tellwisdom:

Mbanuuuuu . Wey dis our modern ojukokoro girls dey use fone worth of 90k

~Killz~:

Anybody that says yes is lying to you. . .

it all boils down to where you reside, places like Lagos or abuja im afraid 40k might not be enough 2 sustain you for a month

Oshogbo nko?? akure?? ilesha?? Jos?? Na 1naira dem dey sell food for there??

Mrs, Chima:

Yes.  

nzeka:

i  am  33yrs but i hv seen the girl that i wants to mary she is 26yrs but my take home pay is 40k.i am currently workin with with my state govt.both my girl and i are graduates .

Honeycity:

it all boils down to where you reside, places like Lagos or abuja  im afraid 40k might not  be enough 2 sustain  you for a month

Actually, Lagos is the cheapest place to live in. But even at that, building a family on a foundation of 40k is like committing suicide. Times are getting harder. Now, if her salary is also 40k and she is willing to combine(she should be) then 80k will take them places. On 40k alone? Count me the hell out!

~Killz~:

Actually, Lagos is the cheapest place to live in. But even at that, building a family on a foundation of 40k is like committing suicide. Times are getting harder. Now, if her salary is also 40k and she is willing to combine(she should be) then 80k will take them places. On 40k alone? Count me the hell out!

tellwisdom:

mshew chima, aint it time for bed? im on boxers now. come over

dwise88:

Brother if d 40k is ur monthly pay, i think u are gud to go because d ultimate measure of a man is not during confort or convinced but during challenges and controversy. I knw u are a man but u are not getting any younger.

He is not good to go! No one should get married because of undue pressure. If he's not getting younger, so what? Should he get married and start manufacturing kids on a 40k salary? Will you be there when he falls into the deep sh[i]i[/i]t? The ultimate measure of a man is maturity. Maturity to know that it is foolishness to start what you cannot finish. Maturity to realize that it is calamitous to get married on a 40k salary and expect a miracle. If it was 4 years ago in 2008, i would have said give it a shot. But in 2012? Hell to the power of NO!

Mrs, Chima:

Lagos housing may be cheap, but their hotels aren't!!!!

One guy tried to sell us some yellow holy water.

Mrs, Chima:

Lagos housing may be cheap, but their hotels aren't!!!!  

One guy tried to sell us some yellow holy water.  

LMAO @ yellow holy water. What tha hell is that?

pendo89:

Am sorry but I really don't understand this.Are we in short saying that only the financially able should marry? Is that the trend now?
And no please do not misquote me.If the guy was jobless I would have said 'pause'.But hes got something small and they are both graduates meaning they got something to count on for a brighter future.
I hate poverty but c'mmon if we all wait to get it all together so as to move on to the next phase of life we are gonna get stuck cz things ain't getting better but worse. One must learn to live and survive with the little they got BUT aim for more.
[b]I think they can marry.[/b]The only thing they can put on hold is babies.

~Killz~:

LMAO @ yellow holy water. What tha hell is that?

Honeycity:

accomodation in lagos is not cheap unless you are talking about places like Makoko and d rest

pendo89:

Am sorry but I really don't understand this.Are we in short saying that only the financially able should marry? Is that the trend now?
And no please do not misquote me.If the guy was jobless I would have said 'pause'.But hes got something small and they are both graduates meaning they got something to count on for a brighter future.
I hate poverty but c'mmon if we all wait to get it all together so as to move on to the next phase of life we are gonna get stuck cz things ain't getting better but worse. One must learn to live and survive with the little they got BUT aim for more.
I think they can marry.The only thing they can put on hold is babies.

~Killz~:

Pendo, how about you do some calculations from over there! 1 us dollar = 165 Naira. (convert to your currency)
If the lady is employed as well, by all means, let them get married. (he did not mention if she was) I'm assuming she is jobless at the moment. Now, let's say they get married(not talking of a wedding, that's another expense to consider) at the court, and on an allowance of 40k monthly. That's about 1,350 Naira apportioned to a day.

They'll feed, He'll transport himself to work and back, they buy basic amenities, pay bills, accommodation bills, phone bills, and he is expected to have savings for the rainy day? I mean, c'mon!

1,350 a day for 2 humans? Damn!

DaShyGuy:

No, they can't and shouldn't.  They will find it pretty hard to make both ends meet. He should wait for her to get a job, and then, together, they can start planning on getting married. But certainly not before.

Mrs, Chima:

If they get married, they are more likely to have children unless the wife has effective birth control.  

1, 350 for three people is poverty.  

It is time for you to suck my whole nut and choke on it.

Its high time you stop swallowing excess of chloroquine