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Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by MAJORBANKZ(m): 10:03am On Jun 28, 2018
just take her out and shower her with gifts. She will forgive ur sins.
Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by sexdoll: 10:04am On Jun 28, 2018
this is for only those niggaz who make women their priority in life... undecided

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Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by HarkymTheOracle(m): 10:05am On Jun 28, 2018
justscorchone:
Fvck outta here,if I'm with you then gaddammit I care about you,I could be with Esther or Ngozi but I chose you to spend time with,don't waste my damn time being petty.
ma nigga
Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by AK481(m): 10:09am On Jun 28, 2018
EntertainingYou:
Learning how to make up with your girlfriend the right way can take some time. Navigating those rough waters is a lot easier with some help, though.
So you got in a fight. Big deal. It happens to every couple out there and it’s not the end of the world – or the relationship. It just means you have differing thoughts and opinions about something. If you don’t make an effort to figure out how to make up with your girlfriend, issues can arise.

But that’s not always as easy as it sounds. When couples argue, tension is on the rise and rational thinking doesn’t always find a place. Being able to make up after a fight and get back to a loving place can take time to learn.

Relationships are all about the give and take

This applies to almost every area of your relationship. You can’t just be with someone and expect them to always give in to your requests and opinions. In order to make it work and remain healthy, there has to be some level of give and take.

Otherwise, one person will just resent the other. The more you take, the less the other person is going to want to give you. This creates friction and enough of that, and your relationship will burn down into a pit of charred misery.

How to make up with your girlfriend and keep your relationship healthy

If you truly want a happy relationship, then your goal should be a HEALTHY relationship. And that means knowing how to make up with your girlfriend in a way that not only keeps her happy, but in a way that also provides a learning opportunity for you as a couple. Here’s how to nail that down.

#1 Take a breather. You’re no good to her if you’re heated and still angry. People do dumb things out of anger and you never want to do something you might regret simply because you’re in a fight.

So go take a break. Calm yourself down and then return to her when the two of you can actually talk things out. Being able to step away can also help you see things more clearly and help you think rationally about the situation.

#2 Discuss the argument. And when I say, “discuss,” I mean actually sit down and talk about it like adults. No yelling. No slamming doors. You have to be able to talk about it in normal tones or else you won’t be able to make up with your girlfriend. So calm down enough to get to this level and then go to her.

#3 Put your own thoughts aside while you listen. Let her explain herself. Just like you want to get your own thoughts out, so does she. She deserves the opportunity to tell you why she feels a certain way. So put your own thoughts aside as she does this so you’re not constantly putting her down even in your mind.

#4 Acknowledge your part in the argument. Two people are always at fault for one reason or another. If you always claim innocence, you’ll never be able to make up with her. Acknowledge what you did and even apologize for it in order to make up with your girlfriend.

#5 Apologize for anything harmful you did. And even what you said. There are things you may have did or said in the heat of the moment that’ll make it harder for you two to get back to a peaceful state. Apologize for the things you did wrong and just own up to them. It’ll help you get back on her good side.

#6 Try to understand where she’s coming from. It’s easy to be selfish in arguments. You have something to say and you’ll be damned if it won’t be heard. But you have to take a step back and think about things the way she’s explaining them. Understand why she feels the way she does and it’ll help you solve the issue at hand.


#7 Put yourself in her shoes. Take the previous tip a step further and actually put yourself in her shoes. You may not be able to understand what she’s talking about from the way you’re looking at things.

Think about how you’d feel if you were her. Think about how things would look if you were in her position. This is a great way to see how your actions can be completely construed given how they’re seen.

#8 Talk about what’s really bothering you. Most arguments are a result of a much larger issue. It’s like you hit a wall and can’t hold anything back anymore. So although you may have left the toilet seat up again, your girl could be upset for bigger reasons.

You have to talk about the things that are really upsetting the both of you. This might not be something you can do right away but it is beneficial to work on communication in your relationship as a whole. It’ll help you figure out how to make up with your girlfriend a lot easier.

#9 Initiate some physical contact. After feelings have simmered and you’re actually talking, go ahead and make some physical contact. Hold her hand or place your hand on the small of her back. You can even hug her. Just don’t do this while tension still runs high.

#10 Do something nice for her. Getting her flowers as a replacement for, “I’m sorry” is never a good idea. That being said, if your argument is over but there are still hurt feelings, do it. Get her something you know she’ll love as a means of showing her just how much you want to make things right.

#11 Show her you’re sorry. It’s not always enough to just say so. Your actions have to change – but so do hers. It really depends on what your arguments were about. But if you’re looking to know how to make up with your girlfriend, you may have been in the wrong here. Show her a difference and she’ll forgive you.

