and you capped it all by being the homophobic hypocrite is Bobrisky violating your rights?

darkchild64:
what we need to do in Nigeria is stop stigmatization, we like to judge others while we ourselves are bad people,wetin concern you with how anoda person satisfies him her self,if you are a lesbian be honourable enough to reject a marriage or even relationship request from a guy no matter the pressure, but if you go ahead to yield to the pressure,make sure you stay put ,I am masculine and heterosexual, but if I was actually gay,I wouldn't give the slightest f_uck to what u homophobic hypocrites think about me, if u like curse me all u like,I would live my life the way I choose as long as I'm not violating another person's right,if you are gay whether male or female feel great about yourself,you are special,but most importantly work hard to become someone so important and useful to the society so u can proof to everyone that sexuality is just a part of who we are,our sexuality does not define us,gay people are not sexually rebellious, they are only responding to their normal feelings the way heterosexual people do,so like I earlier said work hard to become someone that contributes to the society not necessarily in the way bobrisky does

mhisbliss:
Nice detective work, now that you know, what are you gonna do with it

Wait !!! Are you truly one of them ??

I sort of agree with the point of your original post that no one should marry another if they are not the sexual preference but don't you think it's silly to be basing your 'morality' on religious texts? Have you even read those books to know the immoral and senseless killings by god and his prophets in your holy book?

Why don't you first learn about homosexuality, learn the history and actually what's in your bible then see the unjust and discriminatory law in Nigeria against homosexuals. Hope you won't go beat up the demon out of your sibling if you find that they are homosexual.

The discriminatory law is what, by and large, caused your friends to end up in such marriages and trust, nobody's opening up to you about their sexuality with your religious dogmatic demeanor. Another thing, FYI homosexuality has been observed in animals and it's no longer news. You have a smartphone and an internet, use it. Check Quora to see how it is to be homosexual before you kill them because of a book of talking snakes and donkeys and moon splitting.

smeag0l:
The statement "but if I was actually gay,I wouldn't give the slightest f_uck to what u homophobic hypocrites think about me,if u like curse me all u like,I would live my life the way I choose..." will earn you a 14 year jail term in Nigeria.
Besides, I find one loophole in your argument.Being gay is not a normal feeling and goes against all moral and religious dogma except in places like the US where morality has being long thrown to the dogs. No one is born gay and science has tried so hard to refute this fact without making any headway. All those who claim to be gay inherited that sexuality by nurture and not nature. Also, your statement about being a lez and rejecting marriage proposal is what I'm actually advocating for. It happens abroad but over here, Nigerian lesbian ladies want to eat their cake and still have it. If you claim to be a lesbian, why not stand by it and damn every societal stigma. But no, they won't do that probably because of greed and also to save face. If they want to thread the path of destruction, why drag an innocent man into it?

TheEminentLaity:
and you capped it all by being the homophobic hypocrite is Bobrisky violating your rights?

when in my post did I abuse or say anything against bobrisky,do u understand the meaning of the word "homophobia", I am trying to say that gay people should not always become the type of people that bring negative attention like bobrisky does

p.s bobrisky say he is not gay,we don't know if he is telling the truth or not but at best we know he is a cross dresser

OfficialDad:
Lesbianism is understandable, but gay .

Anyway, my baby mama is a lesbian.

THAT'S BECAUSE UR OF THE OPPOSITE SEX.

kimbraa:
SMH.

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is it true?

mhisbliss:
Nice detective work, now that you know, what are you gonna do with it

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we will introduce you to bobrisky ..


y'all doing a great job for the lesbian community ,

you need to expand your horizon

Kimcutie:
Before I saw this thread I was thinking lesbianism is understandable but when I saw this thread, my thinking changed.

bros we on same page!


right now I don dey think otherwise ...


cuz it seems it's not all about the SEX again, its kinda spiritually inclined

midehi2:
saying 'I love a girl on social media doesn't make one a Lez.. that of a ring on forefinger, yes most of them do that, wearing of anklet is also not a sign of Lez

If so, then wearing of anklet is MAMIWATERISM.

