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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Ishilove: 5:03am On Jun 17, 2018
The lady is truly speechless. She doesn't know which kind of lie to tell you.

Stories like this are why I always advise people to pray well when dating so that God can expose time wasters before they have a chance to live up to their nomenclature.

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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by MoonWater: 5:44am On Jun 17, 2018
drdaniels:
I'm finding it very difficult to type right now because I just discovered my fiancee just got married today.

Every member of my family were asking me why she didn't come but I tried to cover her up not knowing she had other plans. I wasn't happy with her because of her absence and attitude, so I didn't call her since then only to get the shocker this evening
God knows I really wanted to marry her
sorry about that but dont worry, she will still come back to fvck you. Make sure you disgrace her any time she comes. How you chose to execute that is your choice to make
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by GAZZUZZ(m): 6:57am On Jun 17, 2018
His body language was not convincing enough.

The other man hit the nail on the head, went straight to the point and took her straight to Mama, then paid the bride price. there's No greater assurance than that.

Finally you will need to improve on your "other room" skills, no woman will leave 4.0 V.6 for a 1.3. Learn to use that tool properly.

good luck in your future endeavours.

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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by GAZZUZZ(m): 6:58am On Jun 17, 2018
MoonWater:
sorry about that but dont worry, she will still come back to fvck you. Make sure you disgrace her any time she comes. How you chose to execute that is your choice to make

I doubt that seriously. One of the reasons she left was a lack of skill in that area.

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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by ednut1(m): 7:12am On Jun 17, 2018
Omo na wa o. I no dey carry woman matter for head grin. Immune to this kinda bulshit. No such tin as love beware
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by ednut1(m): 7:22am On Jun 17, 2018
GAZZUZZ:


I doubt that seriously. One of the reasons she left was a lack of skill in that area.
i doubt dat. Most ladies wont mind if u no get skil as long as u get money and wan marry dem. To marry na der life greatest life ambition. Dey wont mind getting prick outside

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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by GAZZUZZ(m): 7:40am On Jun 17, 2018
ednut1:
i doubt dat. Most ladies wont mind if u ni get skil as long as u get money and wan marry dem. To marry na der life greatest life ambition. Dey wont mind getting prick outside

Talking from experience?
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by ednut1(m): 7:56am On Jun 17, 2018
GAZZUZZ:


Talking from experience?
angry
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by CAPSLOCKED: 8:07am On Jun 17, 2018
hooklover:
Never trust a lady 100% ..They are very clever in deceit if a married lady can claim to be single and get married to another single man under the husband nose without him knowing u know d kind of beings u dealing with??


WHERE GOT ME WAS THE "PUT IT ANYHOW" THAT FOLLOWED HER RESPONSE OF "I DON'T KNOW HOW TO PUT IT" WHEN THE POSTER DEMANDED EXPLANATION.
HER FINAL ANSWER WAS A PROUD "NO".
NO EXPLANATION, NO APOLOGIES, NO REMORSE, NOTHING.
I'M LAUGHING SO HARD WITH PAIN IN MY HEART RIGHT NOW.
IT'S JUST SAD.

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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Twoclans(f): 8:19am On Jun 17, 2018
The word fiance is highly overused .When I was a baby I was told you can only call someone your fiance when bride price has been paid. Or appropriate ceremony and concurrence between the two families has been done.

Regardless its never right to keep someone you are sexually involved with in the dark about your decision to move on from the relationship irrespective of the gender.

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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by pedrilo: 8:20am On Jun 17, 2018
jessca048:
abeg free the babe,she can't afford to put all her eggs in one basket. do you have plans in marrying her less than a year. anyway take heart there are still plenty fishes in the sea go and fish for one.
ur thought process is nauseating

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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by GAZZUZZ(m): 8:24am On Jun 17, 2018
Twoclans:
The word fiance is highly overused .When I was a baby I was told you can only call someone your fiance when bride price has been paid. Or appropriate ceremony and concurrence between the two families has been done.