#12 Give her some time to simmer down. You can’t just keep running at her with apologies and stuff she doesn’t want to hear. You have to give her time to relax and get to a place where she can discuss things. If you don’t, she might just be too irritated to accept any form of apology.

The worst thing you can do is let your arguments and fights go on without trying to make them better. These tips will help you figure out how to make up with your girlfriend and actually improve your relationship.



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Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by Nobody: 10:17am On Jun 28, 2018
JUST BE GIVING HER MONEY. NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO SHE WILL NEVER BE MAD AT YOU.
TAKE EXAMPLE FROM CHIOMA AND DAVIDO.
Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by Klington: 10:17am On Jun 28, 2018
dominique:
Hmmm
But if the girl is the one guilty, how should she make up with her man and show that she truly cares?
what's good for the jews is also good for Uganda.....

Follow same process

And please try to be honest....

Most of you ladies are annoyingly dishonest tongue tongue
Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by mtngloetiartel: 10:18am On Jun 28, 2018
Emekus92:
After that Hot sex should follow
jesu!
Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by Lordwheez(m): 10:21am On Jun 28, 2018
justscorchone:
Fvck outta here,if I'm with you then gaddammit I care about you,I could be with Esther or Ngozi but I chose you to spend time with,don't waste my damn time being petty.
No time for shit....
Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by indie22(f): 10:35am On Jun 28, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
just date a younger, prettier, richer, lighter, thinner girl and your Ex will be begging you to come back faster than you can say "envy is a woman's weakness"


This is why you're still single and no one loves you.
Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by Just2endowed2(m): 10:44am On Jun 28, 2018
GrammarNazi1:

Trash...

Thanks prof... grin
Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by dabiriy(m): 10:45am On Jun 28, 2018
Give her money ,send her money , transfer money to her
Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by tomnmenace(m): 10:49am On Jun 28, 2018
justscorchone:
Fvck outta here,if I'm with you then gaddammit I care about you,I could be with Esther or Ngozi but I chose you to spend time with,don't waste my damn time being petty.


cheesy cheesy cheesy grin
Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by maisauki: 11:04am On Jun 28, 2018
opsyswagger:
Op.. don't forget to add this also...... always send her money everyweek........ grin grin grin angry
like forty three naira twenty one kobo deducted from her account so that she'll be able to withdraw her money in full from d ATM wink
Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by MISEDUCATIONS: 11:05am On Jun 28, 2018
indie22:


This is why you're still single and no one loves you.
you're just being mean because my words hurt you.
Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by Constie(f): 11:19am On Jun 28, 2018
smiley grin cheesy Issokay....
Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by jrklinz: 11:40am On Jun 28, 2018
The magic word is "understanding"cus sumtimes 2 pipple are'nt just meant 2 b.no matter hw much they agree or disagree.b wise 2 pull out 4rm a relationship dat is heading no where & b gentle 2 respect she who understands.
Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by Curiouspet: 11:58am On Jun 28, 2018
This can only happen if the guy is in love with the lady... On other news
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Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by phenomem(m): 12:13pm On Jun 28, 2018
dominique:
Hmmm
But if the girl is the one guilty, how should she make up with her man and show that she truly cares?

Dearie... There is no way the woman will be at fault. Like the writer said, douse the tension and settle things when things and a lot calmer later

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Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by indie22(f): 2:02pm On Jun 28, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
you're just being mean because my words hurt you.

Not really, your post didn't make sense...so i had to comment.
Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by MISEDUCATIONS: 2:12pm On Jun 28, 2018
indie22:


Not really, your post didn't make sense...so i had to comment.
if it doesnt make sense then why dont you ask for clarification? is it easier to just say mean things instead of asking me to explain myself?
Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by Nobody: 3:32pm On Jun 28, 2018
the time you spent on this research will be better if you invest it on researching skills that can make us more money.
Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by sweetilicious(f): 9:10pm On Jun 28, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
just date a younger, prettier, richer, lighter, thinner girl and your Ex will be begging you to come back faster than you can say "envy is a woman's weakness"
Such a dumb comment.
Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by JossyOloye(m): 2:55am On Jun 29, 2018
That number 10 or 12 weak me o...Get flowers for Nigerian ladies?
Re: 12 Ways To Make Up With Your Girlfriend And Show Her You Truly Care by MISEDUCATIONS: 6:04am On Jun 29, 2018
sweetilicious:
Such a dumb comment.

MISEDUCATIONS:
just date a younger, prettier, richer, lighter, thinner girl and your Ex will be begging you to come back faster than you can say "envy is a woman's weakness"

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