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I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets / 5 Nigerian Women Share Why They Regret Getting Married / I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did (2) (3) (4)
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Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Eketem: 5:09pm On Jul 28, 2018 |
donb06: You are an adult what is wrong with cooking and cleaning? Is it not your house? Is it not to the benefit of the family? The wife that returns home everyday and cooks nko? Is she not a human being? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 4:07pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
You have to show understanding, two of you should have one account for saving money , work hard to at least put in 60% and always take care of your wife. Try as much as possible not to put demand on your wife even if it happens do it honorably. |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 8:34am On Jul 30, 2018 |
LUGBE: how is he a gold digger? Do you want him to marry a poor woman or what exactly are you trying to say? 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 8:35am On Jul 30, 2018 |
Eketem: The earlier you realize that most nairaland males are misogynists and they believe chores are for women, the best you can do is to ignore them. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 8:37am On Jul 30, 2018 |
OldBeer: they only remember feminism when they're feeling the burden of being an alpha male. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 8:43am On Jul 30, 2018 |
yettymuse: I'm unfortunate because I talked against a woman not parting with her money? May you and your brothers be unfortunate in life so that you'll know the meaning of that statement. If you don't want to part with your money, you've no business with marriage. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 8:46am On Jul 30, 2018 |
victorian: That blackmail can only work for weak men. If you try that to a man like me, you'll run out of the marriage by yourself because I'll rent another home and move in with my kids. If you think you can't part with your money then you can't eat from my money. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 8:57am On Jul 30, 2018 |
Babyforever: Mynd44,dominique rule 8, This is an insult on my personality. |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 9:01am On Jul 30, 2018 |
Acidosis: I refuse to believe that you're not a kid. If you actually could not decipher the stupidity behind those comments. |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 9:12am On Jul 30, 2018 |
Ishilove: Disregard false informations. |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by tabithababy(f): 10:08am On Jul 30, 2018 |
Babyforever:. Let me laugh again |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 10:10am On Jul 30, 2018 |
tabithababy: You're disturbing my mentions, please. If you actually believed that nonsense then you can believe anything. |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by tabithababy(f): 10:11am On Jul 30, 2018 |
Elder001:. Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeew |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 10:15am On Jul 30, 2018 |
tabithababy: kids everywhere. |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Babyforever(f): 10:50am On Jul 30, 2018 |
Elder001:Mtcheeeeeeeeeew |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by donb06: 12:26pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
Eketem:Hope you read very well before attacking me?? ... anyways as for the cooking stuff i can, but not to take turns as if their is a time-table for it.... both parties have their Place of primary assignment... ladies in the home front and guys for the outside world... as a guy when my wife assists me financially i will definitely appreciate it not to make it look as if it is her duty becos thats my PPA... same thing goes around when i help her to carry out home chores it should be appreciated and never be taken for granted.. hope You truly understands this.... GODBLESS YOU |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by plat0: 12:55pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
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Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Silvermoney: 1:15pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
plat0: Really? This is my only moniker bro. I'm sure many people here share my simple views about a lot of things. But sure you can pm me. |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by plat0: 1:19pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
Silvermoney: Boss, I look up to you. Your biggest fan on this platform. Been here since 2013. |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Eketem: 3:05pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
donb06: Every adult male or female is capable of cleanin and earning a living, there is no help in a home, it is both your house how you both run it is your joint responsibility not help 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Eketem: 3:06pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
Elder001: Agreed 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by donb06: 10:12am On Jul 31, 2018 |
Eketem:If you have led a team before then you will know that no matter the unity and synergy within a team, responsibilities must be delegated to each team mate that must be held responsible if his/her department fails.... but the love and synergy among them will propel other team mate to cover for him or her... and when these[b] joint but shared responsiblities[/b] are carried out smoothly then the team (HOME) grows.... but then both MUST fall short at some point, there is where help comes. .... just to add this..... one thing that makes love grow in a home is the fact that a wife sees her husband HELPING where she feels she is falling short and the husband sees his wife helping where he is falling short. and I must commend you for being just the third person i am having a discussion with in Nairaland without leading to abuses. GRACIAS 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Eketem: 8:42pm On Jul 31, 2018 |
donb06: I belong to the school of thought where there are no gender roles. A man and a woman who believe this too get married and do what needs to get done simple. It has never been an issue for us, when chores need to get done they get done when bills need to be paid they get paid. A penis or vagina is not used to do any of those. I understand those who want to stick to traditional roles though it is a choice but not the only way of running a home |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 9:32pm On Jul 31, 2018 |
Treasuredlove: All these long epistles for what? Because you bleed every month or carry pregnancy doesn't mean you shouldn't work and have your own money. You went to school, acquired a certificate to do what? To sit at home? Oprah Winfrey and other female billionaires, do they not also bleed monthly? Nothing justifies being lazy. Go out there to work, make that money and contribute to the family. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 10:22pm On Jul 31, 2018 |
Elder001:loool lazy...Oprah Winfrey makes her own bed yeah? Does her husband's laundry? Ever been pregnant and entering molue to go and buy okro in the market? Please, continue with your education talk, as if work is the only place education is used |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by UjuJoan2: 3:47pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
This is why I hate poor men. You expect your wife to feed, clothe and cater for you . . And yet continue to claim superiority. Arrant nonsense! 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 10:00pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
UjuJoan2: Where did you read it that I want her to feed me? Curses on the house of Eli and diseases of the Egyptians shall follow you all your life. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by UjuJoan2: 12:47am On Aug 02, 2018 |
Tehila07: Hehehehe . . . . Another one bites the dust. I have no words, just an advice. Go and make money, being broke is a very unattractive trait in a man |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 5:00am On Aug 02, 2018 |
UjuJoan2: This cursed adulterer again. Shebi ur cursed husband is only down with hypertension, what awaits ur household are untold calamities that will haunt your generations. PDPguy, that cursed fortuneteller moniker is here. Hope u have not been fucking the lvnatic? 1 Like 1 Share |
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