donb06:
bros will u cook together, wash together, clean togehter, tend for the kids together..... I dont understand how my fellow guys reason nowadays.... Just imagine that one day you come back home tired and your wife tells you it is your turn to cook today... Yes the woman has to be industrious to[b] HELP[/b] the man... Bro the way you dont have to tell your wife to cook for you that's the way you dont have to be told to dole out the funds... just dont go out of ur budget...
Bro pray for God to bless your hustle and he will bless you AMEN.

You are an adult what is wrong with cooking and cleaning? Is it not your house? Is it not to the benefit of the family? The wife that returns home everyday and cooks nko? Is she not a human being?

You have to show understanding, two of you should have one account for saving money , work hard to at least put in 60% and always take care of your wife. Try as much as possible not to put demand on your wife even if it happens do it honorably.

LUGBE:
You are a gold digger. You are now disappointed, many men this days are shameless

how is he a gold digger?

Do you want him to marry a poor woman or what exactly are you trying to say?

Eketem:



You are an adult what is wrong with cooking and cleaning? Is it not your house? Is it not to the benefit of the family? The wife that returns home everyday and cooks nko? Is she not a human being?

The earlier you realize that most nairaland males are misogynists and they believe chores are for women, the best you can do is to ignore them.

OldBeer:
But it is only feminists that believe in splitting bills na.
And Nigerian men detest feminists. So op should carry his burden.
He is an alpha male

they only remember feminism when they're feeling the burden of being an alpha male.

yettymuse:
Why you dey reply this one mention.. This one is unfortunate na

I'm unfortunate because I talked against a woman not parting with her money?

May you and your brothers be unfortunate in life so that you'll know the meaning of that statement.

If you don't want to part with your money, you've no business with marriage.

victorian:
Op you are just too funny.

I can't stop laughing here.
You are just like most men out there, who do not want to spend a dime when dating, thinking your woman will never request a kobo from you even during marriage. You thank your stars, you've met such incredible woman who can hold her own and not bother u for feeding money and will even feed u on top. Lol

Men, will never cease to amaze me, lol.
Women who are desperate to marry will not request a kobo from u during dating, some will even spend on u sef, but marry her and see another colour of her u never imagined existed. As the saying goes, there are so many ways in catching a rat. Lol . Nija oooo
Just man up! Double your hustle! And take care of your home. I bet u won't mention she's the one paying rent o. Ordinary feeding for both of u and possibly visitors u are whining. Hahahahahahahahaaha.

O ga o!

That blackmail can only work for weak men.

If you try that to a man like me, you'll run out of the marriage by yourself because I'll rent another home and move in with my kids.

If you think you can't part with your money then you can't eat from my money.

Babyforever:
Oga don't bother yourself with that young man he's currently squatting in the house of his sugar mummy's an old cargo in delta state she's the daughter of a ppa to the governor of delta State..... he's currently jobless as I'm speaking to you right now she gives him pocket money monthly I'm not making this up ask him he knows what I'm talking about......





Elder001

Mynd44,dominique
rule 8,
This is an insult on my personality.

Acidosis:




You see, this is the exact way faceless people come here to destroy families. He's been here gallivanting from thread to thread about how he cooks for an imaginary wife.

Thanks dear, I refuse to be confused, lol.

I refuse to believe that you're not a kid.

If you actually could not decipher the stupidity behind those comments.

Ishilove:

HIan

Disregard false informations.

Babyforever:
Oga don't bother yourself with that young man he's currently squatting in the house of his sugar mummy's an old cargo in delta state she's the daughter of a ppa to the governor of delta State..... he's currently jobless as I'm speaking to you right now she gives him pocket money monthly I'm not making this up ask him he knows what I'm talking about......





Elder001

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Let me laugh again

tabithababy:
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Let me laugh again

You're disturbing my mentions, please.

If you actually believed that nonsense then you can believe anything.

Elder001:


You're disturbing my mentions, please.

If you actually believed that nonsense then you can believe anything.

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Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeew

tabithababy:
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Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeew

kids everywhere.

Elder001:

Disregard false informations.

Mtcheeeeeeeeeew

Eketem:



You are an adult what is wrong with cooking and cleaning? Is it not your house? Is it not to the benefit of the family? The wife that returns home everyday and cooks nko? Is she not a human being?

Hope you read very well before attacking me?? ... anyways as for the cooking stuff i can, but not to take turns as if their is a time-table for it.... both parties have their Place of primary assignment... ladies in the home front and guys for the outside world... as a guy when my wife assists me financially i will definitely appreciate it not to make it look as if it is her duty becos thats my PPA... same thing goes around when i help her to carry out home chores it should be appreciated and never be taken for granted.. hope You truly understands this.... GODBLESS YOU

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plat0:
can I send a personal message sir. I'm a keen admirer, I have been a fan over the years. I can easily recognise your thoughts on life issues with your numerous monikers. 'The incorrigible hedonist' . I'm in a quagmire at the moment and I just need someone to talk to.

I'll modify after your reply. Thanks.

Really? This is my only moniker bro. I'm sure many people here share my simple views about a lot of things. But sure you can pm me.