Regardless its never right to keep someone you are sexually involved with in the dark about your decision to move on from the relationship irrespective of the gender.


That one nah wife, with license to impregnate grin

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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by pocohantas(f): 8:40am On Jun 17, 2018
Ishilove:
The lady is truly speechless. She doesn't know which kind of lie to tell you.

Stories like this are why I always advise people to pray well when dating so that God can expose time wasters before they have a chance to live up to their nomenclature.

That's it, rather than try to explain and get it all wrong, she chose to be silent. I have a friend who pulled similar stunt, even me her so called friend didn't see it coming grin

She told me she was getting married the next month, claimed it just happened. The only thing that would have been a surprise might be the other guy proposing, but when she was dating two of them...she knew what she wanted.

It is a little over 2yrs now, I haven't spoken to her. If she had played it cool, we might still be in talking terms, but she started playing victim. OP, should just move. It is the hustle for marriage that causes all this. Sadly, it would keep happening.

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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Sterope(f): 8:51am On Jun 17, 2018
True
CaptJeffry:
Bro what happened?
You no serious with the relationship abi your wallet no dey heavy? grin

The moment dudes take hustling more serious than relationships, cases like this will stop hitting the pages of Nairaland. undecided
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Originalsly: 8:59am On Jun 17, 2018
Take heart...it 8s better for you it happened this way.... it is only now you're finding out she is deceitful. Guess she got you to agree no sex until marriage.... while the other guy got green light all along. Move on....open your eyes ..wide...before jumping into marriage decision with your ehmmm....next fiancee.
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Nobody: 9:16am On Jun 17, 2018
drdaniels:
I'm finding it very difficult to type right now because I just discovered my fiancee just got married today.

My sister got married on June 2nd and my girl was supposed to make up for the bride but she gave a silly excuse not to attend despite that I already bought thesame native attire for her and myself for the event.

Every member of my family were asking me why she didn't come but I tried to cover her up not knowing she had other plans. I wasn't happy with her because of her absence and attitude, so I didn't call her since then only to get the shocker this evening
God knows I really wanted to marry her

wtf bro!

You must be on a celestial level of dumb to not know your girl was getting married.

You guys keep letting women get away with things like this angry

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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Nobody: 9:25am On Jun 17, 2018
You all need to stop turning women into Lord of the Ring

Don't propose until you are able to do the wedding in 6 to 9 months.

Your case is a lil different (OP) because you had the wedding outfit already which suggests you were planning the wedding to happen real soon (I hope)

I wouldn't wear an engagement ring without wedding plans in place.

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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Ishilove: 9:30am On Jun 17, 2018
pocohantas:


That's it, rather than try to explain and get it all wrong, she chose to be silent. I have a friend who pulled similar stunt, even me her so called friend didn't see it coming grin

She told me she was getting married the next month, claimed it just happened. The only thing that would have been a surprise might be the other guy proposing, but when she was dating two of them...she knew what she wanted.

It is a little over 2yrs now, I haven't spoken to her. If she had played it cool, we might still be in talking terms, but she started playing victim. OP, should just move. It is the hustle for marriage that causes all this. Sadly, it would keep happening.
I hope at the end the deceit is worth the breaking of friendships and the betrayal. Some women sef
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by pocohantas(f): 9:33am On Jun 17, 2018
Ishilove:

I hope at the end the deceit is worth the breaking of friendships and the betrayal. Some women sef

Considering the status of her husband, I think it is worth it grin
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Michelle55: 9:33am On Jun 17, 2018
cry I'm sorry this happened to you but take it as one of those things we usually experience in life and move on.. it's gonna be hard moving on but you can't change what has already happened so the best therapy is to wish her well and face your life squarely, your own God designed woman will waltz into your life sooner than you think. it might also be a sign that both of you ain't meant to end up together as a couple. I always believe that as humans that what we ask and pray for will eventually be given to us but not in the exact package we want it but in the package God thinks is best for us. so believe she's not yours and wait for your own that wouldn't leave you in good or bad weather!! be happy because you need and deserve it.

