kimbraa:
I'm not vexed, not one bit. As a matter of fact, I'm just laughing at their 'personal' responses. How are you?

Omo this your laugh na gbeges o, I been dey fear sef, well I'm good, hope you are too

Colourich:
Okay, I'm going to be very brief. What I meant is that I don't do one night stand, I only dump a guy when am dating him and I get bored of his behaviour.

okay, that simply means you didn't answer ops question or contributed to the thread in anyway, as the op thread was basically about one night stands i.e. breakup after first sex.

Thus, you only gave your own personal account.

Anyways, have a lovely night rest

Iamgrey5:
okay, that simply means you didn't answer ops question or contributed to the thread in anyway, as the op thread was basically about one night stands i.e. breakup after first sex.

Thus, you only gave your own personal account.

Anyways, have a lovely night rest

Okay, you too.

MissRaine69:

There is this very fixed mindset that all women view sex as an emotional connection and it’s unlady like to see it as just a physical act. Well many do and all they seek is a good fvuk nothing more.
See the number of men bringing up mermaids and prayers!

Lol @ the prayers...

Look if y'all view it as an emotional action, I can understand that cos the hormones that runs through us is different, when we have s3x or masturbation , we are more inclined to sleep but with the female gender, its more of the opposite ..
Cuddling, Pre-intimacy, Talking after s3x... Are not biologically inputted in the XY chromosome...

Just love and acknowledge your opposite for what it is and use that as your greatest asset.. Then U did be enlightened..

Tajbol4splend:



Omo this your laugh na gbeges o, I been dey fear sef, well I'm good, hope you are too

The question is lame na 'cause any person that actually read what she wrote would have either of the two options;

1. Move on 'cause it's obvious the one-night-stand meant one-night-stand to her.

2. Keep killing yourself over someone that cares less.

But again, realistically speaking, how many men have slept with a whòre, and simply because the sex was great, started fantasising of a future with her? A woman that does one-night-stand doesn't leave much to the imagination, and I suppose men know that.

That said, I'm good.

kimbraa:
The question is lame na 'cause any person that actually read what she wrote would have either of the two options;

1. Move on 'cause it's obvious the one-night-stand meant one-night-stand to her.

2. Keep killing yourself over someone that cares less.

But again, realistically speaking, how many men have slept with a whòre, and simply because the sex was great, started fantasising of a future with her? A woman that does one-night-stand doesn't leave much to the imagination, and I suppose men know that.

That said, I'm good.

Na true you talk, na only mumu go wan die of lust on top say sex sweet with communal toto

Tajbol4splend:




Na true you talk, na only mumu go wan die of lust on top say sex sweet with communal toto

Common sense! I presume the question was to get people into petty squabble. It's not that deep to me.

I've to go, goodnight.

kimbraa:
Common sense! I presume the question was to get people into petty squabble. It's not that deep to me.

I've to go, goodnight.

Good night

Best thing to do to those who don't want you is to forget and treat them like the trash they are.


Nothing personal, it's all a game

HouseOfWine:


Lol @ the prayers...

Look if y'all view it as an emotional action, I can understand that cos the hormones that runs through us is different, when we have s3x or masturbation , we are more inclined to sleep but with the female gender, its more of the opposite ..
Cuddling, Pre-intimacy, Talking after s3x... Are not biologically inputted in the XY chromosome...

Just love and acknowledge your opposite for what it is and use that as your greatest asset.. Then U did be enlightened..

It’s a nuture thing rather than nature
There is this propensity to encourage the men to sow the proverbial oats and the women to remain chaste . Now if a woman goes against the grain/norm then there is something wrong with her.

Women have urges too and some do want none complicated encounters. But Nigerian pride is a very strong thing a woman who wants nothing from you but sex is flawed somehow but a man can want exactly the same thing and no one bats an eyelid when he hits and runs.

Can you see the double standards there?

Igbokiller:
Best thing to do to those who don't want you is to forget and treat them like the trash they are.


Nothing personal, it's all a game

She wanted your body .....that’s it. Why treat her like trash?

MissRaine69:

She wanted your body .....that’s it. Why treat her like trash?

the moment she had her way and decided to just disappear without notice, she had played foul because most relationships are expected to come out with a better outcome, also she had a chance to have said in the first place that she only wanted a one time fling, or a friend with mutual benefits but getting intimate and disappearing into the thin air is dirty, foul and asking for a long thing.by playing such way she had disrespected the guy and dump him without regard to his thoughts. How else do u treat trash?

Hence my saying to the nigga don't appreciate those who don't appreciate you. And he should relax, karma is a done deal in this kind of offense

Igbokiller:
the moment she had her way and decided to just disappear without notice, she had played foul because most relationships are expected to come out with a better outcome, also she had a chance to have said in the first place that she only wanted a one time fling, or a friend with mutual benefits but getting intimate and disappearing into the thin air is dirty, foul and asking for a long thing.by playing such way she had disrespected the guy and dump him without regard to his thoughts. How else do u treat trash?

Hence my saying to the nigga don't appreciate those who don't appreciate you. And he should relax, karma is a done deal in this kind of offense

Lol. This comment made my early morning nl surf. Two of them wanted to knack. She didn't want a replay or anything, bobo should move on. Guys do it a lot, hitting it & going for the next girl. I know people who call girls like that FGs. Fvck & go. There's no need for the double standard.

Why not get a new girl & talk to her about things that this other enchantress did to you to burst your brain? She may tailor bedmatic to your taste.

"...she had a chance to have said in the first place that she only wanted a one time fling"?

Lol. Next time both parties will sign an agreement with lawyers present stating that the sex has to have attachments afterwards.

finest0007:


Lol. This comment made my early morning nl surf. Two of them wanted to knack. She didn't want a replay or anything, bobo should move on. Guys do it a lot, hitting it & going for the next girl. I know people who call girls like that FGs. Fvck & go. There's no need for the double standard.

