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Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by Oyindidi(f): 7:40am On Jun 28, 2018 |
jaksmillioniar:Learn to stay your lane!!!!! Stop mentioning people that careless about you. I wonder why you can't stay on your lane. 5 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by eyinjuege: 7:45am On Jun 28, 2018 |
cococandy: Hahahaha Coco, na your paddy you dey yab o. He's your bestie na 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by ahnie: 7:51am On Jun 28, 2018 |
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Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by ahnie: 7:51am On Jun 28, 2018 |
@op Babies that age are hyper active from the crawling stage.its the duties of the mother to always keep watch over the child.your wife was careless,yeah very careless.how can your child wander from your sight,and you seem non challant about it.how does she even feels! |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by Nobody: 8:10am On Jun 28, 2018 |
LET YOUR WIFE GET A JOB! she's not making good use of her Full house wife material! Register your child in a nursery (at least you're sure of the service you're paying for) Someone has explained better in page 0 3 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by cococandy(f): 8:28am On Jun 28, 2018 |
Nothing in my post is expensive to do. Because it’s not a common practice doesn’t mean it can’t be done. Maybe we need to talk about it more so people can know about those options. And I didn’t say to not check on them. It’s just impractical to expect one to have an eye on the child 24/7. If he’s working and there’s no house help, will she cook, go to the toilet or even bath? That’s when such things come in handy. With a simple plastic child fence, a toddler can be quarantined into one section of the house with their favorite toys. while the Mom takes care of the house or even takes care of herself instead of being 100 percent exhausted all the time trying to prove good mom that no one is going to give her an award for. Many of us survived not because our mothers were perfect. We survived because of sheer good luck. ImaIma1: 8 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by cococandy(f): 8:30am On Jun 28, 2018 |
eyinjuege:There’s something off about that fellow One minute sweet and one minute sour . With eye-hurting grammar to go with it. 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:53am On Jun 28, 2018 |
dingbang: Mind your business, dude! No matter what. No matter what. I'll never careless. Now run! |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by Nobody: 9:04am On Jun 28, 2018 |
Extreme case of laziness. 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by lastmessenger: 9:15am On Jun 28, 2018 |
Dami12345:bruh which Bollywood movie have you been watching? Abeg pass me the DVD. 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by Nobody: 9:27am On Jun 28, 2018 |
dingbang: Der no d sabi woman finish o. |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by JustAsking247: 9:30am On Jun 28, 2018 |
Thanks guys for all the comments atleast have picked a thing or two from comments. About her getting a job, No she has a good job. I'm an entrepreneur with few businesses setup before i married her so she's Oga's wife/madam in the companies. She manages one in particular and goes there daily to monitor activities. Cash's not a problem. About hiring another nanny, well i tried after the girl left but madam can't stand the presence of another lady in the house. Haba! just say you want to bring your girlfriend to live with us,,,,,,she'll roar. Suspicions upon suspicions. Ok choose a girl of you choice and put her on the pay list like the previous but its taking forever cos she does not want to bring a 'witch' or someone that will come and 'steal' her man. The previous house assistant was from her hometown. yettymuse: |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by Dami12345: 9:40am On Jun 28, 2018 |
lastmessenger: I actually do stuff like this with girls, I realised that girls like the rollacoster of love, they love their man being unpredictable, they love seeing shades of you, hence the drama, I prefer to just say something but talk is cheap to a woman, show her wat you mean, Besides I hate Bollywood movies, all I like about them are the hot ladies. |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by Dami12345: 9:53am On Jun 28, 2018 |
JoannaSedley: I was pissed at this reply, you say the husband should take the lead , then what the fucvk should the lady do at home, she's just lying about, is it the man who is working should still be taking care of the child, even worse he should also be worried over the child because he knows that should the child be drowning the lady wouldn't even know? If you fear your wife I guess the best thing to do is anything she says, like this woman here suggested. 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by JustAsking247: 9:53am On Jun 28, 2018 |
mimimile93: While I sympathize with them over the loss and wouldn't put blames on anyone, I feel couples should learn to speak out or get help whenever they notice anything odd to avoid putting our kids on harms way Prevention they say is better than cure Again, those who know how to teach couples concerning kids-care should be inspired to teach more. Churches/Doctors (Pediatricians) should be more concern as well.. 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by Dami12345: 10:01am On Jun 28, 2018 |
