And it goes both ways too

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xynerise:
Dafaq

It's simple really. Many people are in one-sided relationships. They stay in such unhealthy relationships because of a multiplicity of reasons ranging from naivety, self esteem issues to desperation.

Ishilove:

It's simple really. Many people are in one-sided relationships. They stay in such unhealthy relationships because of a multiplicity of reasons ranging from naivety, self esteem issues and desperation.

Very true

Ishilove:

It's simple really. Many people are in one-sided relationships. They stay in such unhealthy relationships because of a multiplicity of reasons ranging from naivety, self esteem issues and desperation.

Sorry, what did mean/called one sided relationship? Because 80% of relationship in Nigeria is one sided if what i understand is what you mean.

You're just in a mood, it will pass. Nobody deserves anything from anyone. You get what you get - Denzel Washington. Circa 1987

Gone are those days when I barely think of myself in a relationship, now I'm very selfish in relationship and it feels good to think about virtually only my happiness.

Gone are those days when I barely think of myself in a relationship, now I'm very selfish in relationship and it feels good to think about virtually only my happiness.

Colourich:
Gone are those days when I barely think of myself in a relationship, now I'm very selfish in relationship and it feels good to think about virtually only my happiness.

How do you do it? i.e. to be in a relationship and still be thinking about only yourself.

usoroh4luv:


How do you do it? i.e. to be in a relationship and still be thinking about only yourself.

Well I trained myself to be selfish and let my man love more, its working out well.

Colourich:
Gone are those days when I barely think of myself in a relationship, now I'm very selfish in relationship and it feels good to think about virtually only my happiness.

Phew....I jump and Pass

BetterKola:

Phew....I jump and Pass

Keep jumping .

Colourich:
Keep jumping .

I am not Jumping again. Based on my leg movement I am already on the Run.

Better change your orientation

BetterKola:


I am not Jumping again. Based on my leg movement I am already on the Run.


Better change your orientation

No, I'll pass, I'm better off like this, there is this inner joy its gives me.

Colourich:
Well I trained myself to be selfish and let my man love more, its working out well.

you are dating a poor man!!!
I can never take that shit you put up there,as well as my folks

Colourich:
No, I'll pass, I'm better off like this, there is this inner joy its gives me.

Hmmmm......It's your Choice. #Enjoy

nwanneni:
you are dating a poor man!!!
I can never take that shit you put up there,as well as my folks

No, I'm dating a man that sees me as his goddess, I hope we are clear.

Colourich:
Well I trained myself to be selfish and let my man love more, its working out well.

Wow, Your man must be one cool and quiet guy. I don't know how to love more. I'm very sensitive to the way I'm been treated by anyone I come across. My love must be almost equal to yours via our conscious efforts

usoroh4luv:


Wow, Your man must be one cool and quiet guy. I don't know how to love more. I'm very sensitive to the way I'm been treated by anyone I come across. My love must be almost equal to yours via our conscious efforts

I assure you, I have no business with sensitive men.

Well, that's true. I've looked deep into certain things, and I've seen reasons why it's always good to value your sanity over anything else.

Though I'm not interested in being utterly selfish for no just cause, but I still think most times, if there's no win-win situation, then there's no need trying to force anything. Be it love, attention, care.

I just think in general relationships are draining and over rated. After the honey moon phase it’s problem after problem and forcing a fake smile for the cameras.

Advicing someone in abusive or one sided relationship doesn't always work cos they keep going back until its done on them and they advice themselves

Colourich:
No, I'm dating a man that sees me as his goddess, I hope we are clear.

Goddess?well,i can't force you to see truth.
Hope we are clear?

Saff:
I just think in general relationships are draining and over rated. After the honey moon phase it’s problem after problem and forcing a fake smile for the cameras.

i am so glad you started this post with "i think".
I'm proud of you

Colourich:
I assure you, I have no business with sensitive men.

Is it wrong for a man to be sensitive?

If a man is no more caring as he used to even no matter how little it reduces, women will start complaining. Are women alone, allowed to be sensitive?

Colourich:
Well I trained myself to be selfish and let my man love more, its working out well.

I used to date a girl like you. she was so selfish with her emotions. i did all the loving and caring but i wasn't really getting back what i was giving. I knew she love me, she's just trying to protect herself from being heartbroken. But i wasn't pleased with that attitude,although she seem happy with what she was doing. I guess she thought her methods were working. In my own mind i was just being patient, believing she will change eventually, maybe when she realized i am not playing with her emotions. But she was too deep in what she was doing that i had no option than to break up with her, not when someone else is showing me the love and care i seek for. The day i was broke up with her, she was still proving that she doesn't really care and telling me that she's happy she's not too deep in love with me but i knew she was just pretending. After the break up, someone that claimed didn't care was stalking my social media, telling my friends and hers that i wasn't good to her.


I just want you to know that this your method will only work for a while. If you still remain selfish, your man will meet someone who will shower him with love and care you have refuse to give.

chisco82:

Sorry, what did mean/called one sided relationship? Because 80% of relationship in Nigeria is one sided if what i understand is what you mean.

By one-sided, I mean one person giving all the love and affection in the relationship, without receiving a commensurate measure of the same

I deserve the best.
I deserve to be happy.
I deserve to be free
I deserve genuine love.

if u like deserve or dont deserve, me no get power for plenty talk, if u dont like the way i treat u, i no lock door biko, show urself out, there are 5 billion women in the world, when fish plenty for river, fisher man no dey rush

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Saff:
I just think in general relationships are draining and over rated. After the honey moon phase it’s problem after problem and forcing a fake smile for the cameras.

I hate it when people Generalise on Social Media. To be sincere what you posted up there do not define the word Relationship. Do you know that some gullible folks will swallow this your line without any Objection.

Next time try not to Generalize.

Well, I am not a Relationship expert but I have seen a lot of people in peaceful and Enviable relationship and I do not think it was draining.