Like seriously. I've been dating a girl for sometime now (past a year) and we are getting pretty serious. Anyways yesterday I wanted to see her and I gave her a call. She asked me to come over to her house. I told her I wanted to take her out and she agreed. As I got there, her friends (besties?) Came over and said they wanted to drop by. As they understood what was going on, they said they wanted to tag along. We agreed and went to Captain cook. We ordered and these friends were ordering like ther was no tomorrow. Even my GF asked if what they were ordering wasn't too much but they ignored her and kept doing their thing. Afterwards, they asked me (again) to buy them takeaway. I didn't have much money on me to buy takeaway so I had to buy them Captain Cook bread for each of them. I was so drained that I'm still recovering. My GF has never done such. I was just saying " Shey awon elebi leleyi ni" ( Yoruba guys will understand ). I just wanted to know if all girl's friends are like this if they are taken out. I will never forget this. P.S: I'm not generalizing women o.

whatever happened to saying no.

Some are just callous in nature

weyreypey:
whatever happened to saying no.

man... I like this gal a lot that's why the relationship could last this long. To fumble in front of her friends could be Game Over for me. Her friends opinion about me could sway her attention away from me. It has happened to me. Twice.

Money wey u for use play bet9ja or even carry olosho na him u waste like this.

Hahaha

LukeSkywalker78:
man... I like this gal a lot that's why the relationship could last this long. To fumble in front of her friends could be Game Over for me. Her friends opinion about me could sway her attention away from me. It has happened to me. Twice.

You are not yet man enough to man a woman.

weyreypey:

You are not yet man enough to man a woman.

please explain sir. I'm listening.

Itzmax:
Money wey u for use play bet9ja or even carry olosho na him u waste like this.


Hahaha

me sef don day see am

LukeSkywalker78:
man... I like this gal a lot that's why the relationship could last this long. To fumble in front of her friends could be Game Over for me. Her friends opinion about me could sway her attention away from me. It has happened to me. Twice.

BS. if you cant say no to your girlfriend and her friends then i think you fully deserve what they did to you. mistake you made was allowing her friends tag along in the first place but anyways i heard love is blind.

Cuteamigo1:
BS. if you cant say no to your girlfriend and her friends then i think you fully deserve what they did to you. mistake you made was allowing her friends tag along in the first place but anyways i heard love is blind.

I couldn't imagine myself saying no. Guess its true.

LukeSkywalker78:
man... I like this gal a lot that's why the relationship could last this long. To fumble in front of her friends could be Game Over for me. Her friends opinion about me could sway her attention away from me. It has happened to me. Twice.

This is BULLshit.....You're asslicking your gf's ass for the sake of keeping a relationship that's not certain?? She can dump ur sorry ass anytime, whether you give her heavens on earth....

What stops you from telling them No? Or you have just enough for you and your girl?

After forming indimi you now here whining

LukeSkywalker78:
I couldn't imagine myself saying no. Guess its true.

well trust me you must learn to if not you might regret it later. wish you goodluck with your girl.

Me nah to answer call dey go close to bus stop ooo

Yu no d rest

LukeSkywalker78:
man... I like this gal a lot that's why the relationship could last this long. To fumble in front of her friends could be Game Over for me. Her friends opinion about me could sway her attention away from me. It has happened to me. Twice.

You sound as if she's doing you a favour by dating you
#opinion

LukeSkywalker78:
Like seriously. I've been dating a girl for sometime now (past a year) and we are getting pretty serious. Anyways yesterday I wanted to see her and I gave her a call. She asked me to come over to her house. I told her I wanted to take her out and she agreed. As I got there, her friends (besties?) Came over and said they wanted to drop by. As they understood what was going on, they said they wanted to tag along. We agreed and went to Captain cook. We ordered and these friends were ordering like ther was no tomorrow. Even my GF asked if what they were ordering wasn't too much but they ignored her and kept doing their thing. Afterwards, they asked me (again) to buy them takeaway. I didn't have much money on me to buy takeaway so I had to buy them Captain Cook bread for each of them. I was so drained that I'm still recovering. My GF has never done such. I was just saying " Shey awon elebi leleyi ni" ( Yoruba guys will understand ). I just wanted to know if all girl's friends are like this if they are taken out. I will never forget this. P.S: I'm not generalizing women o.

