skyhighweb:
to put it in short form

he is local very local.

dont force it others will come unless u are 30 n pressure is on u

chiommy123:
you think he's not being honest. I think you should have a heart to heart discussion with him. study him too

donbachi:
you both were in love with each other.but your inabilities to profess it to yourselves.became a problem.some women are good in giving green lights.she gave it to you,and you never saw it.because,you were not that matured at heart then.but today,you are.just concentrate on your new found love.take it as love lost,or continue living in sweet misery of the sweet moments you shared with her.

93Miles:
Op are we to decide who u should fall in love with?

Even if we do, u will still follow ur heart. So go follow ur heart.

dunpredictable:

I'm a "she".

dunpredictable:


I've gone out with him twice. He doesn't say much except how he loves me. He's hiding something for sure. I don't know how I can get him to open up.

dunpredictable:


I've gone out with him twice. He doesn't say much except how he loves me. He's hiding something for sure. I don't know how I can get him to open up.

chiommy123:
ask him direct questions and be serious about it do not allow him to change any topic you raise

dunpredictable:
so, I just got off a long term relationship and kinda heart broken. but before d break, there's dis guy coming around, it's been about 7 months now since he started asking me out. He's apparently not bad but there are somethings dat are just off about him.

1. Although he talks well in English he claims he's not well educated, he stopped at primary school. (can u believe dat). while I on d other hand am a graduate.

2. He's into Agriculture (farming to put it simple). I asked him if it's d only thing he does , initially he said he'll tell me later den leta he said it's d only thing he does (smell lies).

3. He's from a polygamous home (3 wives to d father)

4. He's urhobo. He always tries to be cool but sometimes dat warri style comes in.

5.I've tried searching for him on Facebook but nothing comes up plus I've not seen him with any smart phone. how is dat possible?

pls help me with good suggestions.

Bluezy13:
There nothing more interestingly exhilarating in a relationship than keeping it a mystery, forcing the Lady to be confused and wanting to find out more about you.
You know, allow her to remain in the dark corners of wonderland.

It's adventurous and fun

Emmm...OP, play a thief to catch a thief.

MajorJeffery:
Not just that, the dude may also be on a vigilant mode just in case. You don't expect a man to share all about himself with a stranger just because of a mere relationship. Only a foolish man will meet a lady and within 7months, spill everything about himself, his family and hustles.

DaddyNimo:
you probably don't even have a job or a source of income, yet u diss a guy for been a farmer? I hate girls and their dating request...

Bluezy13:
There nothing more interestingly exhilarating in a relationship than keeping it a mystery, forcing the Lady to be confused and wanting to find out more about you.
You know, allow her to remain in the dark corners of wonderland.

It's adventurous and fun

Emmm...OP, play a thief to catch a thief.