MissRaine69:
I have no time not do I have any need to be identifying those that participate in same sex relationships or those that prefer to date the same sex.
What exactly will it achieve?

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it will save you of ignorantly getting married to one...



knowing the sings doesn't meant you should go about , identifying them, ...

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Still condescending towards Bobrisky. Like I asked, is Bobrisky violating your rights? The dude is quite popular and if you don't like him/her, why didn't you take your advice in the post I quoted, move on. Gay people can do as they choose, not according to your prejudices before they are accepted by you.

Read your post again and what I highlighted. If you don't still get it, fine. Not that serious anyway.

darkchild64:


when in my post did I abuse or say anything against bobrisky,do u understand the meaning of the word "homophobia", I am trying to say that gay people should not always become the type of people that bring negative attention like bobrisky does

p.s bobrisky say he is not gay,we don't know if he is telling the truth or not but at best we know he is a cross dresser

no be lie sha. go to ogbor hill area of aba, abia state 80% of the girls are lesbians and prostitute, any nairalander who leaves there can atest to that.

openmine:

Just learnt some thing new today about tabula rasa


"In Locke's philosophy, tabula rasa was the theory that at birth the (human) mind is a "blank slate" without rules for processing data, and that data is added and rules for processing are formed solely by one's sensory experiences."


Thanks for the enlightenment.... please permission to share your write-ups.... Thanks in advance!

If I am not wrong, Locke was an empiricist, you should read up other views. Philosophers like Plato were rationalists, they believed that man was born with reasoning. Better put,
Anamnesis.

smeag0l:
Hi All,

It took me a lot of cogitation before I could make this post. I also had to post this because I have seen a lot of comments from people encouraging the abominable act of lesbianism on nairaland (especially guys) that I begin to wonder where this generation of youths are headed.

First and foremost, going by the bible and quran, lesbianism is an abomination. I will give references from the bible because I am a Christian.The following verses of the bible:Leviticus 18:22, 20:13, Romans 1:24-28, I Corinthians 6:9-11, Jude1:7, I Timothy 1:10, I Kings 14:24, 15:12 all attest to the fact that homosexuality ,of which lesbianism is a subset, is evil.

However, the queer ones on the forum will always have a counter argument of fornication being also a sin to back up their nefarious way of life but this is not the crux of why I opened this thread so I will not dwell on the religious angle any further-I have an expose on this which I'll reserve for another day.

Secondly and the most important reason why I decided to open this thread is to warn guys(including the ones that have continually advocated for queer girls here on nairaland) on the disastrous impact of marrying a lesbian and how to identify if your girl is one whilst you're courting

Let me start by saying this. Most Nigerian girls living in Nigeria that claim to be bisexuals are, in fact, lesbians. They only claim bisexuality so as to be able to get a ring on the third finger of their left hand and answer a Mrs whilst they covertly continue their abominable acts.

They know that the African culture expects that they should get married at some point in their lives and their parents and relatives will keep putting pressure on them to do so.

Therefore, they just hook up with a guy, get married and make babies and then eventually make the guy's life miserable by continually denying him of sex and gallivanting around the country with their lesbian friends before filing for divorce most times on two grounds- sexual satisfaction and irreconcilable differences. I have seen this happen to three different guys and in the end, the guys ended up being disillusioned and poorer than when they met those girls. The sad part is that the ladies don't even get to check on their children as they are seen more in the company of their female friends in public places.

Guys, beware! Lesbianism is demonic and no matter how long your manhood is or how good you are in bed, you can't satisfy a lesbian as the kind of orgasm they have while making out with their female counterpart is longer and more frequent and also doesn't occur due to penetration. I had to say this because I have , over time, seen some useless comments from guys here saying that the girl has not seen a great manhood or a guy with great sexual prowess that's why she is still a lesbian. This is entirely false as lesbians are so addicted to their same sex partners and to the act that mere penetration from a man cannot give them orgasm.

