You found out that your wife is seeing another man  with substantial evidence and you still  love  her what would you do?
Would you forgive her? If yes on what ground?

Without thinking twice...Once she is sorry,I will forgive her..To even show my seriousness about 4giving her...i will lead her into d bedroom and make love to her than i ever did in my life...Atleast men too cheat!!!

Do u think she will not do it again?

Why would she..after thorough warning to her?

@Delawex
My wife seeing another man.....well, that's a toughie, but I can't imagine myself continuing that relationship. It just won't work.

_{Hanging in there is not even an option}

rikkyjen:

Without thinking twice...Once she is sorry,I will forgive her..To even show my seriousness about 4giving her...i will lead her into d bedroom and make love to her than i ever did in my life...Atleast men too cheat!!!

U r soo sweet.

I would normally say OH HELL NO! But right now, im thinking if my husband is sorry, i would forgive him. And after he promises not to do that again. Well if he does it again, then.... im sorry but it's gon be a OHH HELL NO!

i would definitely forgive him once i remember my love for him but if it happens more than 2wice tops, i'll take action _{i dont know what i'll do for now}

Dewalex:

You found out that your wife is seeing another man with substantial evidence and you still love her what would you do?
Would you forgive her? If yes on what ground?

wey my gun dey? Lord willing she is an Ibo gurl... I go collect all my money paid on bride price _{just dey joke oh!, cus una wicked}

If she says she kinda sorry and all that.. i will still keep the relationship.. with her..

smartsoft:

If she says she kind of sorry and all that.. i will still keep the relationship.. with her..

wt if she not sorry about it and you luv her so much?

Hmmm- fisrt what are you doing or not doing to make ur wife cheat on u?

It doesnt matter what u do or didnt do. If your wife is gon cheat, she's gon cheat.
If she the thinkin type, she'll sit u down and try to work out her relationship.


What will I do? I'll definitely remain single and/yet married. I'll excommunicate her for a while even if she's sorry. Most times beign sorry is just a natural reaction to a wrong deed..it does not guarantee she wont do it again. What needs is a change of attitude not just beign sorry.

If my silent treatment doesnt work. I'll excommunicate her. I can't divorce her because i know the spiritual significance of marriage.

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

If your wife cheats on you,do the same thing she would have done if you were in her shoes-------forgive her.

spread magun ^-thunderbolt for her

I guess i'll just walk out of her life. I'll fall apart and have to pick my pieces back again. But it can never remain the same. AS a catholic i cannot divorce her. We both cannot be as happy as before.

I will pack all her bags and baggages back to her fathers house.
Maybe when she stays there say 2-3 years she will be so sorry why she did such an awful thing to her one and only husband.
If she beautiful, I might consider bringing her back home but if she _wor-wor
Then it’s going to be a life ban.

would forgive her cos to heir is human to forgive is divine and try showing her more luuuuuuuuuuuuuuvvvvvvvvvvv i believe its bound to happen

a man should seek to find out why his wife is dating someone else. Dating and sleeping with someone else are different things. If she is having an emotional affair it could be because the man is not available and attentive to her needs but if it has gone deeper than an emotional affair to a sexual one then bigger questions have to be asked.


It is good to forgive!

If I discover that my wife is dating another man?, hmmmmmmmmm, that will end the marriage. The Bible said it all. That is the only thing that can brind about divorce.

The bible only permits that if she's been sleeping with that other man.

Oh Seun, the Bible says if she sleeps with the other man. Yes but where does it start?. Dating of course. But why should a married woman date another man? A married woman dating another man should be the most tangible excuse on the part of the husband to seek for divorce. My wife dating another man shows that she by her own hand has voluntarily decided to end the union. Mere suspicion is proof enough. Not to talk of seeing you do it. Period!!!!

Make sure she goes 4 an HIV test, wateva d result, base ur action on dat.

In the first place, i can't get married to a woman that will dare date another man outside our marriage home, because that we tell how irresponsible I am, so it cant happen, (2) it is demonic and satanic to think or belive that my wife will do that.

Kick her out of my life and remain single for ever. No two ways about that. God have mercy.

Love her key, i would forgive her but wouldnt take her back even with the love cos that memory will always be in my mind and that would make the marriage much difficult to bear.

By the way her lover would be flying out the window naked

Y must she, Or y would she, Infact,if i do,she will go Home,period!

Men and their one way thoughts, so what happens when you cheat on her, you expect her to stay and be your wife, geez marriage is not something you come in and out of, like when you were dating, if your wife is cheating on you then something must be wrong somewhere,

If your wife is cheating on you then something must be wrong. You're right about something being wrong!!! She must be out of her mind.

ima1:

Men and their one way thoughts, so what happens when you cheat on her, you expect her to stay and be your wife, geez marriage is not something you come in and out of, like when you were dating, if your wife is cheating on you then something must be wrong somewhere,

and what of when she cheats 4 d fun of it, what happens then?

chuckdee4:

and what of when she cheats 4 d fun of it, what happens then?

if she does it for the fun of it, then she deserves watever she gets, if she is really really sorry, then maybe you guys could talk n figure things out

Talk n figure things out ,you said. What do you talk and figure out with an adulterous woman?