Before DNA test..... Until the mother dies.....it is then you are sure of who your father is...

pansophist:
Maria Lavina

I guess it's patriarchy fault

Women eh?

Possibly. In a country where determination of a child's gender is placed on the woman, contrary to biological explanation. It shouldn't be shocking when things like this happen.

In a country where the woman is ridiculed and called barren because of her husband inability to produce offspring, cases like this should be expected.

In a country where adoption is frowned at, child bearing is believed to be the sole purpose of a woman.Barren women are pushed to buy babies. cases like this shouldn't raise brows.

So Yes it is patriarchy fault. However, I don't support paternity fraud. I believe all issues that can lead to this should be discussed between couples.

Who in his/her right state of mind will indulge in DNA test in the jungle called Nigeria? I will not have an open wound treated in Nigeria. Nigerians who cannot handle ordinary gutter are dreaming about DNA testing.

freecocoa:
If only men were the ones who get pregnant, then 99% of kids wouldn’t be their mum’s.

Seriously, with how useless most Nigerian men are, it’s hard to feel sorry for them, mschew!

are your brothers, uncles and father useless too? A problem with Nigerians is how they see issues. Do you know the damage you will be causing to your child when he or she finds out the person she or he has called dad all time isn’t the biological father. I am surprised a woman is the one coming to advocate for this test. Maybe she knows what many are really upto.

FADIOZ:
Where exactly did this durex get their stats from ...

Don't mind them...They will do anything and tell any lies just to sell their condoms that burst easily.

emmie14:
What is the average cost of DNA testing from various hospitals.

150k how many people can afford that

Wilfredpat22:
It's funny how most ladies out there uses 16 digits passwords with a mixture of letters, numbers and symbols to lock their phones while the password to unlock their respective legs is "swipe to open"

Why the focus on ladies? Why shouldn't men lock up too? If you expect only women to lock up while men remain loose it's never going to work out well. That will only increase rape incidents. It would be better to leave women stay lose and ask men to lock up or ask both sexes to lock up.

freecocoa:
Ofcourse I get your point but then, something needs to be done about the men, otherwise things will only get worse. I bet you that, most said cases of women passing off another man’s child on their hubby, had something to do with how irresponsible said hubby is/was, as the case may be.

indeed, and you will claim to love the child.

emmie14:

This post is focused in Nigeria and I asked the question not basically for myself but other people who may want to check the paternity if the kids in their respective homes.

Don't we have competent laboratories in Nigeria without accreditations from foreign missions in Nigeria ?

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There are many credible labs. But for official purposes, you must go to the appointed labs because of Nigerians' penchant for forgery. Folks like your senators and Adeosun lay credence to that stereotype.

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SilentBang:


He picking a Stud for his wife ??... is plane stupidity and self deception, seriously does this really happen there are a thousand ways to go around "being infertile" why choose one that will make you lose your sanity.

Bout the better Economic prospects... thats pure selfishness and wickedness.

Why are you surprised that that's how the average ambitious and independent Nigerian ladies behave? They want to prove that they are smart and they feel that they can eat their cake and still have, until it backfires then you hear them cry "men are wicked" etc

can expert explain better. I read in one write up that if a girl has boy friend and she has been having unprotected sex with him for more than 20times before she Marry that the baby will have DNA of the boy friend not the husband that just have sex with her. if a girl sleep with 20 guy she has 20 DNA traces. ist true?

Timewilltell2:
Why are igbos always tarnishing our image . Imagine this sort of crap?. The women with chest her and yam legs sleeping with anything while Chinedu is out of the country tarnishing our image with crime. Biafrauds will not go unpunished

Don't get confused.
The point made is that more tests carried out are from people from the SE, Ss etc. It just points to the clear fact that the regions not mentioned aren't even involved in trying to confirm the paternity of their kids while having a high rate of spousal infidelity and sexual immorality.

MariaLavina:
Possibly. In a country where determination of a child's gender is placed on the woman, contrary to biological explanation. It shouldn't be shocking when things like this happen.