Therefore, will all that have been said, guys here are signs that the girl you are dating is a lesbian(These may not be correct sometimes but they are very key leads to attest to this fact).

1. She admires only ladies on social media and you would occasionally see some comments from her on social media telling another girl "I love you" even when the girl is just an acquaintance who is not close to her.

2. She wears an anklet on THE RIGHT LEG or a colourful ring on their RIGHT FOREFINGER. I had to make the right leg emboldened because this is their insignia. I've seen about ten lesbian ladies wearing this and even spoke to one who also affirmed it.

3. If she is the butch lesbian(the male partner) she will most likely have a short hair, wear very light make up most times or even no make up and have short fingers(Because they use their fingers to pleasure their femme counterpart). Some of the butch ones also look like tomboys

4. Whenever she is intimate with her guy, they enjoy cunnilingus and fingering far more than penetration as this is the only way she can achieve orgasm most times.

5. On special occasions like her birthday or her boyfriend's birthday, she will indulge him with wild sexual orgies like anal sex or party (with the involvement of their other lesbian partner). Some of them even prefer anal to vaginal penetration.

6. You will always find lesbian porn on her phone or cached webpage history.

7. If she's the butch lesbian, she will dislike things like cooking, going to the market and laundry.

8. She's always an advocate of female rights and will pick a quarrel with you whenever you antagonize a female.

9. She prefers evening hang outs with a large company of girlfriend more than she enjoys it with you as her boyfriend.

10. She starts denying you sex immediately after marriage. This usually starts subtly and unnoticed until your sex life with your wife eventually becomes once in a month.

11. She has a vibrator and she doesn't orgasm from sex with you until she uses the vibrator. I agree some women are like this but if after a long time, you can't make your girlfriend orgasm except with the aid of a vibrator(or through cunnilingus or fingering) please suspect her.

12. If she is the femme, she has a very close friend she stays with or hangs around with/cannot do without and who has the characteristics listed in Number 3 above.


You can add yours as I leave the list for now. Please guys, be wise in choosing a partner. Do not destroy your life on the altars of beauty and physical appearance a most of these evil ladies are usually beautiful!

A World gone mad

Saff:
Maybe I’m a lesbian then . Proud lesbian!!

I thought as much

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Lol...

TheEminentLaity:
Still condescending towards Bobrisky. Like I asked, is Bobrisky violating your rights? The dude is quite popular and if you don't like him/her, why didn't you take your advice in the post I quoted, move on. Gay people can do as they choose, not according to your prejudices before they are accepted by you.

Read your post again and what I highlighted. If you don't still get it, fine. Not that serious anyway.

who says I don't like bobrisky,why are u putting words in my mouth

In the first quote of mine which I quoted I said that gay people must not always turn out to be like bobrisky,and for obvious reasons,bobrisky is doing more harm than good to the way people perceive gay people.
Now the problem is that u think I dislike bobrisky because he is a cross dresser,bro u should read all my comments on nairaland and u would see that I do not care how a person chooses to live his or her life,why I brought bobrisky up is not because I am trying to condemn his lifestyle, one thing u can't deny is the fact that when people often talk of gay people they use bobrisky as a standard and because obviously they detest bobrisky they feel that gay people are like him and condemn them in the same way,it would be different if you have a gay person contributing in a different way to the Nigerian society,let's say maybe in sports,Nigeria's best sprinter is gay,or in business,maybe one of the richest men or philanthropists in Nigeria is gay it would proof to people that homosexuality is not a basis to judge a person,homosexuals can also be useful to the society.
Now there are a few things I admire about bobrisky and of course there are a few things I have against him his cross dressing or social defiance is not one of them.

Saff:
Maybe I’m a lesbian then . Proud lesbian!!

Nice legs.

Saff:
Maybe I’m a lesbian then . Proud lesbian!!

Think about this ,if your mum was a lesbian

Saff:
Maybe I’m a lesbian then . Proud lesbian!!

