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Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by Martin0(m): 11:58am On Sep 09, 2018 |
chineloSA: gbam orga na dili gi mma na afor, oyea, nkwor, eke |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by Martin0(m): 12:00pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
chineloSA: hahahah i see it in your eyes better woman |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by Martin0(m): 12:02pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
chineloSA:na WA for you, for this kind time na u dey sleep nor worry she don already dey beg me for her mind now, ar know |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by Martin0(m): 12:04pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
noruwasman: Amen oo heavens knows we are all waiting 1 Like |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by Ironlion1(m): 12:04pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
ola12: Lazy Nigeria Youths. |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by Ironlion1(m): 12:06pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
ola12: Lazy Nigerian Youths. |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by Martin0(m): 12:07pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Jacqueline22: make I advice you as a brother! e go better say you go dey gym oo coz if you dey eat early morning like this hmmmmmmm people go hmmmm my nor talk sha..... well if you like eat sleep turn to blom blom ar go still stick with you,afterall what are friends for |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by Martin0(m): 12:09pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Twoclans: mehn who introvert epp eh see ma sister's and mama and Papa go beat if them hear say na woman toast me |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by Zhahovic(m): 12:39pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
This story is legendary...truly....very touching...!.. .. plenty women are confused and co-fused with confusion!!! 1 Like |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by thegoodone1234(m): 12:54pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
You don't want sex but you are living with him.You cause everything that happened to you. |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by Twoclans(f): 1:08pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Martin0: See your head Oya toast me ,I am sure they will be proud of you when you bring home a correct Anambra babe .Let's give nairaland wedding bells |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by Martin0(m): 1:20pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Twoclans: commot for here ee dem nor dey start love play like this na, Anambra babe e be like say u don dey ripe oo, wait how person go just carry toast you like that, ar never see ukwu and water melon and I wan toast you, his twobaby is it fair to you |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by lastclaire4(f): 1:28pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
seunmsg: OK Seun I will check. |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by LadyHeaven(f): 1:29pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
DMerciful: 2 Likes
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Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by Nobody: 1:30pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Traditional wedding is wedding |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by makydebbie(f): 1:38pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
YoungDaNaval:How do you expect me to get the mention? I'm okay. |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by IkeMattie: 1:43pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
For those that don't know there basically three recognised marriage in Nigeria 1.Traditional or Customary marriage. 2. Islamic marriage and then marriage under the Act (borrowed from the white man either in a legally licenced church or court). If not in a licenced church it's mere blessing. So, don't be misled trad marriage is also marriage. Marriage under the act is an adendum. |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by NoToPile: 1:44pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
I dont fancy this yeye style of doing trad now and then church wedding months later, some even d a year later. Do the whole stuff within some days, even if travelling to the village and coming back for the church, maximum 2 weeks. Besides traditional marriage is marriage in eyes of God, if you want to consummate the marriage after all ceremonies then do all sharply. That's the genesis of this whole issue. |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by Emmalexmng: 1:53pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
How I wish many other ladies can learn from her story. 1 Like |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by bitbillionaire: 2:09pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
The guy wasn't meant for you. Move on girl and stop regretting your decision to have sex only after church wedding. Any man who cannot discipline or control his sexual urge cannot control anything other thing in life and will most likely not be a good husband! 2 Likes |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by mechanics(m): 2:15pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
You should have maintained your stand, traditional marriage does not allow both partners to have sex o, get that right, you were right before, but you didn't take your stand, don't give up, your better half will surely come. 1 Like |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by Sike(m): 2:27pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
This OP is a learner |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by Twoclans(f): 2:58pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Martin0: Ukwu kill you diaaaaa I am going to take you back to where you belong |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by noruwasman(m): 3:42pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Martin0:I may even be available on bachelor's eve aside plenty plenty donations. 1 Like |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by Khayil(m): 3:48pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Looks like my Friend Doc Martins En*ebu** |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by bluesaint(m): 3:50pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Its really appalling to see someone summon the courage to share his/her story so someone out there can learn from their mistakes, and then you see some I'll mannered English speaking nitwits laughing and mocking at the victim. If you don't have any good thing to say, why can't you just shut up? Such attitude goes a long way to tell how messed up your life is. Gosh! @seun, when will you give the OP the power to delete comments on their posts, or sensor comments automatically? This trend is pathetic. 1 Like |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by YoungDaNaval(m): 4:32pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
makydebbie:oooh I spelt your name wrongly? I didn't notice. nice to know that you're okay. As for me, am not okay ooh |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by YoungDaNaval(m): 4:33pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
bluesaint:Lol welcome to nairaland bluesaint:Lol welcome to nairaland |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by ajbabs(m): 4:34pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Triumphantbeing, even though, I don't know the veracity of this story but I think one can learn from it. "Ignorance at its peck" should be the title of this story. Traditional marriage is the real marriage sanction by God Almighty. Others are just ceremonial or constitutional in nature. 1 Like |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by biomedics(m): 4:52pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
This is deep, justice you allowed spiritism to becloude your sense of reasoning which still boils down to the saying that the more spiritual one is, the more foolish he becomes. Martin is an example of a perfect gentleman. What if on the night of the honeymoon you discover he is just a two minutes man? What if on the said night you discover he has a small joystick? Preachers will always demonise sex when on the pulpits but their promiscuouties are legendary. You ruined your married singlehandedly but let that not break you down another chance will present itself, it could even be me. But most importantly, I believe you've learnt from your mistake. NB I'm only going to do traditional marriage then we go to court, sign papers and move on. 1 Like |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by makydebbie(f): 4:52pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
YoungDaNaval:Lol, what's wrong? |
Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by YoungDaNaval(m): 4:59pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
makydebbie:Coz I missed you makydebbie:Coz I missed you |
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