We should open our eyes and accept the fact that majority or the relationships we have are open relationships in disguise. One or both partners are sleeping with other people. It is common to see a bae having side boos and and the boo also having his own retinue of side chicks.

Why not come out boldly and say okay.... i want to be seeing other people while also being in a relationship with you....be more honest because secrecy has caused a lot of harm. you can make an agreement to use protection with other etcetera etcetera because as far as i am concerned it makes no sense and also the height of insincerity and dishonesty to cheat on someone you claim to have mutually exclusive relationship with. Like what the heck??

Honesty in Nigeria is an issue honestly. Ppl prefer to lie dan to say d truth wch is so simple and easy to say