Saff:
Maybe I’m a lesbian then . Proud lesbian!!

I am dating this lesbian girl, trust me they are the best if u understand them. Op am sure you've not had proximity with any, vis-a-vis your ignorance

openmine:

Just learnt some thing new today about tabula rasa


"In Locke's philosophy, tabula rasa was the theory that at birth the (human) mind is a "blank slate" without rules for processing data, and that data is added and rules for processing are formed solely by one's sensory experiences."


Thanks for the enlightenment.... please permission to share your write-ups.... Thanks in advance!

Permission granted sir

Why hasn't anyone identify me since nah...hey, if you're one let's hookup....

darkchild64:


well what you consider wrong or right is none of my business, what I am concerned with is that you obey your bible which says that you should treat others the way you want others to treat you,don't maltreat or abuse gay people SIMPLE, whether you consider them abnormal or not that is us own wahala

And you had to bring in the bible to justify and promote what God the author of that same Bible had and still condemns

Why hasn't anyone identify me since nah?? If you're one let's hookup please..

honestivo:

Think about this ,if your mum was a lesbian

gay people can still procreate,Jay z's mom is gay,50 cent's mom is gay,I mentioned theses ones because they are verifiable there are so many other examples

homosexuality simply means one sexually attracted to the same sex,even if the person doesn't have sex with a person of the opposite sex s/he can still procreate through IVF so being gay doesn't mean the person can't have a child,the argument that accepting homosexual people would lead to extinction is both ignorant as it is stupid,gay people can have kids

Archangel15:
I used to hate lesbians until I found out that my cousin was one..

So how did you handle the situation?

Amazing that after 9-10 pages not one pro-gay commenter has been able to counter some of op's salient points. They just kept repeating the following words;
Hypocrite
Uncivilized
Umexposed
Backward

Op, thanks for this thread.

midehi2:
saying 'I love a girl on social media doesn't make one a Lez.. that of a ring on forefinger, yes most of them do that, wearing of anklet is also not a sign of Lez

U re a prime suspect.

OfficialDad:


Finally someone with sense and skills quited me. Brow that's all she need. Fvck her to default

I smell a drill sergeant here, Bros no kill person pikin o, lol

darkchild64:


who says I don't like bobrisky,why are u putting words in my mouth

In the first quote of mine which I quoted I said that gay people must not always turn out to be like bobrisky,and for obvious reasons,bobrisky is doing more harm than good to the way people perceive gay people.

On the one hand, you say if you were gay, you wouldn't give a shït on how you are perceived by others, and on the other say Bobrisky has negative lifestyle and doing more harm to public perception of gays, not in your opinion, but obvious reasons.

Now the problem is that u think I dislike bobrisky because he is a cross dresser,bro u should read all my comments on nairaland and u would see that I do not care how a person chooses to live his or her life,why I brought bobrisky up is not because I am trying to condemn his lifestyle, one thing u can't deny is the fact that when people often talk of gay people they use bobrisky as a standard and because obviously they detest bobrisky they feel that gay people are like him and condemn them in the same way,

Your comments clearly expressed condemnation, however subtle. The thing I was trying to highlight to you from your earlier comment was that you kind of endorsed Bobrisky on one hand (you wouldn't give a shït if you were gay) and then condemned him in the end. We cannot control public perception, as much as we would want to. You don't have to be a philanthropist to be liked for your sexuality or help public perception of people of same sexuality, who would want to carry such a burden?

it would be different if you have a gay person contributing in a different way to the Nigerian society,let's say maybe in sports,Nigeria's best sprinter is gay,or in business,maybe one of the richest men or philanthropists in Nigeria is gay it would proof to people that homosexuality is not a basis to judge a person,homosexuals can also be useful to the society.
Now there are a few things I admire about bobrisky and of course there are a few things I have against him his cross dressing or social defiance is not one of them.

I understand what you mean, just wanted to highlight the contradiction in your comment. I only knew about Bobrisky because my younger sister finds him/her funny. Really, not a big deal.