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I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets / 5 Nigerian Women Share Why They Regret Getting Married / I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did (2) (3) (4)
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Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Babyforever(f): 8:01am On Jul 27, 2018 |
Acidosis:The lady wants him to marry her but his mum kicked against the decision that's why he's currently having some problems with his family members because of the lady they told him to leave her alone she's too old for him but he won't listen...... Ask him he knows what I'm talking about.....This is his alternate moniker he's real moniker is something princhills something like that |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Acidosis(m): 8:08am On Jul 27, 2018 |
Babyforever: He's never going to leave that kain woman na, lol. I knew something was up the moment he started defending beta male. A lot of guys have been trapped in that kind of relationship, I guess it's up to him to enjoy the relationship while it lasts. Btw, you seem to know too much about the young man o I hope what I'm thinking isn't true. Anyway, I wish him the best, I believe he's well prepared for the consequences. |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Stallion93(m): 8:33am On Jul 27, 2018 |
Just Marry A white girl and forget all these Black Related Shenanigans. Thank me later 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Paulosky1900: 8:46am On Jul 27, 2018 |
HajimeSaito:seconded 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by maasoap(m): 8:53am On Jul 27, 2018 |
ajayiopy: Contradiction. This issue is not about forgiveness, it is about the wife not helping in the home financially. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by akaahs(m): 8:57am On Jul 27, 2018 |
LUGBE:What is the gold digging here emmmm, d guy is trying his best to provide for his family and ur here calling him a gold digger or is it a crime for a wife to help her husband where he is lacking?? 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by penearth(m): 8:59am On Jul 27, 2018 |
u did a mistake by marrying ur age mate, there will b no respect. occasionally leave d home for her to look for u, when she does and tries to inquire ur reason of leaving, u tell her how u could live with her. if she refuse stay back don't go until she accepts ur conditions. But treat her with care!!! 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by maasoap(m): 9:07am On Jul 27, 2018 |
nahzyla: I don't think that you're being fair to nairaland men, it is not that bad. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 9:07am On Jul 27, 2018 |
Ogbeni farabale, you know what you need to do. Do it. |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by CHoccolaTE: 9:07am On Jul 27, 2018 |
tiwasiaife: Likewise women hope you are listening, if a man is stubborn, stingy and has no fear of God don't marry him. Men like that are a no go area. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by StanleyNdukauba: 9:14am On Jul 27, 2018 |
I think u made the right decision getting married. Please don't quit. Just seek the help of a marriage counselor 07035452701 |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 9:15am On Jul 27, 2018 |
yettymuse:Girl you are a kid 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by tabithababy(f): 9:32am On Jul 27, 2018 |
Babyforever:. Are you kidding me 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by nwanyiugbo122(f): 9:41am On Jul 27, 2018 |
Na financial woman be that ohh.... |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by victorian(f): 9:44am On Jul 27, 2018 |
Acidosis: Don't mind him. I was shocked when he said he cooks for his invisible wife everyday. Wife who doesn't exist. Such a pathological liar! 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by maasoap(m): 9:48am On Jul 27, 2018 |
ikukuhero: Not every man or husband has financial muscles to do it alone whether you like it or not, that's a fact. In this kind of situation, husband and wife need to contribute and make their relationship work. Even couples who have white collar jobs are contributing financially to keep the family running, not to talk of a man who is just an Okada rider. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Babyforever(f): 9:49am On Jul 27, 2018 |
Acidosis:He knows what I'm talking about he even create a thread then to discuss the issue here on this forum 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 9:53am On Jul 27, 2018 |
Tehila07: your case is not that bad. its manageable. why? (1) she is not the type that will go and share wedding card and sleep with the invitee (2) she is not pinging at midnights with guys (3) not outing always and not telling u were she is going to (4) no bestie. (5) she shows u off (though its not a criteria tho that she loves you) 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by kurlz(f): 9:55am On Jul 27, 2018 |
HajimeSaito: Seems you didn't get the poster right . When they were dating he wasn't spending on her because she had money that's very bad, I tell you speaking as a woman it will take the grace of God for her to believe in unity of purpose and finances with him in marriage. That's an error on his part. He was too stingy. They started on the platform of it's me and my money therefore nothing changes after marriage so he has to keep assuring and reassuring and prove it before he can convince her otherwise. Peace. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by HRHQueenPhil(f): 10:07am On Jul 27, 2018 |
did i say anything, i simply wished him all d best. Opinionated: |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Silvermoney: 10:16am On Jul 27, 2018 |
divinelove: "If I have sense'? Smh. Don't worry, time would come for you to prove that you have lots of sense. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Gracesofar(m): 10:34am On Jul 27, 2018 |
NNAMDIII: DM me. Though am in jaji till sept. And did u make list this year? |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 10:36am On Jul 27, 2018 |
Tehila07:thank you. Please note that a lot of people here are still kids...some still seeking admission, others have never experienced marriage, many have been in only bad relationships...please ignore most of the negative comments here. I guarantee you guys will balance up your negatives and positives in due time. Nobody is perfect, marriage takes real work, its not for the weak minded. God bless you and your home |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by holocron: 10:47am On Jul 27, 2018 |
Eketem: If OP attempts to renegotiate, she will break down the marriage irretrievably, because she will prefer going it alone (now the world knows that she is married) than sharing her money with a man. OP has been scammed. There is nothing the OP can do now except follow through on his own advise to himself - move out until his finances improve. Too bad, but that is how it goes. It's unfortunate. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by baddosky1: 10:47am On Jul 27, 2018 |
adedayoa2: It may not be number 1 but it is high priority. Gone are the days when it was said that "The man is the breadwinner of the family"...Last time I checked, bread is sweeter with butter. So the man brings the bread while the woman should complement with the butter. We don't want lazy bottoms who do nothing all day but sit at home watching zee world and getting pregnant only! Get the picture? 2 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 10:59am On Jul 27, 2018 |
baddosky1:gone is conscience too my man. Bread is sweeter with good health. So the man brings the bread and the woman prepares the eggs....u get? Lool...doing nothing all day getting pregnant and watching zee world. You need to carry a baby in your belly for just one day to know carrying a baby and delivery in itself is a full-time times two job. I shouldn't be pointing this out anyway, those who know, know |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by baddosky1: 11:13am On Jul 27, 2018 |
Treasuredlove: Can we just stop making pregnancy overrated! The other day, a video of a woman in her third trimester dancing away in a club as if she was carrying nothing hit front-page. If pregnancy was as tedious as it sounds, we wouldn't have a situation where women will get pregnant the second, third, fourth and in some cases tenth time. I am not trying to underplay pregnancy but you women should stop all these "If only men can get pregnant, they'll see how stressful it is" garbage. The fact men carry 2 "eggs" under their legs for life and have to shave off hair every 2 days from their face and hustle hard to take care of the needs of women and children is enough stress already! 2 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by holocron: 11:14am On Jul 27, 2018 |
nahzyla: Gbam! On point. |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by HRHQueenPhil(f): 11:30am On Jul 27, 2018 |
and all the best 2 d bravest spouse in d world bossrillboss: |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by HRHQueenPhil(f): 11:30am On Jul 27, 2018 |
are u married Ugosample: |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by HRHQueenPhil(f): 11:31am On Jul 27, 2018 |
absolutely nothing sweetness AmericanSons: |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by HRHQueenPhil(f): 11:32am On Jul 27, 2018 |
they should be given accolades uchman46: |
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