ck love/relationship for now
Develop your career and carve a niche for yourself.
When the right one comes, you will know because it will just flow.

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Thanks and God bless

Only 3 failed relationships and you are crying?

Anyways, try and be self confident.

adadike:
PM me, let me teach you how to handle guys. sorry to say, but you are behaving like a fool in love and no man wants that. see how a man made you feel bad about your beautiful self?

Ada we no gree,, teach her here make we learn as well..

olarwhumy6:
Go for deliverance babe, sometimes when things dnt go the way we have planned with consistent occurance, one seeks the face of God in prayers..its well

Hello awaiting your response.

I'm sorry to hear this. there are times we need to work on ourselves. everything is not love all the time but common sense.

Uniquetani1:
I don't know maybe I am not made for relationship and true love. Why do guys always come into my life and jilt my heart then walk away?
This is my third relationship
Its all start due some uncalled situation, we became closed friends but ended up falling in love with each other. Then he proposed love to me and I accepted since he knew everything about my past relationships. The love between us was so strong not until my body started changing. I started adding weight and having this stubborn acne on my face. This change makes me look totally different from before. Suddenly, his attitude changed towards me completely and I was worried wondering if I offended him. So I decided to ask him y, so he said that he don't like how I look now that if I looked that way with the acne on my face and weight, he wouldn't have asked me out. I was so hurt and kept wondering if he love me because of my beauty. And he will also walked out of my life if I had had accident that disfigured me too. I told him I will work on it in fact I joined a team in a gym which I always go every day but his attitude is not different. I am hurt, I am feeling so much pains in my heart and I am losing focus. I love him so much and I can't stop thinking about him.
It is now my notice that whenever guys are my body, they will just walk away by making complains about me. Same thing happened in my first and my second relationship. All these relationships ended within the second month. Don't know if I am the one with the problems. Please help me, I don't want to lose myself yet. If possible I want to forget about love

, pix of yourself or ...........

You already know your problem and you asking us for advice.

You said something that needs to be taken with seriousness "it is now your notice that when a guy are (have) your body they walk away" meaning the initial reason isn't bcs of your face or body but bcs you allowed him have your body.

Be wise baby girl and continue with that your gym.

Shalomc:
Hello awaiting your response.

babe, Free me. I'm nt interested, okay?

adadike:
PM me, let me teach you how to handle guys. sorry to say, but you are behaving like a fool in love and no man wants that. see how a man made you feel bad about your beautiful self?

How about you create a thread about it here, so we all can learn. Thanks

adadike:
PM me, let me teach you how to handle guys. sorry to say, but you are behaving like a fool in love and no man wants that. see how a man made you feel bad about your beautiful self?

She looks clingy and dependent, no man wants a dummy as a partner. Have a goal of your own and have a life of your own.

Op, nothing is wrong with your beautiful self . I bet you are either still in your teens or early 20s. You are still growing , so don't worry . Work on the acne, and try and manage your weight ,but don't push it . Then work on your career, complete your studies and focused in bn the best u can be in life .

Leave guys , love and relationship for now. Most guys after having sex they loose interest . It happens to almost everyone one of us. I rememebr as a teenager , my first bf was about making out with me and he unhooked my bra and was like what's this ! Your boobs are just too big! And he pushed me off and said how come u have such boobs ! Arrgh! And that was the end , he said i should go work on it and reduce it .I felt so ashamed of myself .lol and that was the end .
I felt hurt no doubt and jejely withdrew from guys and focused on my studies . at least the main reason I got admission was to study and be a graduate. I wasnt sent to school to land a boy friend.lol.. So eventually I became focused .
So I said to hell with all guys , lemme focus on my books and I did. I graduated with flying colours , created a successful career for myself . I became slim and my boobs reduced but guys weren't coming . I was as slim as a model o! Very pretty .but still no bf !

But after working for 6months and things were going well for me, I blew up again and I said to myself to hell mehn! If u like love my orobo shape or hate it i dont care , as long as am not overwieght ! But guess what!

Men started coming my way, men who loves big bold busty ladies . these set of guys will Beg and plead to date me! I feel so confident in my robust look! I even glowed more . As I type , am in a relationship with a guy who adores me for my brains, hardwork and busty big look. I am happy with whom am with . no regrets whatsoever . He's so proud of me, he introduces me to his friends, we go to occasions together . He makes me feel like a Queen. My shakara no be here o!

All my epistle is this : Love your self, train yourself , be good to yourself , the right men will come your way and u will be the one to make shakara and choose . If u make the wrong choice and he's behaving like an asshole? Bust his side ! And move on , don't dwell on people who makes u feel less of yourself . You DONT need such negative guys around u. Surround yourself with positive friends .

You are unique and special in your own way. So own it !

adadike:
PM me, let me teach you how to handle guys. sorry to say, but you are behaving like a fool in love and no man wants that. see how a man made you feel bad about your beautiful self?

why must she p.m you, with all your knowledge on men am still trying to find you relevant to the issue.. mtcheew

BiafranBushBoy:
Cry baby!!
You know how many guys have been hurt too?
Fvcck off here with your pathetic pile of shhit story!!
Bullshit!!

bro you are chilless.

olarwhumy6:
babe, Free me. I'm nt interested, okay?

Friends then... Hope we can get to meet up... probably church?

The problem is not your boyfriend or relationship, the problem is you
Once u lose your self respect, you lose ur selves value
Love yourself first before expecting someone to love you

victorian:
Op, nothing is wrong with your beautiful self . I bet you are either still in your teens or early 20s. You are still growing , so don't worry . Work on the acne, and try and manage your weight ,but don't push it . Then work on your career, complete your studies and focused in bn the best u can be in life .

Leave guys , love and relationship for now. Most guys after having sex they loose interest . It happens to almost everyone one of us. I rememebr as a teenager , my first bf was about making out with me and he unhooked my bra and was like what's this ! Your boobs are just too big! And he pushed me off and said how come u have such boobs ! Arrgh! And that was the end , he said i should go work on it and reduce it .I felt so ashamed of myself .lol and that was the end .
I felt hurt no doubt and jejely withdrew from guys and focused on my studies . at least the main reason I got admission was to study and be a graduate. I wasnt sent to school to land a boy friend.lol.. So eventually I became focused .
So I said to hell with all guys , lemme focus on my books and I did. I graduated with flying colours , created a successful career for myself . I became slim and my boobs reduced but guys weren't coming . I was as slim as a model o! Very pretty .but still no bf !

But after working for 6months and things were going well for me, I blew up again and I said to myself to hell mehn! If u like love my orobo shape or hate it i dont care , as long as am not overwieght ! But guess what!

Men started coming my way, men who loves big bold busty ladies . these set of guys will Beg and plead to date me! I feel so confident in my robust look! I even glowed more . As I type , am in a relationship with a guy who adores me for my brains, hardwork and busty big look. I am happy with whom am with . no regrets whatsoever . He's so proud of me, he introduces me to his friends, we go to occasions together . He makes me feel like a Queen. My shakara no be here o!

All my epistle is this : Love your self, train yourself , be good to yourself , the right men will come your way and u will be the one to make shakara and choose . If u make the wrong choice and he's behaving like an asshole? Bust his side ! And move on , don't dwell on people who makes u feel less of yourself . You DONT need such negative guys around u. Surround yourself with positive friends .

You are unique and special in your own way. So own it !

Wow! Best advice ever! You go girl! With your fine self

LivingFree:


Wow! Best advice ever! You go girl! With your fine self

Cheers pretty angel, thanks .

Shalomc:

Friends then... Hope we can get to meet up... probably church?

No thanks, still not interested.