In a country where the woman is ridiculed and called barren because of her husband inability to produce offspring, cases like this should be expected.

In a country where adoption is frowned at, child bearing is believed to be the sole purpose of a woman.Barren women are pushed to buy babies. cases like this shouldn't raise brows.

So Yes it is patriarchy fault. However, I don't support paternity fraud. I believe all issues that can lead to this should be discussed between couples.

Feminazis, must find an angle to twist the reality to so as to conceal their shame and avoiding answering the real question.

DeRay98:


Feminazis, must find an angle to twist the reality to so as to conceal their shame and avoiding answering the real question.

Are you pansophist?

If not, kindly crawl back into the shell you escaped from

Wilfredpat22:
It's funny how most ladies out there uses 16 digits passwords with a mixture of letters, numbers and symbols to lock their phones while the password to unlock their respective legs is "swipe to open"

dis is very funny

so ladies are angry, dat dis is coming from a lady,
no man should trust any ladies esp Nigeria ladies,
I can count the numbers of ladies that av commented on dis post, Dey re all shying away from the truth. shameless, and ugly baboons

Tedpgrass:


2 wrongs don't make a right.

Women remain the main moral compass of a society, if that is lost, a shipwreck is inevitable!!!

Do good not for the kudos but it's good to be GOOD!!
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Be your own moral compass. Don’t make it someone else’s burden.

If you people do good, will you die? Imagine the useless emotional blackmail tactics you’re trying to employ.

Actually, in this case two wrongs do make a right.

for every man that raises a child who’s not his, the world gets a little better.

Seconded

some ladies are angry, dat dis is coming from a lady,
no man should trust any lady esp a lady from Nigeria,
I can count the numbers of ladies that av commented on dis post, Dey re all shying away from the truth. shameless, and ugly baboons

The Paternity Centres should try to bring down the DNA test, inorder for fathers to patronize them. That is why there is increase in number of single mothers out there....

Simbrixton:
where is your lab based

Lagos, Abj, Enugu, Kano, Anambra

cattylove7:
150k how many people can afford that

Alot when necessary

Nigeria will always be among the odds

We have the answers... Check our signature for more info.

phase1:


Lagos, Abj, Enugu, Kano, Anambra

so you get solid job like this and you be bigot I pity you

suledes:
The Paternity Centres should try to bring down the DNA test, inorder for fathers to patronize them. That is why there is increase in number of single mothers out there....

My dear, a lot of technicalities goes into DNA imvestigation. The reagents and materials are also expensive to purchase, transport and store.
Get the testing done by professionals and have your peace of mind.

why wasting time doing DNA test when u can consult the oracle or spiritualist in any of your religion to know the truth?

Seahawk:


Be your own moral compass. Don’t make it someone else’s burden.

If you people do good, will you die? Imagine the useless emotional blackmail tactics you’re trying to employ.

Actually, in this case two wrongs do make a right.

for every man that raises a child who’s not his, the world gets a little better.

Interesting opinion

But it remains your opinion..


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To the last bit....
Kudos to men who raise other kids willingly..... not by deceit +/- duress


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MariaLavina:
Are you pansophist?

If not, kindly crawl back into the shell you escaped from

That's how they react when you slam-dunk on them.

My problem is that poor man can never afford such amount of money, for a mere test of owns a child

MariaLavina:
Possibly. In a country where determination of a child's gender is placed on the woman, contrary to biological explanation. It shouldn't be shocking when things like this happen.

In a country where the woman is ridiculed and called barren because of her husband inability to produce offspring, cases like this should be expected.

In a country where adoption is frowned at, child bearing is believed to be the sole purpose of a woman.Barren women are pushed to buy babies. cases like this shouldn't raise brows.

So Yes it is patriarchy fault. However, I don't support paternity fraud. I believe all issues that can lead to this should be discussed between couples.

I see.

So how will you explain paternity fraud in countries that are beacons of feminism and gender equality? USA for example?