Why not get a new girl & talk to her about things that this other enchantress did to you to burst your brain? She may tailor bedmatic to your taste.

"...she had a chance to have said in the first place that she only wanted a one time fling"?

Lol. Next time both parties will sign an agreement with lawyers present stating that the sex has to have attachments afterwards.

What's the need for lawyer in agreeing for sex only. Seems u guys see nothing wrong in just toying with someone and disappearing into thin air

MissRaine69:

I'd probably think she was hit by a car on her way home.

I mean, it was good sex, right? Human nature would always demand for a replay unless it was only good sex for the guy and not the girl.

Ioannes:


I'd probably think she was hit by a car on her way home.

I mean, it was good sex, right? Human nature would always demand for a replay unless it was only good sex for the guy and not the girl.

Or she just wanted a good time and nothing more?

MissRaine69:

Or she just wanted a good time and nothing more?

Of course that's a possibility and quite emasculating too. I'd feel I wasn't good enough.

That's why I'd rather console myself that she was probably hit by a truck on her way home.

finest0007:


Lol. This comment made my early morning nl surf. Two of them wanted to knack. She didn't want a replay or anything, bobo should move on. Guys do it a lot, hitting it & going for the next girl. I know people who call girls like that FGs. Fvck & go. There's no need for the double standard.

Why not get a new girl & talk to her about things that this other enchantress did to you to burst your brain? She may tailor bedmatic to your taste.

"...she had a chance to have said in the first place that she only wanted a one time fling"?

Lol. Next time both parties will sign an agreement with lawyers present stating that the sex has to have attachments afterwards.

Lawyer? For what?
Guys who have a girl a night engage legal services or do they just knack and move on?
This level of double standards is crazy

Ioannes:


Of course that's a possibility and quite emasculating too. I'd feel I wasn't good enough.

That's why I'd rather console myself that she was probably hit by a truck on her way home.

But women endure this regularly. So if she was to say this is what I want would it make things any better?

MissRaine69:

But women endure this regularly. So if she was to say this is what I want would it make things any better?

Absolutely. That would help I imagine.

Though I must confess it's never happened to me before probably because I don't do one night stand. I'm not sure I could ever have sex with a girl I just met that day.

MissRaine69:

Lawyer? For what?
Guys who have a girl a night engage legal services or do they just knack and move on?
This level of double standards is crazy

It's all sarcasm.

Igbokiller:



What's the need for lawyer in agreeing for sex only. Seems u guys see nothing wrong in just toying with someone and disappearing into thin air

Whether or not I belong to this category has pretty much no bearing on reality. People have different reasons for engaging in sex. To some it's all fun & games, to some it's something sacred to bond over. That the girl moved on & wanted no return is nothing unusual.

You want to crucify her for something guys engage in frequently? Crucify away.

MissRaine69:
You meet a woman go out on a few dates. She stays over one night and in your opinion it’s the best sex you have ever had and you start to catch feelings and even find yourself wondering what your children would look like.
But she never returns your calls, answers your messages/emails or tweets.
What does it mean?
How would you deal with this?

Lol, men don't think like that....

MissRaine69:
You meet a woman go out on a few dates. She stays over one night and in your opinion it’s the best sex you have ever had and you start to catch feelings and even find yourself wondering what your children would look like.
But she never returns your calls, answers your messages/emails or tweets.
What does it mean?
How would you deal with this?

definitely will never feel anything! Maybe she's busy! she definitely liv somewhere, so aww check on her to see what /how she's doing!



Anymore questions!!!

See people have their time, I dated this girl for 3year's and never returned calls, text! But she was fine with it! But the first two 3day's I started calling! ummmmm this was the beginning of my duty daily!


Maybe this said lady, according to op might not just be that type of reruns calls, text like me! But now I'm now addicted to returning calls and text, all because someone got me into it years ago!

Anymore questions

kimbraa:
Is this a question? Na so una go dey ask mumu questions.

It's actually a question. This happens in the West. A lady meets you in the club, sleeps with you & moves on with her regular life. No calls, No text.
I'm not yabbing you but please leave Nigeria for a year or two. You would know the life you live is totally different.

MissRaine69:
You meet a woman go out on a few dates. She stays over one night and in your opinion it’s the best sex you have ever had and you start to catch feelings and even find yourself wondering what your children would look like.
But she never returns your calls, answers your messages/emails or tweets.
What does it mean?
How would you deal with this?

I would be furious & scared. This is Africa & I'm very religious, so I might thinking in that she is hiding something. I would start praying lol.

cruchenutii:


I would be furious & scared. This is Africa & I'm very religious, so I might thinking in that she is hiding something. I would start praying lol.

Maybe you were not as good as you think and she was not impressed?

2buffagain:


Lol, men don't think like that....

But they do......

MissRaine69:

But they do......

Pardon me... seasoned men don't think like that.
That would be getting attached to an outcome.
Men with experience simply don't think that way...or at the very least don't put too much thought to it if it happens.

He might actually be relieved, because he might already have been preparing to tell her to not get too attached...

EwuOjota:
Lesbians don't have real babies.

This cracked me up! Is that to say men don't have this problem

2buffagain:


Pardon me... seasoned men don't think like that.
That would be getting attached to an outcome.
Men with experience simply don't think that way...or at the very least don't put too much thought to it if it happens.

He might actually be relieved, because he might already have been preparing to tell her to not get too attached...

Ok read what I wrote again. It gives you an outline in regards context. This person is already catching feelings so my question relates to this scenerio. Even seasoned vaterans catch feelings.

LivingFree:


This cracked me up! Is that to say men don't have this problem

The logic behind this one is illogical.