Dear Jzhane,

I have a problem. I am 38 years old young lady. I have a good career,I am smart and my friends say I am beautiful. As I grew older,I convinced myself that I am not the problem,its the men who are. How else can you explain that I am 38 years old and non of my relationships last more than six months?

I have come to accept the fact that not everyone will get married. Maybe I am one of those who will not get married so I tell myself that I have made peace with that fact. But ma,in my heart,I have to be honest: I really really want to get married. I feel alone even with friends and family around. There is just a void that I don’t know how to fill.

Ma,what is wrong with me? I am beginning to believe my mother who says that it.....more




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I am 34, and in your shoes, in my case, i lost my job, havent neen able to get another for 2yrs now, business not moving as it used to, the emptiness is killing, crying is the only way i can get my self to sleep..and sleeping/dreamland is my happy place.

Samuelgr8:
Dear Jzhane,

I have a problem. I am 38 years old young lady. I have a good career,I am smart and my friends say I am beautiful. As I grew older,I convinced myself that I am not the problem,its the men who are. How else can you explain that I am 38 years old and non of my relationships last more than six months?

I have come to accept the fact that not everyone will get married. Maybe I am one of those who will not get married so I tell myself that I have made peace with that fact. But ma,in my heart,I have to be honest: I really really want to get married. I feel alone even with friends and family around. There is just a void that I don’t know how to fill.

Ma,what is wrong with me? I am beginning to believe my mother who says that it.....more




https://livelystones.com.ng/i-am-scared-i-will-be-alone-as-my-relationships-never-last/

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EbonyIdy:
I am 34, and in your shoes, in my case, i lost my job, havent neen able to get another for 2yrs now, business not moving as it used to, the emptiness is killing, crying is the only way i can get my self to sleep..and sleeping/dreamland is my happy place.

God will certainly make a way for you even where there seems to be no way. you need to trust him on this

chiommy123:
God will certainly make a way for you even where there seems to be no way. you need to trust him on this

amen but let the person try www.ashebbi.com

At least, yours last up to 6 months.

Mine don't last 3 weeks

My sister,when the taste of palmwine changes,the drinking pattern changes as well...are you sure,you are not your own problom?....bad character,rubber band mouth,running tap mouth and total direspect to men,has kept alot of women forever spinsters...try and see a pastor,it could be spiritual.

donbachi:
My sister,when the taste of palmwine changes,the drinking pattern changes as well...are you sure,you are not your own problom?....bad character,rubber band mouth,running tap mouth and total direspect to men,has kept alot of women forever spinsters...try and see a pastor,it could be spiritual.

yes please you have a point

EbonyIdy:
I am 34, and in your shoes, in my case, i lost my job, havent neen able to get another for 2yrs now, business not moving as it used to, the emptiness is killing, crying is the only way i can get my self to sleep..and sleeping/dreamland is my happy place.

Oh my dear, can I talk to you? right now you are susceptible to depression and suicide. Please take heart, when there is life, there is hope.

i agree with you. trusting God is all that's required here and not the environmental pressure

chiommy123:
God will certainly make a way for you even where there seems to be no way. you need to trust him on this