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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by CyberWolf: 9:35am On Jun 17, 2018
Maybe she told you no sex till marriage and you agreed, told same to the other guy but he insisted and had his way, then the banging threw her off balance and like they say, the rest is history.. This is just assumption because I don’t know what happened. Take heart and move on, this is life..

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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Ishilove: 9:35am On Jun 17, 2018
pocohantas:


Considering the status of her husband, I think it is worth it grin
She followed money and betrayed everyone. I sincerely hope the marriage fails angry

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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by lereinter(m): 9:35am On Jun 17, 2018
jessca048:
abeg free the babe,she can't afford to put all her eggs in one basket. do you have plans in marrying her less than a year. anyway take heart there are still plenty fishes in the sea go and fish for one.

it will happen to u too

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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by lereinter(m): 9:39am On Jun 17, 2018
were you in a long distance relationship

abi she's not really your fiancee

maybe gf

I don't know how insensitive

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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Nobody: 9:42am On Jun 17, 2018
pocohantas:


That's it, rather than try to explain and get it all wrong, she chose to be silent. I have a friend who pulled similar stunt, even me her so called friend didn't see it coming grin

She told me she was getting married the next month, claimed it just happened. The only thing that would have been a surprise might be the other guy proposing, but when she was dating two of them...she knew what she wanted.

It is a little over 2yrs now, I haven't spoken to her. If she had played it cool, we might still be in talking terms, but she started playing victim. OP, should just move. It is the hustle for marriage that causes all this. Sadly, it would keep happening.
I never see person wey lie pass you for this forume.You always have experience/story to tell on every issue angry cho cho cho cho cho like parot

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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by pocohantas(f): 9:48am On Jun 17, 2018
Ishilove:

She followed money and betrayed everyone. I sincerely hope the marriage fails angry

I don't hope so ahbeg, I really do wish her the best.
Tbh, I felt hurt, for the ex especially. I realised she played us both.
LOL...

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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by wagazala: 9:50am On Jun 17, 2018
EgunMogaji:


I’m not even sure why he’s all soapy.

He should be with his friends at a club.

I'm sure he's soapy cos he didn't get to hit it. If had been tadadada he ought to be popping a few with his mates celebrating as you suggested.
I mean, why get weary over a girl. Plenty more fish in the sea.

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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by sexy74(m): 10:06am On Jun 17, 2018
drdaniels:
I'm finding it very difficult to type right now because I just discovered my fiancee just got married today.

My sister got married on June 2nd and my girl was supposed to make up for the bride but she gave a silly excuse not to attend despite that I already bought thesame native attire for her and myself for the event.

Every member of my family were asking me why she didn't come but I tried to cover her up not knowing she had other plans. I wasn't happy with her because of her absence and attitude, so I didn't call her since then only to get the shocker this evening
God knows I really wanted to marry her
My brother thank God it happened now and like this. You have one person less to worry about and get focused for better thing to come in your life.
She has never been for you, she was just using you to mark time.
If you where more observant you would have seen signs.
Learn this one too, never cover up for a woman's misdeed to your family.

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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by princepee: 10:51am On Jun 17, 2018
Things ladies do for money, I believe the other is richer and she feels more secure with him,.., the hustle is real,. And ladies could be very deceitful if their chose to be, take heart mannn! Work hard make some money u will have a lot girls running after u.
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by emelda86(f): 11:31am On Jun 17, 2018
This is the height of wickedness gosh...u don't do that to someone you claim to love haba!!!

Op take heart your true love will locate
Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by Nobody: 11:51am On Jun 17, 2018
Is she the same girl in this ur previous story?
Answer fess lemme know how to advise you.

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Re: Just Discovered My Fiancee Got Married Today by dingbang(m): 11:57am On Jun 17, 2018
All the females commenting here are advising the man to move on, well I agree with them 100percent, but let it be known to these confused souls that when this same situation happens to a sister, I hope they all will give the same advise to her, telling her that shitt happens and she should move on..


Have a blessed day

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