sanpipita:



Its scary some people are finding context into this, relationship is now a game you go in with back up plan, I'm tired

valdovas:
The Op is a man disguising as female, nobody should take him serious.

babyfaceafrica:
lolz....male friends that you can cry on their shoulders.. he he he?.. so a lady cannot cry on a ladies shoulder?.... joro is a blogger who thrives on controversial topic.. reasonable people will not take relationship advice from a blogger who is single.. the guy is scum....if one is in a relationship.. be there fully.. if it works out fine..if not.. you move on.....having backups or power banks.. is a no for me..what is worth doing at all is worth doing well!

sanpipita:



Its scary some people are finding context into this, relationship is now a game you go in with back up plan, I'm tired

IamPlato:
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TheNaijanBlog:


I agree with you. However, don’t blame the blogs, Nigerians only flock to blogs with ‘gist’ they don’t visit blogs that write well researched articles. We have a proliferation of gossip blogs because there is a demand for it.

sanpipita:


Are you really supporting having contingency plans for a relationship thing? which ever context you see is wrong, I'm a guy I could be most uncommitted person yet but I know my limits, joro's advice is wrong, unless we are saying its okay to keep relationships without full commitments cos tomorrow you will hear married people can keep contingency plans too, having your heart at two places will even more destroy you.

itsmeurLady:


I don't think I said that, please re-read again... The Male Friends are not der for you to cry on, they are just friends, they do what friends do. Not All of them are perverted as you think. I am no fan of joro but it still does not change the fact that he spoke the truth. At your final statement, I said so too but for the fact U are in a relationship does not mean you cannot make friends with the opposite sex!

kimbraa:
His advice is right for those who need it. I read about an article like this a few years back, and the author wasn't a Nigerian sef. I'm sure Ojoro copied it from her with a few editing. It even graced Nairaland front page.

See...the idea was strictly for ladies in their 30s, 40s and above...these set of women don't have time playing around, dating for too long...their biological clock is said to be ticking already and are desperate for marriage, but their boyfriends aren't popping the question. The idea was, don't tell your wooers you're in a relationship, and don't push them away. You never can tell who your husband really is, and it works.

babyfaceafrica:
your partner is suppose to be your friend and lover...and please don't be the devils advocate...joro meant plainly have a backup guy in case of break up and that opinion is wrong...simple!!!

Seal33:

Hi,
nice one

Seal33:

Don't think by having 2 or 3 boyfriends, it will make it easier for u to get a partner. That's a lie from d pit of hell. The same men u think u are just friends with & keeping them as just friends will one day plot & find a way to ur heart because we women are fragile in heart & can easily be manipulated by men, & sooner or later u might end up with sleeping with them. & u now become public property sharing urself to different men. By the time u want to settle down for marriage all those men will tell each other they have slept with u & will spoil ur name even those ure just friends with will still claim they slept wit u because men have ego & like to feel they've conquered a woman even when it's not so

IamPlato:
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Even Those Who Give Out Advice these Days need Advice too

valdovas:
The Op is a man disguising as female, nobody should take him serious.

babyfaceafrica:
your partner is suppose to be your friend and lover...and please don't be the devils advocate...joro meant plainly have a backup guy in case of break up and that opinion is wrong...simple!!!

malificent:
Males are so bitter about this why? Some are even of the mindset that joro talks too much, Just because of this article. See una life, if it's the other way round you guys will Hail and even dash him money. Joro or no joro anybody that has sense should know and do what's right. Leave the poor guy alone Abeg.

kimbraa:
That Ojoro's counsel is actually meant for ladies whose biological clock is ticking. Not for those ones who have the time to do trial and errors. It's about keeping your options open since you can't really tell what goes on in the minds of men these days. You have a choice to either take his counsel, or reject it- he didn't point a gun to your head. Most of the guys supporting you on this thread can't even boasts of keeping one partner, so what are we talking about? And why do I think op is a guy hiding behind a female moniker to diss Ojoro?

victorian:


She will not be like you who at 36 is still lonely with no man, alexialin, we all know you here on NL, lonely pained old,frustrated, bittered and rejected old and used hag.


Chai. I feel for you sha.







Don't mind her, in reality. Ladies who have different boyfriends, end up marrying one of them early sef. Way back in school, all my mates that were fucking different guys even lesbians tendecies got married and had kids earlier than we wey be one woman one man kind of girls.
The ones who are doing faithful and loyal upandan ends up been jilted after many years of staying loyal. Some even few days to wedding the guy may even call it off! Some few days after a loud engagement. Abeggi.

It's all by God's grace and wisdom jare.
There is no clear cut rule to getting married. It simply happens.
I bet she should be in her early 20s, like 21 or 22.

When she clocks 36 with two wonderful heartwreching heartbreaks in her life history
Her brain go reset well!

She will start calling men scums of the earth

I no fit laugh Biko.. Lol

coleon:

While I share a bit of your thoughts, I want u to know that there are no clear cut rules to life and as a matter of fact life has never been fair to anyone. A good girl with just a boyfriend might keep getting jilted and may not be married till 36 years while an olosho with numerous boyfriends may marry one of his boyfriends at 25. My point is keeping just a boyfriend or having two or more does not guarantee anything but gods grace.

Amberon11:
They're really pained honestly. They've been crying all over NL since yesterday.
Hahahaha , bloody hypocrites.

Jayhazard:

Lol, you seem hurt.

Jayhazard:

A genuine believer in Christ should be trust-filled enough to know that anything that has a godly background has tendencies of fertility. Having two or more 'partners' can be detrimental to the subject. It doesn't pay to live a life of pretence. God's grace cannot be excluded, but it doesn't take away the reward for good deeds.

kimbraa:
That Ojoro's counsel is actually meant for ladies whose biological clock is ticking. Not for those ones who have the time to do trial and errors. It's about keeping your options open since you can't really tell what goes on in the minds of men these days. You have a choice to either take his counsel, or reject it- he didn't point a gun to your head. Most of the guys supporting you on this thread can't even boasts of keeping one partner, so what are we talking about? And why do I think op is a guy hiding behind a female moniker to diss Ojoro?

itsmeurLady:


I don't think I said that, please re-read again... The Male Friends are not der for you to cry on, they are just friends, they do what friends do. Not All of them are perverted as you think. I am no fan of joro but it still does not change the fact that he spoke the truth. At your final statement, I said so too but for the fact U are in a relationship does not mean you cannot make friends with the opposite sex!

Seal33:
Seriously, what a perverted advice

coleon:

While I share a bit of your thoughts, I want u to know that there are no clear cut rules to life and as a matter of fact life has never been fair to anyone. A good girl with just a boyfriend might keep getting jilted and may not be married till 36 years while an olosho with numerous boyfriends may marry one of his boyfriends at 25. My point is keeping just a boyfriend or having two or more does not guarantee anything but gods grace.