Silvermoney:


Really? This is my only moniker bro. I'm sure many people here share my simple views about a lot of things. But sure you can pm me.

Boss, I look up to you. Your biggest fan on this platform. Been here since 2013.

donb06:
Hope you read very well before attacking me?? ... anyways as for the cooking stuff i can, but not to take turns as if their is a time-table for it.... both parties have their Place of primary assignment... ladies in the home front and guys for the outside world... as a guy when my wife assists me financially i will definitely appreciate it not to make it look as if it is her duty becos thats my PPA... same thing goes around when i help her to carry out home chores it should be appreciated and never be taken for granted.. hope You truly understands this.... GODBLESS YOU

Every adult male or female is capable of cleanin and earning a living, there is no help in a home, it is both your house how you both run it is your joint responsibility not help

Elder001:


The earlier you realize that most nairaland males are misogynists and they believe chores are for women, the best you can do is to ignore them.

Agreed

Eketem:


Every adult male or female is capable of cleaning and earning a living, there is no help in a home, it is both your house how you both run it is your joint responsibility not help

If you have led a team before then you will know that no matter the unity and synergy within a team, responsibilities must be delegated to each team mate that must be held responsible if his/her department fails.... but the love and synergy among them will propel other team mate to cover for him or her... and when these[b] joint but shared responsiblities[/b] are carried out smoothly then the team (HOME) grows.... but then both MUST fall short at some point, there is where help comes. .... just to add this..... one thing that makes love grow in a home is the fact that a wife sees her husband HELPING where she feels she is falling short and the husband sees his wife helping where he is falling short. and I must commend you for being just the third person i am having a discussion with in Nairaland without leading to abuses. GRACIAS

donb06:
If you have led a team before then you will know that no matter the unity and synergy within a team, responsibilities must be delegated to each team mate that must be held responsible if his/her department fails.... but the love and synergy among them will propel other team mate to cover for him or her... and when these[b] joint but shared responsiblities[/b] are carried out smoothly then the team (HOME) grows.... but then both MUST fall short at some point, there is where help comes. .... just to add this..... one thing that makes love grow in a home is the fact that a wife sees her husband HELPING where she feels she is falling short and the husband sees his wife helping where he is falling short. and I must commend you for being just the third person i am having a discussion with in Nairaland without leading to abuses. GRACIAS

I belong to the school of thought where there are no gender roles. A man and a woman who believe this too get married and do what needs to get done simple.

It has never been an issue for us, when chores need to get done they get done when bills need to be paid they get paid. A penis or vagina is not used to do any of those.

I understand those who want to stick to traditional roles though it is a choice but not the only way of running a home

Treasuredlove:
huh?...pregnancy is not overated because a woman who is obviosuly high on weed was dancing at a club? ( any sane woman who loves her baby and herself wouldn't do that, the world is changing doesn't mean the world is right. She also needs to show a video of herself in labor or vomiting and spitting) women also carry hair under their legs and have to shave it almost every week, same way women bleed every month and mostly are in serious pain, same way a woman has to endure making her hair every other week to look tidy and carries heavy ball on her chest. see, we can continue this for a very long time but pregnancy is not and can never be over rated. A man has never lost his life carrying this two eggs for a woman or lost his health or months of privacy too. Yeah, a pregnant woman is a super hero. Quote me anywhere

All these long epistles for what?

Because you bleed every month or carry pregnancy doesn't mean you shouldn't work and have your own money.

You went to school, acquired a certificate to do what?

To sit at home?

Oprah Winfrey and other female billionaires, do they not also bleed monthly?

Nothing justifies being lazy.

Go out there to work, make that money and contribute to the family.

Elder001:


All these long epistles for what?

Because you bleed every month or carry pregnancy doesn't mean you shouldn't work and have your own money.

You went to school, acquired a certificate to do what?

To sit at home?

Oprah Winfrey and other female billionaires, do they not also bleed monthly?

Nothing justifies being lazy.

Go out there to work, make that money and contribute to the family.

loool lazy...Oprah Winfrey makes her own bed yeah? Does her husband's laundry? Ever been pregnant and entering molue to go and buy okro in the market?
Please, continue with your education talk, as if work is the only place education is used

This is why I hate poor men. You expect your wife to feed, clothe and cater for you . . And yet continue to claim superiority. Arrant nonsense!

UjuJoan2:
This is why I hate poor men. You expect your wife to feed, clothe and cater for you . . And yet continue to claim superiority. Arrant nonsense!

Where did you read it that I want her to feed me? Curses on the house of Eli and diseases of the Egyptians shall follow you all your life.

Tehila07:


Where did you read it that I want her to feed me? Curses on the house of Eli and diseases of the Egyptians shall follow you all your life.

Hehehehe . . . . Another one bites the dust. I have no words, just an advice. Go and make money, being broke is a very unattractive trait in a man

UjuJoan2:



Hehehehe . . . . Another one bites the dust. I have no words, just an advice. Go and make money, being broke is a very unattractive trait in a man

This cursed adulterer again. Shebi ur cursed husband is only down with hypertension, what awaits ur household are untold calamities that will haunt your generations. PDPguy, that cursed fortuneteller moniker is here. Hope u have not been fucking the lvnatic?