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Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by Nobody: 5:40pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
pocohantas:I'm still thinking of what a Nigerian Man is doing with prenuptial nonsense.. This people just like feeling among! Marriage in Nigeria has always favoured Men! in every aspect! A woman has to care for him, take all his shiits, change who she is to satisfy him, cope with annoying in laws, shes the builder of the family and gets the blame if the marriage fails.And if she's so unfortunate, she gets to take up financial responsibilities. Yet to a Nigerian man she is doing nothing! #5000? *scoffs she's lucky if she gets that. That's if she isn't forced to either choose between her children or her marriage. Men create problems, when women seek solutions and beat them to their games, they start wailing. Prenuptial ko, post natal ni! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by WizAkzy: 5:42pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
MissRaine69:I like it when you are being sincere. Now if you were to be a young man in this present time, would you want to fully trust and get into a legal contract with a woman especially this generation of women? Even knowing fully well that the prenup we are talking about can possibly be waved by the family court? Please be sincere 1 Like |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by Nobody: 5:48pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
2buffagain:Call me old fashioned, I don't see the need for it. And I don't expect my man to. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by Nobody: 5:52pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
GrammarNazi1:Yes I know. And that's bad. But then I still maintain it's useless. I can't just wrap my head around signing some paper in case a marriage ( yet to be formed) fails? really? arghhhhhh 1 Like |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by GrammarNazi1(m): 5:55pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
MariaLavina:In everything in life, a written agreement is the best since people are capricious. The agreement protects the man and the woman. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by Nobody: 5:59pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
CAPSLOCKED: Me too |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by 2buffagain(m): 5:59pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
MariaLavina: ...and then if it fails...? You are just thinking like a child, not an adult. You have to cover all bases. What you don't understand is that a prenup also protects women AS WELL AS protecting men....the latter being more neccessary outside of naija given predatory family laws around the whole world. You might say, "we are in naija, he doesn't need protection"...but what then happens if you guys move to another country? He is then subject to the worst part of you and predatory lawyers who egg you on to twist the dagger ever more angrily in the event of a divorce. And the sad part is that he would be forced to pay those very same lawyers who will be coaching you on how to stab him well. To be of this opinion, Oh you have Nooo idea the things that have been done to men in these parts of the world by women who just wake up one morning and decide to be bitches. The life of a man cannot be subject to the whims, ebbs and flows of something as turbulent as a female's emotions. IMO The only woman who is against signing a prenup is one of 3 things: 1- Ignorant: ... i.e "Why would anyone want to buy car insurance?" "Life insurance keh? So you want to kill me?!" blah blah blah other silly talk. 2- Broke - Because if she had some coins, she'd want to protect them too. 3- Evil ... because she knows the default situation already favors her. Now if only she can get this idiot to not protect himself. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by Nobody: 6:01pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
pansophist:It's a no for me. No prenuptial nonsense. I don't know why men are so concerned about this thing. There are women who are richer than their husbands you don't see them demanding these things. What has the world turn to? ! |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by Nobody: 6:03pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
2buffagain:Believe what you like! Who are you again? A nobody! so shove your opinion of me into the deepest hole in your body. Let it die there 2 Likes |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by 2buffagain(m): 6:06pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
MariaLavina: There it is So you are #3 then. Evil. Because #1 at least still has hope with some education. 4 Likes |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by Nobody: 6:07pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
GrammarNazi1:Sigh...Alright I'm done with this topic. |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by GrammarNazi1(m): 6:07pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
MariaLavina:It's okay. |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by Nobody: 6:08pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
GrammarNazi1:Thanks |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by pansophist(m): 6:09pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
MariaLavina: I wished it was not the case. Im pro marriage, without the legal paper signing. Church, traditional marriage is cool for me. I live in the West and have seen with my eyes uncountable cases which makes it seem inadvisable for men to marry. In Nigeria yes, men should. In the West, definitely no. 2 Likes |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by 2buffagain(m): 6:11pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
Someone needs to put this thread on frontpage. Not sure who mods are 1 Like |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by Nobody: 6:14pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
WizAkzy:When you have all turned everything to papers and letters, don't come here crying how the world is bereft of compassion and love. you all seek temporal solutions to permanent problems. Lemme go back to my Pluto jeje, obviously I'm the only one strange here |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by 2buffagain(m): 6:15pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
