mrblessed:
I don't think you are truly afraid to encounter 'Satan' as you claimed. However, I give you credit for attempting to play smart.The problem is the thrust of the tread; it compels you write few good things about guys, something you are not accustomed to.

well since you called me back to it I'll try. Some guys are truely nice especially when they have not really mixed up with all this negative influence out there I mean bad friends ( guys too). Happy now. thou I have not seen any here.

chiommy123:
well since you called me back to it I'll try. Some guys are truely nice especially when they have not really mixed up with all this negative influence out there I mean bad friends ( guys too). Happy now. thou I have not seen any here.

Maybe the reason you haven't seen nice guys here is because you aren't nice yourself, or you have an unrealistic criteria of what it means to be nice. Like minds, the saying goes, attract. Just tilt your mindset a little towards guys and see what startling result you will get.

mrblessed:
Maybe the reason you haven't seen nice guys here is because you aren't nice yourself, or you have an unrealistic criteria of what it means to be nice. Like minds, the saying goes, attract. Just tilt your mindset a little towards guys and see what startling result you will get.

alright Sir. The problem is them guys they talk anyhow here

chiommy123:
alright Sir. The problem is them guys they talk anyhow here

Haha. OK. The guys are wrong; Chioma is always right. It sounds nice to my ears.

mrblessed:
Where are the ladies? Where are their pleasant and fascinating stories about meeting coolheaded and responsible guys? Or is it that because this tread isn't about attacking and shaming guys for failing to tick all their boxes, they have deserted this nice tread. It is now clear that most ladies here are unconsciously biased toward guys, do not think it is necessary to give guys credit for behaving gentlemanly. It is the Op's fault, she could written a guy-bashing tread and behold an unremitting stream of comments castigating guys for perpetually not being man enough. So, the call to share complimentary stories from ladies will not be heeded for obvious reasons.

even the mod can't move it to fp because it won't ganer traffic. Truth is dead so badnews castigations makes life worth it.......

Lilisticlili:
even the mod can't move it to fp because it won't ganer traffic. Truth is dead so badnews castigations makes life worth it.......

Whether it gets to front page or not is immaterial. However, I think message was well received by my sisters here, even though they have refused to make comments. We need to say few complimentary remarks about one another, not always castigating ourselves as if we are eternal competitors. And if we begin to say good things about the opposite sex, it affects our thinking and disposition as well. This is not to say that, criticisms where necessary, should be glossed over.

Lilisticlili:
even the mod can't move it to fp because it won't ganer traffic. Truth is dead so badnews castigations makes life worth it.......

Whether it gets to front page or not is inconsequential. Perhaps it does not make business sense to get it over there. But the thrust of the post has been comprehensively received by my sisters, even though they have refused to make comments. Make and female are not competitors; hence, we need to occasionally compliment one another. In doing so, we suppress some bias and negative emotions, begin to see a totally different picture of the opposite. Nevertheless, I believe that criticisms, when and where necessary, should not be misconstrue as hatred but an act of love.

SirMichael1:



You have no idea how sad I was after Pain dealt the final blow.

You just started the series?

...pervy sage....Nahhh watching the series for the 3rd time now....confirm otaku Na im I be

UyaiIncomparabl:


What do you have then? A coochie?

how much?

N0favors:
how much?

Lilisticlili:
Not every man who is nice to you is flirting or toasting you or wants to sleep with you.
Some mothers actually raised their sons to be gentlemen.
Though the everyday men has defaulted countless on the above approach.
A definite picture of the "good samaritan with a knife"

Ladies,pls share your stories of Trust and molestation by a suppose "Nice" male-friend.

Gentleman and so so so. ..do you assume all women are gentle ? I've been hearing the word "gentleman" for over 27years.
Using this logic, only men can be ungentle?


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Elder001:


Gentleman and so so so. ..do you assume all women are gentle ? I've been hearing the word "gentleman" for over 27years.
Using this logic, only men can be ungentle?


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No some women are horrible beings. Being "ungentle" is not gender specific but I think the post is to promote good stories about men instead of the nasty ones flying around

Eketem:


No some women are horrible beings. Being "ungentle" is not gender specific but I think the post is to promote good stories about men instead of the nasty ones flying around

Have you ever seen a post on social media or in sit in any social gathering where women were referred to as “gentlewomen”? probably no.

Meaning, they think only men can be ungentle.