before i begin, i wish to announce first that am broke with money (but not with ambition). Just so you can save yourself the stress of calling me broke in the comments section.

That said, i rarely woo girls and i don't expect them to woo me either.

So may we begin...

It is a known fact that women are more attracted to men with money (aka provider) than any other kind of man. If a man is handsome but does not have money, his handsomeness is probably useless to these women.

And guess what? Men all over the world have come to accept this fact, but Nigerian men over-accepted it. At whose detriment? Our own detriment!

Money is not restricted for men alone. Women make money too. But in Nigeria, when a woman makes money, it doesn't really count to the man who dates her because 'her money is her money and his money is our money' according to Nigeria Hookers Association (aka Nigerian women). Wrong mentality, but we still accepted. Let a woman's money remain her money, no problem.

But when a man's money becomes a woman's money before marriage, the man who spends the money on the woman and the woman being spent on are both mad. But one is madder than the other: the man.

When a woman is still under the care of her parents, does that not mean that the parents should be the one to take care of her expenses? Does that not mean that a man is there only to provide love and get it back at least until marriage? If really a woman wants to be taken care of (financially) by a man, why not pack your things and go live with him and bid your parents farewell? This way, we know you really want to be taken care of by your man alone. However, most women will still remain under their parents roof and will feel very confortable taking feeding money from a man outside. Proving to us that she is too broke to take care of herself and not only that, her dad is too broke to take care of her too. Yet she still has the gut to call a man broke and want him to own a car her father can't afford before approaching her. And you know the worst thing Nigerian men do? Accepting those responsibilities from a woman when she is not an orphan, because thats not supposed to be your responsibility.

I want to tell all men out there, a woman has no right to chop your money if you havent paid her bride price. She only has the right to your love. You can give her money if you have, but she doesn't have the right to make stupid demands from you like money for hair, money for menstrual pad, etc. Some even demand transport money to visit there own boyfriend. Common, its only normal for him to give you transport money after you must have visited and not before the visit. I wonder how many of you girls demand money from your aunty before paying her a visit. Yet the man you claim to love with all your heart, you tax him just so you could visit him, like you are doing him a favor or something.

I will end this by saying, if a woman should tax a man just because she is dating him, then it makes absolute sense for the man to make her a call girl and pay her for services rendered only. No heart break, no stories that touch, and definitely no stupid entitlement to your hard earned money.

It is important for Nigerian men to draw a line at certain points. A woman who isn't your wife yet only has the right to your love, care and attention as long as it is reciprocated. And you are compelled to always give it to her as long as you both are dating eachother. If you don't do this, she deserves the right to go her own way. It is only good of you to help her out with cash when you feel like and if need be, not mandatory. And she can do same too.

Thats all i have to say.

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It’s the same thing everyday. Are you people not tired? If you garrit and want to buy a porsche for your babe, do it. If you don’t have money and cannot afford to do anything, why do you want to kill yourself? I don’t understand what the essence of all this is? Always whining like sissies. Jesus.

Saff:
It’s the same thing everyday. Are you people not tired? If you garrit and want to buy a porsche for your babe, do it. If you don’t have money and cannot afford to do anything, why do you want to kill yourself? I don’t understand what the essence of all this is? Always whining like sissies. Jesus.

no one is complaining to you ma.

This thread is for men.

cry cry cry!!! weep weep weep!!!

Cutehector:
This is what this thread smells of...

what's this please

Ebuka2016:

no one is complaining to you ma.

This thread is for men.

sharrap. Wimp!

but she did not tie rope on your neck that you must give her money na

jessca048:
what's this please

send a pm, I will let you know

chiommy123:
but she did not tie rope on your neck that you must give her money na

but who said she did?

Most men feel the need to go out of there way to meet a lady's financial demands which is wrong.

A woman's sense of entitlement to a man's money when she is not yet married to him is wrong too and most Nigerian women are guilty of this.

Ebuka2016:

but who said she did?

Most men feel the need to go out of there way to meet a lady's financial demands which is wrong.

A woman's sense of entitlement to a man's money when she is not yet married to him is wrong too and most Nigerian women are guilty of this.

you still have the choice to see things her way or not to

I never chop boyfriends always complaining

There are ladies out there that are not like all these you mentioned... Brother, if she keeps asking you for money and you don't like that or you don't have; simple, leave her and find another...
Trying to change the way other men want to behave with their girlfriends is a dead end.

Ebuka2016:

but who said she did?

Most men feel the need to go out of there way to meet a lady's financial demands which is wrong.

A woman's sense of entitlement to a man's money when she is not yet married to him is wrong too and most Nigerian women are guilty of this.

...their...

Cutehector:
This is what this thread smells of...

Bros, this is an eye sore, take it down

chiommy123:
you still have the choice to see things her way or not to

yeah sure. This is just my opinion dear and am less busy today so i decided to share it here.

Ebuka2016:
before i begin, i wish to announce first that am broke with money (but not with ambition). Just so you can save yourself the stress of calling me broke in the comments section.

That said, i rarely woo girls and i don't expect them to woo me either.

So may we begin...

