Donlexybaze:
This is Nigeria!!!

Dami12345:
Just make her have emotional trauma for a while.
Then start removing your mind small small from her.
But stay with her.
Look this days they are all the same.
You girl is probably one of the best versions tho.

My advice is make her believe that she did the worst thing ever, look for ways to hurt her emotionally, you have to make her know that she did wrong, saying it doesn't count,
Then for your own peace of mind, delete her from your brain small small.
When you know that leaving her won't kill you, make the choice to stay or to go.

Bro if you leave her now, without something replacing her, you will feel withdrawal, it will be bad, she has messed up all your favorite places, your music, your house, you will start to realise how much she means and you would be tempted to become foot mat.

Ask her for details of what happened, tell her you want to figure out where you bleeped up with her, make her repeat the story over and over again, how many times they had sex, what styles, bro you need to hurt yourself to heal, and you need to hurt her if you want her to stay.

Sorry bro my girl did this exact same thing. Am telling you what I did, it was a bad time for me, I was Lucky she travelled so I couldn't break up instantly, am glad I didn't now, If I chose to cheat on her or leave her at the altar, I can always blame her for cheating .

Do I love her, maybe, does she love me, I would say she would be bleeped up if I leave her.

ifex370:




Too much oil in your brain... What then is the essence of dating....




Dating is total rubbish.. Thank God I realized that at an early age...its a waste if time... Cos today might be your girlfriend, tomorrow might be someone else's...



But never allow anyone have leverage over you

myke92:
Like I always say, cheaters hardly desist 100%...one way or the other, they go back., so the question is.. Can you cope with subsequent heartaches?

Dami12345:
Just make her have emotional trauma for a while.
Then start removing your mind small small from her.
But stay with her.
Look this days they are all the same.
You girl is probably one of the best versions tho.

My advice is make her believe that she did the worst thing ever, look for ways to hurt her emotionally, you have to make her know that she did wrong, saying it doesn't count,
Then for your own peace of mind, delete her from your brain small small.
When you know that leaving her won't kill you, make the choice to stay or to go.

Bro if you leave her now, without something replacing her, you will feel withdrawal, it will be bad, she has messed up all your favorite places, your music, your house, you will start to realise how much she means and you would be tempted to become foot mat.

Ask her for details of what happened, tell her you want to figure out where you bleeped up with her, make her repeat the story over and over again, how many times they had sex, what styles, bro you need to hurt yourself to heal, and you need to hurt her if you want her to stay.

Sorry bro my girl did this exact same thing. Am telling you what I did, it was a bad time for me, I was Lucky she travelled so I couldn't break up instantly, am glad I didn't now, If I chose to cheat on her or leave her at the altar, I can always blame her for cheating .

Do I love her, maybe, does she love me, I would say she would be bleeped up if I leave her.

wickyyolo:
Forgive her, and she will live the rest of her life trying to please you.

Don't listen to these devils in the forum telling you not to.

BanigoCharlesP:
My advice??



1.Avoid her for sometime. If not you'll make her have your ``mumu switch'' making her feel like she can control your emotions anytime she wants. Stop texting or phone calls. Talk less about her...



2. The fact that dude is in the same university with her will still give her the urge to go for more when you start begging her..



3. After some weeks call her but don't call her more than 2 times and when your talking don't talk about that Sh*t that happened.



4. Don't shout at her...



5. Don't always end the call with ``I love you''

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ImaIma1:
One good thing is that she is honest with her cheating. She will tell you everytime she cheates.

cryles:
thanks , to start all over wil not be easy for me buh the fear is dey said ladies do go back to there vomit.

cryles:
I av invest so much time In this girl than to start all over again. it will b hard for me to start all over again. pls I need advice from experienced man or woman what should I do.

Such a pity

If you want to live long, it's better you forget about the time invested. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage

Yeah there are cheats everywhere but if you forgive her, can you forget? Your trust has been betrayed and if it's no longer there, then the relationship is as good as dead.

wickyyolo:


What if she never told you ?

Do you like a lying woman or an honest one ?

Cut the crap....

A Cheat is a cheat whether lying or honest one.

ImaIma1:
One good thing is that she is honest with her cheating. She will tell you everytime she cheates.

lenghtinny:



Such a pity

If you want to live long, it's better you forget about the time invested. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage

Yeah there are cheats everywhere but if you forgive her, can you forget? Your trust has been betrayed and if it's no longer there, then the relationship is as good as dead.



Cut the crap....

A Cheat is a cheat whether lying or honest one.

cryles:
Good day sir/ma
I and my gf have been dating for the past five years now. she is jus the perfect girl for me that I dont cheat on her. I trust her to the core. until few days ago she told me she has offended me that I shld pls forgive her I ask her what is the offense she wil nt tell me until this night she told me she had sex with one guy ,thou she do tell me about this guy that he claim to love her buh due to religious his dad is a pastor and she being a Muslim can not go into relationship with him. They have bn friend during jamb tutorial before she gain admission and they also gain admission into the same university buh for the pass two years the guy has been disturbing her. she told me last week she went to charge and branch to his house in d evening and before she knew it they had sex. I was like did he tie u but she said no ,and I love this girl she is jus the perfect girl for me but what she told tonight is nt part of it at all. I av invest so much time In this girl than to start all over again. it will b hard for me to start all over again. pls I need advice from experienced man or woman what should I do.

Yabsun:
From your post, I could see you still love her though. The girl cheated on you and confessed, I see love here. Some girls will lock up and feign ignorance. The sex was consensual but as she confessed,I think she's remorseful and ready to avoid its recurrence. If there is assurance that that won't happen again, find a place in your heart to forgive her and love her still. It could also be you if the table were turned. A real hoe will never confess. Never!