MariaLavina: That is exactly what an evil woman trying to maintain her advantage towards future potential divorce theft would say. Your manipulation is a failed expedition on this thread. Abeg come and be going 2 Likes |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by Nobody: 6:19pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
pansophist:I'm out of here |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by 2buffagain(m): 6:26pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
So I decided to post this article of shite women have said when they are trying to manipulate their way out of signing a prenup. https://www.brides.com/story/real-brides-share-they-refused-sign-a-prenup Some were successful! And to those ones, I can't help but feeling "Wow, these guys are so screwed" "...I felt reassured that my needs and feelings were his priority, not the security of a piece of paper..." What a classic/typical argument Apparently his needs and feelings don't matter too abi? 1 Like |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by WizAkzy: 6:27pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
MariaLavina:Love? Don't people fall out of love and also fall in love for the wrong reasons. Are you also capable of offering real and selfless love to a man? You women only love men based on the values you get from them, may not always be money. The same love that has been the demise of many things including lives. Men have been wired by the society (which comprises of women) to always give out and not receive. Don't blame them for making everything in papers as a way they feel they can protect themselves from the societies that see them as nothing but disposable cash cows and machines to do the dirty works the women won't agree to do. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by SmilingMary(m): 6:29pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
Cc rocktation Front page worthy |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by WizAkzy: 6:31pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
2buffagain:The only guys that are bleeped are those who decides to make their relationship official and legal by law, whether signing a prenup or not, bro. |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by 2buffagain(m): 6:39pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
WizAkzy: That won't save you. You do know there is something called "automatic common law" right? |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by WizAkzy: 6:49pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
2buffagain:Exactly, thats what i meant by my first comment. Men should study the family laws in their region and use it to their advantage too. For instance, even if you don't go to the registry to do a legal wedding, as long as you have both steadily cohabited for about a year or so in some countries, you are both considered married. Therefore you ought to know how to be smart about it. That's why guys should be in relationships with successful and financially independent ladies too, just like women do to protect their assets too. If she is rich and has a place of her own, she would just come and spend time with you and go back to her house, then repeat the process. That way it hard to say you both cohabited steadily for a very long period of time. Be smart with the law too. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by Nobody: 7:01pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
pocohantas:Pls nau am smoking weed, you want to make me choke but you right though lol |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by pocohantas(f): 8:07pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
pcguru1: Sorry about that. I didn't mean to come off offensive, I just felt that is the logical and sensible thing to do. I am surprised it triggered such outburst. Anyway, I thought you said you've given up weed? Wasn't it you? 1 Like |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by Nobody: 8:58pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
prenuptial agreement doesn't hold much water in Nigeria. so no need |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by finest0007(m): 9:01pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
pocohantas: see the benefits ourselves but with a prenup by the side. If eboue had seen ahead, he'll have gotten one. "Money brings out the worst in us" 1 Like |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by finest0007(m): 9:06pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
Mods & lawyers, we need you guys here |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by 2buffagain(m): 12:40am On Sep 18, 2018 |
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nGITJlPwtfg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LjKZpm7CnE0 For anyone dumb enough to believe any manipulative woman about not signing a prenup. See what a so called wife did to Emmanuel Eboue, football player. All that suffering, all that hussle...lost to a woman who likely told him the same nonsense that some manipulative females on this thread have already tried to push. <falz> eee wee no work! Dey tink dat we don't watsh televizan</falz> Without a prenup, the courts hardly consider the woman's own personal assets when doing the split. They just go straight for the jugular of the man in a savage and utterly reprehensible manner. If Eboue at least had that in print, he would have have had a better chance of been able to get some of his money back from her. Prenups are not for defense against your loving wife, they are for defense against your ex-wife. Remember that. 3 Likes |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by Nobody: 2:34am On Sep 18, 2018 |
pocohantas: Moderation is the key to balance |
Re: Prenups Would You Still Get by MissRaine69(f): 7:07am On Sep 18, 2018 |
WizAkzy: That’s why good accountants exist. Offshore banking and other very complex ways of ensuring my personal assets are safeguarded truth be told I would not marry a Nigerian woman if I was a man. The mindset that prevails amoungst the majority is very much what is yours is mine, and what is mine is mine. How do you defend such mentality? When you see and hear such things uttered on a regular basis? The problem is it’s the society that promotes this dependency mentality. Name one song in the last year that is about a woman who is independent contributes her fair share of everything. The bulk are about encouraging dependency. Men are also to blame for this state of affairs. 4 Likes |
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