Goddyss:
Sometimes I would just laugh at how sissy some men have become. The OP is not a man for allowing his in law controls his life.

I have refused to answer a 100 missed calls on my phone in the past from my fiancee's parents after breaking up with her. I tore the marriage list I collected in pieces

A real man is a peaceful man and doesn't talk too much but when he acts, the ground trembles

ojlifa:
my brother ,first thing first people only do to you what you allow,you go call your father in law warn am well,as in without respect.you tell him to stop or come and carry your daughter because you done tire,next you chase all her family from your house,if them no agree go,you invite your own of equal numbers,then you tell your wife say you no go divorce am but she should prepare for second wife because her rubbish done too much,once them see say your eye done change watch how things go change,if her brothers even open mouth talk invite police to arrest that one for treat to life,they call that using him for sample .you are wick that is why,i remember how my mother in law turn my life to hell,the woman even invite me come states come dey use police for he,i just relax,when she reach Nigeria within i use her eye see ,my wife talk i start to laugh ,i just tell am second wife loading before them know anything dey happen till today na the second wife matter them still dey try block all her family done run leave my matter. beg oh, bible oh even my mama them go recurrut to stop second wife,me i just dey look they laugh them never know second wife loading na final

omoelerin1:
Those in-laws must be Igbo. na their way.

Radiant1020:

I don't think so

TDonald:


Weyrey,Do i look like a woman

djon78:
Story story story. Not let a woman control you indeed. Let me be honest with you, women hold ace in monogamous marriage.

If you are a weak man, that's your own problem. Me, no woman will ever be allowed to tell me what to do in my own house right from day ONE!!!

You may be proving strong man now, just wait till the children grow up. Some women can be so mean, they will totally poison the mind of their children.

You can only succeed in poisoning the minds of people who cannot think for themselves. Luckily for me, no child or children of mine will be unable to think for him or herself.

When you make the effort to school your child with LOGIC, rather than religion, you get the right thinking beings in the process.

The solution is pray that you marry a good woman and you treat your woman good. Your good seed will come back as a reward for you.

Sorry to disappoint you but a good woman doesn't exist.

What you have is actresses everywhere you go.

My game plan is to make a good actress out of my wife by making sure she acts according to the scripts I have personally written for her.

And if she doesn't like it...

Of course, she can always leave at any time and of course, I will get a new actress...

NoToPile:


Nice one

By the way I remember your moniker from a thread sometimes back, (more than a year I think) did you find what you were seeking?

baldman:
Oh thanks! I did find and I am a very happy man now... not through Nairaland though.

sexy74:
how do you call a wife to order that insults and threathens you because you refuse to pick the brother that came to abuja without your consent?
Sincerely the young man gave room for all this and he should close the door to them all including his wife.
They want to reap where they never sowed.
If it where them will they tolarate it?