7 Surprising Signs He'll Never Marry You

The tricky thing about womanizers is that they usually have their game down pat, which mean it's easy to get sucked in. They seem totally sweet and charming on the surface — who'd ever guess they were secretly scoundrels? So to help you sharpen your man-LovePeddler radar, we narrowed down the more subtle clues a guy has a case of commitment phobia. If he exhibits three or more of these, watch out.
~ By Niki Evans

1. All of His Exes Are "Crazy"
Be wary of a man who refers to his former girlfriends as crazy, psycho, or clingy — because what's the common denominator here? Him. The dude's either looney-bin glue, or he never really wanted the relationship to work in the first place.

2. He Plans Ultra-Romantic Dates
A cozy candlelit dinner is nice and all, but if he only takes you to secluded places, it could be a tip-off that he doesn't want other women to spot him on a date. Next time he asks you out, suggest hitting up a busy restaurant or popular bar and see how he reacts.

3. He's Hot and Cold on the Phone
He'll text you 10 times in a night, then go MIA for days. He'll chat on the phone for an hour, then ignore your messages for the rest of the week. Wondering what the hell is going on? We're going to be brutally honest: He's mostly likely busy dating other women.

4. He Guilt-Trips You
It's normal for a guy to be jonesing to sleep with you from day one. But this behavior is a red flag if he a) lays the pressure on thick, or b) tries to make you feel bad if you choose not to have sex — like by giving you a sob story about blue balls.

5. Stuff Is Missing from His Facebook Profile
Has he untagged any photos of you and him? Does he post updates often, yet never mention hanging out with you? Is his relationship status hidden? We smell a rat. A guy who's leery of commitment will make sure there are no traces of you on his page.

6. His Buddies Act Distant
Even though a player's bros may be friendly enough, they probably won't ask you many personal questions about your job, interests, etc. The ugly truth: They don't want to invest time and energy getting to know you because they figure you're not going to be around very long.


7. He Says You're Soul Mates
Okay, we adore the idea of love at first sight — but too much too soon could also indicate sketchy intentions. If a dude comes on super strong right off the bat (we're talking the first couple of weeks), telling you things like that he's starting to fall in love with you, just make sure you play it safe and trust your gut. Those powerful words might be rolling off his tongue so smoothly because he's spoken them so many times before.

SOURCES: William July, PhD, Author of Confessions of an Ex-Bachelor and Jenn Berman, PsyD, Relationship Expert for Cosmo Radio.

Orikinla na which side u come dey now? Dat of guys or chicks wit little brains?

If we no do dem like dat dey no go learn my broda.

Now who's talking about marryage. . .

Hairat007:

Orikinla na which side u come dey now? Dat of guys or chicks wit little brains?

If we no do dem like dat dey no go learn my broda.

nice question

The title of this thread should be "Some potential signs he'll never marry you and here are seven to begin with"

i love these magazine articles written by women who pretend to know men better than us men.lol!
ok

1) All of His Exes Are "Crazy"

there is nothing wrong with ALL your exes being crazy, if they werent then he wouldnt be with you but with any of them!
saying that they are crazy is just a way of saying that it didnt work out (for whatever reason) without going into details and this in no way should be taken as a sign of "no marriage future".

2) He Plans Ultra-Romantic Dates

its called making the date  SPECIAL. who isnt tired of the same old boring dating etiquette?! i say:" do something different, make that date unforgettable, even if it may look strange to some that no one is around!"
also it could simply be that this person is SHY in public surroundings and this in no way should be taken as a sign of "no marriage future".

3) He's Hot and Cold on the Phone

the important point here is WHAT IS THE REASON HE GIVES YOU WHEN YOU GET HOLD OF HIM AGAIN?! just accusing him of cheating without first knowing the reason why he was awol is childish and  this in no way should be taken as a sign of "no marriage future".

5) Stuff Is Missing from His Facebook Profile

some men out there dont give a damn about Facebook and if some gals out there are gonna take FB as a tool to know if a person is right or wrong to marry then, guess what?! she probably aint old/wise enough to get married at the first place. god forbids, some people like their lives to be PRIVATE.

6) His Buddies Act Distant

and they should!!!! buddies are like family and if a gal comes in between this family, then buddies have all the rights to feel negatively and be distant towards this woman. women cant understand this because they are WOMEN!!

do women expect guys to jump for joy when they hear that their buddy is getting hooked and wont be able to attend all the "fun filled buddy parties" any longer?! duh!

Now I am somewhat confused. Which of the posts should I believe? Orinkinla or MRbrownJAY?
I was accepting the former before the latter post came up.

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm

hbabe:

Now I am somewhat confused. Which of the posts should I believe? Orinkinla or MRbrownJAY?
I was accepting the former before the latter post came up.

you should believe your FEELINGS and nothing else. dont judge men because of what you read in magazines or NL but because of what you guts feeling tells you.

Hairat007:

Orikinla na which side u come dey now? Dat of guys or chicks wit little brains?

If we no do dem like dat dey no go learn my broda.

I am a double-edged sword.
I say the truth with very deep cuts.
Even if the truth also cuts me in the process.

If I should react to what Nigerian babes do, my last babe would have been missing by now. But I spared her and asked God to deliver her from the demons holding her.


I have no scores to settle with our women.

My mother was a beautiful and wonderful Nigerian woman.

My younger sister is very God fearing, beautiful and faithful mother of five adorable children.
But my elder sister who is half Igbo and half Ibibio is something else.

Back to the topic.

I posted it for us to debate it.

The yardstick white women use in judging their white men is different from the yardstick Nigerian women use in judging Nigerian men.

MRbrownJAY:

you should believe your FEELINGS and nothing else. dont judge men because of what you read in magazines or NL but because of what you guts feeling tells you.

yeah, i agree with you here. when it comes to relationships, indeed there are no set rules. those 7 surprising signs could mean anything, depending on the person involved.

Ahahaha y am i not surpised dat MrBrowny would analysis dis post!

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm

I think we all have the internal warning device in our heads that tell us the truths in relationships we would rather hope dearly were not truths.

Orikinla,I've been knowing you on this site since 2006
You never marry since then?
My dear hurry up.
Ga luo nwanyi nwanne m nwoke

0hsisi:

Orikinla,I've been knowing you on this site since 2006
You never marry since then?
My dear hurry up.
Ga luo nwanyi nwanne m nwoke

I am not married, but I have a happy family.

It is better to be single and happy than be unhappily married like most couples I know.
Most marriages in Nigeria have produced lunatic fringe elements from incestuous abominations and adulteries.
Most of our “legislooters” in the National Assembly are products of bad marriages.

I am enjoying my freedom.

Orikinla:

I am not married, but I have a happy family.

It is better to be single and happy than be unhappily married like most couples I know.
Most marriages in Nigeria have produced lunatic fringe elements from incestuous abominations and adulteries.
Most of our “legislooters” in the National Assembly are products of bad marriages.

I am enjoying my freedom.

I must hook you up my dear