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I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by okpelu: 5:26pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
The purpose of creating this account is to ask for advice I've been dating this girl for a year plus and everything seemed to be going great till this year. She seemed distant, and blamed it on me becoming distant too.. so I told her we should try to make things better. For weeks we have been going up and down over the same things. Then recently, we went to a party and all through the party, she was looking at other guys while I was talking to her. I was pissed. We quarreled about it and a few other things. She was going back to school and I told her I was coming to see her in school the next day. Her reaction pissed me off. She wasn't keen. So I said I was going to see her. The next day I pretended I was there. And all of a sudden, I found that she blocked me from all corners. I was alarmed. I tried calling her with several numbers. She blocked all. Omo I was pissed. When we finally spoke, she said she needed a break. I was shocked. I take care of her. I pamper her. I send her money over regularly. I don't ask her for anything. She then proceeded to tell me our quarrels dey affect her mental health. I was extremely shocked. Extremely. I said no. She said then we should break up. I agreed. After I changed my mind, begged her, and then she tells me I should give her space to heal. I said how long. She tells me till December 25. I should call and find out if she is still interested.... That she is 80 percent sure she would say yes. I want to know what y'all think And yes you can say whatever you like 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by lilianofentse(f): 5:27pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Simp 109 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by SportsHD: 5:30pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
CEO Simp Nigeria Ltd. 105 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by Cholls(m): 5:34pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
My brother eiyah!! Just move on 4 Likes |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by Olachase(m): 5:36pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
You day fall in love instead make u fall asleep U never wise 42 Likes |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by Luizkid(m): 5:38pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Bros keep on sending her money regularly but only call her to confirm if she's got the alert. Na una type una girlfriends dey sweet especially when una dey take care of the billings. 18 Likes |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by turawaa(m): 5:43pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Abeleja yan 3 Likes |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by annayawchee: 5:45pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
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Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by Godada(m): 6:02pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
So with all the signs she has been giving that she is no longer interested, you keep at it shamelessly. Needless to say, you were blocked and you couldn't take the hint. You let her spell it out for you that she is breaking up with you and you still debased yourself begging her. Do tell me: what does she bring to the table in this relationship aside spreading her legs like Nkechi wornout Bible? I have to give it to her: she is a top manipulator. She created division and blamed it on you and now, she has told you to give her space that the division she cooked and served you is giving her mental stress. And she not only gave you a time frame and she also assured you that she is 80% sure she is gonna be back with you when while you were with her, she wanted out. From a guy to a follow guy, retrace your steps, you are in a losing proposition. You have lost her ever since. Man up, and move on 48 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by blinking001(m): 6:16pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Run away from manipulative women 13 Likes 1 Share
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Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by Jack005(m): 6:17pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
All because of toto? Some guys are more than simps... Tufia.. Op you are a disgrace to manhood.. Spitss! 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by slimman007: 6:23pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
okpelu: Can you see how foolish and irritating you are with your story.Truly you are a simp in the making,continue with your stupidity due to one girl that has left you long ago without your consent..My fellow nairalanders come and see the latest SIMP in town in person of OP. 21 Likes |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by Monogamy: 6:28pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
She said she needed a break. You put soaked cotton wool for ears? 4 Likes |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by VlamesIffect(f): 6:28pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
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Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by slimman007: 6:33pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Luizkid: Don't mind the foolish fellow.People like this will never assist there family members in needs financially neither lend a helping hand to their fellow guys but will rather spend foolishly on leech and entitled girl that has nothing to offer expect rotten pucci.This Op need hot slap I swear. @Mosdii where are you come see the stupidity of OP oooo 8 Likes |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by remedick: 6:44pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
okpelu: Take my advice, go get another girl... You can pick a very pretty girl that is finer than her and make her feel special... you can arrange with the pretty babe to act like your babe as if you guys are dating... 2 Likes |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by theophilusj31(m): 6:47pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
I've been dating this girl for a year plus and everything seemed to be going great till this year. She seemed distant, and blamed it on me becoming distant too.. so I told her we should try to make things better. For weeks we have been going up and down over the same things. Then recently, we went to a party and all through the party, she was looking at other guys while I was talking to her. I was pissed. We quarreled about it and a few other things. She was going back to school and I told her I was coming to see her in school the next day. Her reaction pissed me off. She wasn't keen. So I said I was going to see her. The next day You should have dumped her at that point 5 Likes |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by leksite120(m): 6:59pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
With what she said, she need time to hoe, so she asked for some space /break so that she won't feel guilty till she finish her hoeing . So please, don't disturb her, let her enjoy herself, and you should call her back on 25, please don't forget to bring flowers when coming to meet her, I'm sure she'll like it 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by techWriter1: 7:02pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Grand benefactor samson Incorporated 4 Likes |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by mrnigeria0: 7:16pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
okpelu:is this a joke? I cant belive this 2 Likes |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by Nobody: 7:22pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Most guys invest on ladies forgetting about themselves. They can buy their gf an iPhone 12 while they sue a Nokia phone. That's where you get it wrong. Invest on yourself make girls like you. I don't date a girl except she shows interest in me then I make my request. In a long run, she will be the one who loves more. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by MikeofKd(m): 7:25pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Lol ,I see almost everyone calling this dude a simp ,but have y'all thought about it from a different angle, yeah dude is overly nice and what's wrong with that ?absolute nothing ,tbh. I would blame the girl here, most Nigerian girls are confused human beings, dey say they want rice and when you serve them rice ,they say it's pizza they really want ,serve them pizza and they would ask for sharwama as well ,truly confused creatures. I'd advice the op to travel abroad to find love and for greener pastures as well ,cause Nigerian girls have a stupid perception of what love truly is .they don't have sense at all ,very foolish creatures and totally useless ,empty headed ,imensive and intensive manipulators, all they know about is to hoe around in thier 20s and then look for Rich wealthy men to marry after the pussy must have been wide open like Buhari expressing shock over the current state of Nigeria . Ogbeni op don't stop being nice to women but be manly in doing so ,Don't give em 100 percent attention all d time just don't be too mean and don't be too gentle with women ,try to find a balance . 16 Likes |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by Xxx123xxx(m): 7:39pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
okpelu:. By the powers vested upon me by my Fathers and His Fathers before him I dub you sir Simpselot Duke of DunceLand 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by pregnantMan: 7:47pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Pussy ass simp 1 Like |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by Isokoson1: 7:47pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Kai op . Who do you like this...? 3 Likes |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by Usmanzy(m): 7:54pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
This guy too mumu Better go and read ubunja miseducations 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by Jamesbiodun(m): 8:03pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Chai, leave the bitch, don't ever trust a girl in school, she will see so many things that will make her go astray 5 Likes |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by Pegi23(f): 8:09pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Aww you did the right thing..give her some space...my kind of guy |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by udede(m): 8:14pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
If this is not concotion then you are Very mad 3 Likes |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by Savedday: 8:28pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it. In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them! 7 Likes |
Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by LordSkyy(m): 8:45pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
I take God beg you leave this girl, she's clearly not interested anymore. Block every means of communicating with her, if not you go cry ehn! Lol. I am speaking from experience. Oga you deserve better. 4 Likes |
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