eyinjuege: This is horrible and bad advise. This will only lead to divorce eventually, because someone out there will apply a firm hand to her and that the end of the marriage. She should find a job and start sleeping around abi? Am nota saying she shouldn't work but there must be some discipline first and fear of the husband, " even the bible says we should fear God" Self control comes from such a healthy fear, she has to know that their are repercussions to her actions, besides I would rather have to replace all her clothes than have to visit the grace of my child, look at dbanj now, am guessing the op doesn't want to feel that way. |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by Dami12345: 10:03am On Jun 28, 2018 |
ImaIma1: Respects my lady. 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by Dami12345: 10:08am On Jun 28, 2018 |
yettymuse: Sometimes I wonder how short sighted people are. Okay let's say he registered the child in a day care, its day care right, not everyfvucking hour care, so he has to pick up the child, take the child home and look after the child while at home, no sleep , no rest and of course if he brings and work home he can't do it, and for how long will he do this, imagine the day he needs the wife to take the child to day care? She would forget, maybe when he travels he has to take the child alone. Funny enough what use is the wife again, wouldn't it be saner to divorce her and get a house maid who will perform all duties?? 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by JustAsking247: 10:15am On Jun 28, 2018 |
As for my wife's unemotional attitude, like someone said, I found out that was the way she was brought up by an uncaring dad who had several women as wives and lots of 'abandoned' kids for their mothers to care for. Her mother had to over-labour herself to keep up. (By the way her mom passed on 2years ago (may her soul RIP). Each time i try to speak with her, I always remind her that the world has moved beyond the days of our parents. That cos her parent were that 'careless' doesn't mean she should be with her kids. Infact, I expected her to make up her mind to give her kids the best that her own parent couldn't afford- Her attention. My own dad was a semi-tiger while growing up and also a chronic wife-batter, but I made up my mind never to touch my wife (the temptation though) or be the kind of dad he was to us. Mom in spite of the stress he made her go thru was still there for us and never made us see life from the negative angle. 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by Nobody: 10:15am On Jun 28, 2018 |
Dami12345:kindly direct your anger and aggression to the original poster! You're not even the husband here but you don begin mop lagoon for another person matter! He should divorce his wife and marry you Common gerrrrrrrrrrrahere!!! 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by Dami12345: 10:48am On Jun 28, 2018 |
yettymuse: You are a fooool, simple, He asked for advice I gave my view, I wouldn't even bother if not that a child's life might hang in the balance, the lady means little to me, it's the child who matters. In later years should the child start joining bad gang the parents would be blamed and rightly so because I don't understand how a child should learn the right way to behave in a day care or in the hands of a nanny, who can shower love on a child more than the parents?? And if they don't won't that child feel lost? All this are problems of the future IF the child even survives infancy. 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by obowunmi(m): 11:16am On Jun 28, 2018 |
She could have postpartum depression. 3 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by Nobody: 11:39am On Jun 28, 2018 |
Dami12345: the way you people think Sha. it's funny. 5 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by Crieff(m): 12:31pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
Dami12345: Adviser aye!! |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by lastmessenger: 2:01pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
Dami12345:guy you never gam stubborn woman |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by Nobody: 2:02pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by cococandy(f): 2:49pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
“Discipline and fear” Are talking about married partners or an authoritative father and an wild child? Even kids shouldn’t fear their parents much less a woman fearing a man she willingly married. Some of una need brain scan sometimes Dami12345: 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by cococandy(f): 2:56pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
You’re only looking for people who will help you bash your wife. If you like don’t pick solution from feasible options you have on here. When she’s managing one of your so called companies, who’s watching the baby? JustAsking247: 2 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by ImaIma1(f): 3:01pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
cococandy: I think awareness has to be created about child proofing here. So that the child can play freely and explore in the area we have cordoned for them. Children are attracted to wires, switches and many electrical items that are dangerous. How many times will we see them go there. And i don't buy the idea of holding them down somewhere instead of allowing them explore. We will be fine. |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by cococandy(f): 3:18pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
ImaIma1: C’est finis |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by Dami12345: 3:18pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
cococandy: Lol. Whatever rocks your boat. |
Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by ImaIma1(f): 3:22pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
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