You be real mugu!!

Before you learn you must first fall victim...

Do guys know that a lady will respect you more if you are the type that can say no in such situation. Bros if na me, I will simply put a stop loss , I mean a limit to what I will pay for and make it clear that any more thing they pick or order they pay. I have done it many many times even with just a girl, even with the one wey never gree go the other room

LukeSkywalker78:
please explain sir. I'm listening.

No matter how close those girls are to your gf she should be able to excuse the two of you and tell them it's a private outing.

Don't be surprised if she actually called her friends to come tag along and don't be surprised if you are her maga or side boo.

I'm sure they are busy laughing at you right now.

Girls be wicked like that.

Headlesschicken:
Before you learn you must first fall victim...

Or continously fall victim....

I remember back in my days in school, I wanted to just get lunch with this girl i really liked. Not like I was broke, but I had a budget. And along came her friends. I just brought out all the money i had then on me. 1,500 and handed it over to the chic . "See , this is all I have , you, do the buying with it."

She by her self told her friends to excuse .

Ladies, i get it that sometimes you want to give your friends a treat or maybe to impress them. But its not the way .

And you single hungry friends that lurk in the dark, looking for your friends boyfriend to treat you to a free meal. Except he invited you. Stay the hell away!

Shameless Hungry bunch!!! I'm sure there is a special place in hell for you guys.

And this has nothing to do with being broke... Some people run on budgets.

LukeSkywalker78:
Like seriously. I've been dating a girl for sometime now (past a year) and we are getting pretty serious. Anyways yesterday I wanted to see her and I gave her a call. She asked me to come over to her house. I told her I wanted to take her out and she agreed. As I got there, her friends (besties?) Came over and said they wanted to drop by. As they understood what was going on, they said they wanted to tag along. We agreed and went to Captain cook. We ordered and these friends were ordering like ther was no tomorrow. Even my GF asked if what they were ordering wasn't too much but they ignored her and kept doing their thing. Afterwards, they asked me (again) to buy them takeaway. I didn't have much money on me to buy takeaway so I had to buy them Captain Cook bread for each of them. I was so drained that I'm still recovering. My GF has never done such. I was just saying " Shey awon elebi leleyi ni" ( Yoruba guys will understand ). I just wanted to know if all girl's friends are like this if they are taken out. I will never forget this. P.S: I'm not generalizing women o.

Na OAU student you be, sounds familiar aswear but Niga, u got to be bossy, smart n a man and say NO most times!!!

weyreypey:
whatever happened to saying no.

E tire me ooh, abi him no go leave dem there commot.

I went for lunch with someone today, I took bottled water and I saw a friend on my way, she joined us and I paid for her food. Don't go and show a guy that you have hungry friends and be insulted. Mr man tell your babe to caution her friends before she lands u in trouble.

Pesin wey dey form big boy like U no dey complain

Next time when she invites her friends over on a date without ur notice. Concentrate (flirt) on one of the friend, the beautiful one of course. The rest is history.

You should have told them heads on that you don't have much on you.

LukeSkywalker78:
man... I like this gal a lot that's why the relationship could last this long. To fumble in front of her friends could be Game Over for me. Her friends opinion about me could sway her attention away from me. It has happened to me. Twice.

It says a lot about you ,but it also says a lot about your girlfriend
She can't even tell her friends to back off from ripping her man off. That's pathetic
This is the kind of girl that will allow her family members badge in on yalls privacy when you are married

BTW you are dating a girl with lots of hungry friends .what does that make your girlfriend...
Birds of a feather always flock together you know

els0nm0rali:


No matter how close those girls are to your gf she should be able to excuse the two of you and tell them it's a private outing.

Don't be surprised if she actually called her friends to come tag along and don't be surprised if you are her maga or side boo.

I'm sure they are busy laughing at you right now.

Girls be wicked like that.

wow.................. Just wow....

generationz:

It says a lot about you ,but it also says a lot about your girlfriend
She can't even tell her friends to back off from ripping her man off. That's pathetic
This is the kind of girl that will allow her family members badge in on yalls privacy when you are married

BTW you are dating a girl with lots of hungry friends .what does that make your girlfriend...
Birds of a feather always flock together you know

but what I know is that she has never done such to me before. Her friends her hungry (fact) but I think she's different.