Mizk:
This writeup is from a personal POV as a girl, someone who has been in a relationship, someone who has been an intermediary between her bestie and a guy wooing her, and a third party observer.

There's this saying that relationships without money to spice things up is doomed to fail, and for a guy to sweep a girl off her feet, money is the most necessary prerequisite before looks, mannerism and all.

Well that is a misconception people believed so much, to make matters worse, runs girls are in the background fueling this belief,

Yes, money is needed in every relationship but its not as important as people make it seem, Infact its better if you date someone you don't demand stuff from, that would make him or her eager to do stuff for you, those who don't ask anything of you in a relationship deserves alot from you.

My point is, when you ask any girl out and she starts demanding money and favors immediately, a week later, one to two months later, Run for your life, that girl doesn't like you, she's only in for what she stands to gain from you.

I know some foolish guys would want to try hard and meet up with her unreasonable demands, show her you're capable and all, believe me there's a guy somewhere she doesn't demand all this from, and the funny thing is, she likes this guy more than you, that's the bitter truth, if a girl likes you She'll overlook all your shortcomings including your financial constraints.

A girl that likes you won't be asking favors from you every now and then when she's well aware of your condition, she'd be supportive and independent, because she knows that relationship is a two way thing and you have your own issues to take care of, this is why you should never flex your financial muscle when asking a girl out, they'll fall inlove with your money not you, and that'll be the only voice in your relationship,

Lastly, Money impress lazy girls, the type that sit around and expect miracles not girls who work hard to earn a living.

MariaLavina:
You are very right !
A woman who wants something special from you will not make unnecessary demands from you, As a matter of fact, she will try as much as possible to avoid requesting so you won't have a bad impression of her.
Women make insane demands to either get you off their necks or to get you off your accounts (lick you dry)


But then we live in a world where Men are made to believe the more you are ready to spend, the more she will be willing to succumb to your advances. They are made to understand that get rich and women will come. But they aren't taught the basis of life. Money can never buy loyalty or love. So you see Men trying to impress or get a woman's love by showering gifts on her. And you wonder why they fall prey?

In all, I think all humans should grow a sense of value, conscience and Self esteem. A woman shouldn't take advantage of the misconception Men have of them. While The Man shouldn't remain manipulated by the lies society has imposed on them. A woman's love can never be bought!.

vizkiz:
Stop dating poor women. Classy women don't even give a fück about your money because she's got a whole lot in her account as well.

This is just poverty Mentality. No guy deserves a liability as girlfriend. We are both human working towards survival. There is no law that puts the guy in the giving position. I support gender equality.


Well, it's the average Nigerian girl mentality Sha.

GrammarNazi1:

...money impresses lazy...

Hugo55:
This coming from a lady, I say well done.
There are still ladies with sense and conscience after all.

donbachi:
True talk...i know alot of guys will still abuse it..some will feel or think,you have one MMM somewhere,that gives you money...i like girls like you.anytime we hangout no much spendings...i go just buy water and condom.gasikia

Mizk:
When we hangout, you'll feel like you're not there because I'll pay for what we consumed and drop t-fare for you, you ain't using no condom

donbachi:
hahahaaa!.you are my elder sister,not my girlfriend,in this case...you will really make a nice wife.

Fyi0:
Great writeup!!

Mizk:
Thanks

Fyi0:

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Mizk:
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KingLinglee:
True! My girl is proof, She has her flaws but rarely makes stupid demands.

Hell,She never demands!!
Got to a point I was getting scared and developing theories -Since she isn't getting from me obviously there has to be another source.

Turns out I was been paranoid and she really really likes me

You got paranoid because its common for Nigerian girls to be gold diggers, but girls who don't demand are extremely rare, it makes you second guess everything, i can relate

Mizk:
This writeup is from a personal POV as a girl, someone who has been in a relationship, someone who has been an intermediary between her bestie and a guy wooing her, and a third party observer.

There's this saying that relationships without money to spice things up is doomed to fail, and for a guy to sweep a girl off her feet, money is the most necessary prerequisite before looks, mannerism and all.

Well that is a misconception people believed so much, to make matters worse, runs girls are in the background fueling this belief,

Yes, money is needed in every relationship but its not as important as people make it seem, Infact its better if you date someone you don't demand stuff from, that would make him or her eager to do stuff for you, those who don't ask anything of you in a relationship deserves alot from you.

My point is, when you ask any girl out and she starts demanding money and favors immediately, a week later, one to two months later, Run for your life, that girl doesn't like you, she's only in for what she stands to gain from you.

I know some foolish guys would want to try hard and meet up with her unreasonable demands, show her you're capable and all, believe me there's a guy somewhere she doesn't demand all this from, and the funny thing is, she likes this guy more than you, that's the bitter truth, if a girl likes you She'll overlook all your shortcomings including your financial constraints.

A girl that likes you won't be asking favors from you every now and then when she's well aware of your condition, she'd be supportive and independent, because she knows that relationship is a two way thing and you have your own issues to take care of, this is why you should never flex your financial muscle when asking a girl out, they'll fall inlove with your money not you, and that'll be the only voice in your relationship,

Lastly, Money impress lazy girls, the type that sit around and expect miracles not girls who work hard to earn a living.

Mizk:
This writeup is from a personal POV as a girl, someone who has been in a relationship, someone who has been an intermediary between her bestie and a guy wooing her, and a third party observer.

There's this saying that relationships without money to spice things up is doomed to fail, and for a guy to sweep a girl off her feet, money is the most necessary prerequisite before looks, mannerism and all.

Well that is a misconception people believed so much, to make matters worse, runs girls are in the background fueling this belief,

Yes, money is needed in every relationship but its not as important as people make it seem, Infact its better if you date someone you don't demand stuff from, that would make him or her eager to do stuff for you, those who don't ask anything of you in a relationship deserves alot from you.

My point is, when you ask any girl out and she starts demanding money and favors immediately, a week later, one to two months later, Run for your life, that girl doesn't like you, she's only in for what she stands to gain from you.

I know some foolish guys would want to try hard and meet up with her unreasonable demands, show her you're capable and all, believe me there's a guy somewhere she doesn't demand all this from, and the funny thing is, she likes this guy more than you, that's the bitter truth, if a girl likes you She'll overlook all your shortcomings including your financial constraints.

A girl that likes you won't be asking favors from you every now and then when she's well aware of your condition, she'd be supportive and independent, because she knows that relationship is a two way thing and you have your own issues to take care of, this is why you should never flex your financial muscle when asking a girl out, they'll fall inlove with your money not you, and that'll be the only voice in your relationship,

Lastly, Money impress lazy girls, the type that sit around and expect miracles not girls who work hard to earn a living.

vizkiz:
Stop dating poor women. Classy women don't even give a fück about your money because she's got a whole lot in her account as well.

This is just poverty Mentality. No guy deserves a liability as girlfriend. We are both human working towards survival. There is no law that puts the guy in the giving position. I support gender equality.


Well, it's the average Nigerian girl mentality Sha.

Elder001:



Meaning ?A rich guy should form poor because he want to woo a Nigerian girl?

Because he's rich doesn't mean you should start demanding for money.

Mizk:
No but don't use it to entice a girl you're wooing either or you attract runs girls then come to nairaland and wail like a sissy, nigerian girls are gold diggers.