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Castrate the bastard dating my ex wife. because that is what she has become. My ex,

is your wife SHITTING on you

My guy, the thing is that once you are married, the whole situation changes.

If you discover that with concrete evidence, and you still love her then you should give her another chance - there is nothing new under the sun.

But obviuosly the trust element is gone but if you allow her another chance, you will have to build that trust all over again. Its gonna be real hard cause whenever she receives fone calls or even goes out, you will be suspicious but tr as much as possible not to allow your suspicions run riot in your head.

And another thing is there is no flame without smoke - obviously you need to reflect on the fact that u may have contributed to the whole saga (maybe u work late or you just dont give her the time of day) but u just need to do alot of deep thinking.

Another thing is to see a real professional marriage counsellor. If you are believers dont leave it to ur pastors alone, let them assist you in prayers but go to a professional cause thats there job.

It shall be well but if you can, and yu still love her dont let this one go without a fight.

Good luck.

First of all, wat is she sorry about? what is it that made her to go out to do what she did? Your respond to this thread sound ridiculous! how can u forgive ur wife cheating on you? if u are a bachelor it's a different ball game but not wen u are married. we all have custom's and in some customs, such an act is punishable while in some, while you figure it out. let me just ask this few question, would you forgive your wife trying to kill you all in the name of i love her?

One should have seeing what sort of wife or man he or she is marrying. if you see the man or woman you are getting married too is a womanizer or a slut, you back out!! abi you go see fire go put your hand all in the name of love?

Abeg make we talk true.

There is nothing to talk abot with a cheat woman. let call a spade a spade. she out of my life and if you want to question me if am been faithful to her as well, yes i will be it not all men that are cheat but women will not believe that

I would jst love to believe that most of the guys shouting "kick her out" have/will not cheat on their wives otherwise MAKE THUNDER FRY THAT THAING IN BETWEEN YOUR LEGS for speaking so unforgivingly.

There are many reasons to why someone would cheat. If my husband cheats(God forbid!!) I think i'll seat n reason with him if:
1. I know he aint that kind of person
2.He's apologetic and remorseful

Contrary to this, Only God knows what will happen.

@amaikama, who knows she could cheat because in your "Oh so knowing" mind, u neglect to shower her with the little things she needs like attention, care, understanding, love, playfulness and instead put in pride and authoritativeness,

That said, have a swell day all

Naturalle!! i treat my girls with respect, love attention, care and what have you. I came to find out they wanted to be treated like dirt just recently i came to find out a girl a friend was dating was cheating on the guy even when they where dating she was cheating on him. Her character made the guy to leave her and guess what, she snatch her mothers boyfriend The mother had to leave the man for her. isn't that a shame A girl of least than 25 years old has started snatching her mothers boyfriend, what if she now get married?

wonders will never end!

End the marriage, move on with my life.

If it was one of those "burst into the house find her f1cking another dude" situations (like Mr Biggs and R Kelly:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sL4FHZUvv3Y&feature=related), there is a good chance I'd kill both of them though 

I know that this is dumb and would ruin my own life, but I'm just being honest.