It is a known fact that women are more attracted to men with money (aka provider) than any other kind of man. If a man is handsome but does not have money, his handsomeness is probably useless to these women.

And guess what? Men all over the world have come to accept this fact, but Nigerian men over-accepted it. At whose detriment? Our own detriment!

Money is not restricted for men alone. Women make money too. But in Nigeria, when a woman makes money, it doesn't really count to the man who dates her because 'her money is her money and his money is our money' according to Nigeria Hookers Association (aka Nigerian women). Wrong mentality, but we still accepted. Let a woman's money remain her money, no problem.

But when a man's money becomes a woman's money before marriage, the man who spends the money on the woman and the woman being spent on are both mad. But one is madder than the other: the man.

When a woman is still under the care of her parents, does that not mean that the parents should be the one to take care of her expenses? Does that not mean that a man is there only to provide love and get it back at least until marriage? If really a woman wants to be taken care of (financially) by a man, why not pack your things and go live with him and bid your parents farewell? This way, we know you really want to be taken care of by your man alone. However, most women will still remain under their parents roof and will feel very confortable taking feeding money from a man outside. Proving to us that she is too broke to take care of herself and not only that, her dad is too broke to take care of her too. Yet she still has the gut to call a man broke and want him to own a car her father can't afford before approaching her. And you know the worst thing Nigerian men do? Accepting those responsibilities from a woman when she is not an orphan, because thats not supposed to be your responsibility.

I want to tell all men out there, a woman has no right to chop your money if you havent paid her bride price. She only has the right to your love. You can give her money if you have, but she doesn't have the right to make stupid demands from you like money for hair, money for menstrual pad, etc. Some even demand transport money to visit there own boyfriend. Common, its only normal for him to give you transport money after you must have visited and not before the visit. I wonder how many of you girls demand money from your aunty before paying her a visit. Yet the man you claim to love with all your heart, you tax him just so you could visit him, like you are doing him a favor or something.

I will end this by saying, if a woman should tax a man just because she is dating him, then it makes absolute sense for the man to make her a call girl and pay her for services rendered only. No heart break, no stories that touch, and definitely no stupid entitlement to your hard earned money.

It is important for Nigerian men to draw a line at certain points. A woman who isn't your wife yet only has the right to your love, care and attention as long as it is reciprocated. And you are compelled to always give it to her as long as you both are dating eachother. If you don't do this, she deserves the right to go her own way. It is only good of you to help her out with cash when you feel like and if need be, not mandatory. And she can do same too.

Thats all i have to say.

^Bro did they reject u?

LeHMaR:
There are ladies out there that are not like all these you mentioned... Brother, if she keeps asking you for money and you don't like that or you don't have; simple, leave her and find another...
Trying to change the way other men want to behave with their girlfriends is a dead end.

spot on bro. But them babes are influencing the good ones negatively

MrCork:


^Bro did they reject u?

no bro, they are negatively influencing the good girls out there.

Ebuka2016:

yeah sure. This is just my opinion dear and am less busy today so i decided to share it here.

OK sir

GrammarNazi1:
...their...

i did try a lot if that's the only blunder i commited. Thanks though

Cutehector:
This is what this thread smells of...

you are a very disgusting human being to have posted that here. I bet your mouth smells like that picture that's why you had no problem posting it here.

OP, it's true! I also noticed something about Nigerian men in other countries. The reason why girls from other African countries love Nigerian men is because of how we lavish money on them.

I went to school in a WA country, you need to see the way Nigerians use their school fees to rent houses for girls, don't even get me started on how they starve themselves for Girls. Why wont such a girl like you so much from the bottom of her heart?

I noticed another thing while schooling there; The native guys are very ruthless when it comes to treating their women, In fact, their women even feed them. But in turn, this has caused them to become more feminized as the women control their men very well, but the same cannot be said for a Nigerian guy as they are very controlling. So yeah, there's advantage and disadvantage to this whole thing.

Anus talk....

Uglymugg:
OP, it's true! I also noticed something about Nigerian men in other countries. The reason why girls from other African countries love Nigerian men is because of how we lavish money on them.

I went to school in a WA country, you need to see the way Nigerians use their school fees to rent houses for girls, don't even get me started on how they starve themselves for Girls. Why wont such a girl like you so much from the bottom of her heart?

I noticed another thing while schooling there; The native guys are very ruthless when it comes to treating their women, In fact, their women even feed them. But in turn, this has caused them to become more feminized as the women control their men very well, but the same cannot be said for a Nigerian guy as they are very controlling. So yeah, there's advantage and disadvantage to this whole thing.

the thing tire me sha but its better to waste money on these women than to be controlled by them

Saff:
It’s the same thing everyday. Are you people not tired? If you garrit and want to buy a porsche for your babe, do it. If you don’t have money and cannot afford to do anything, why do you want to kill yourself? I don’t understand what the essence of all this is? Always whining like sissies. Jesus.

And who says repeating discussions is not allowed. We need to iron things out. Why u broke, hopeless girls make derogatory statements about broke guys. God knows when I start making that millions, a lot of girls that will come my way will suffer

Ebuka2016:
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So, reasonable people like you still exist on Nairaland? Endorsed.