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Re: Am I making a mistake? by Deji63: 7:48pm On Sep 21, 2018 |
resurgent2019: Op is so irresponsible. Gettimg married out of desperation just to have kids is such a stupid way to reason. You can never stay in marriage by your write up. Please stay single. You go divorce. There will always be an excuse . You are made for single hood |
Re: Am I making a mistake? by Deji63: 8:00pm On Sep 21, 2018 |
resurgent2019: Where are the.millions? You are.on your own and you are a very very bad person. You lack capacity to love to be sincere. Not one woman will ever good enough. I hope r you emain poor because if you get money no lady will be good looking enough. You will keep changing them out of greed. 1 Like |
Re: Am I making a mistake? by Deji63: 8:03pm On Sep 21, 2018 |
Chubhie: Which women will come. This one can never stay married. Did you not read what he wrote and imagine his shallow mindset. |
Re: Am I making a mistake? by victorian(f): 8:09pm On Sep 21, 2018 |
Shookonekilla: Haba! O ga o! Take it easy on the young man, he's simply confused. It's better to advise him than condemn him completely. Op, most times we don't get to marry whom we desire deep down. It's just how life is. Forget about marrying the kind of lady u desire. Cos they may end up breaking your heart and trust. Try to understand and love this lady coming around u. These days having a gf or bf who can stand by one through trying times, is a herculean task, in fact its rare. Today's love and relationships is all man and woman for his or herself. It's only God that will save the mindset of humans. Develop love for her, with time u will appreciate her alot . |
Re: Am I making a mistake? by Deji63: 8:12pm On Sep 21, 2018 |
Mujtahida: Op you deserve worse and harsher words. You are a very wicked person. I key into that Nairalanders prayers. Make aeroplane fall on you or your type coming near my female affiliates. Make train crush them God go crush if you ever marry . |
Re: Am I making a mistake? by Deji63: 8:24pm On Sep 21, 2018 |
baby124: With the Op's mindset and after leading the innocent lady on. Karma will mostly likely screw him up. He will end up with a woman who doesn't see him as her spec but says yes to him for reasons of greed. That is if he ever makes the money. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I making a mistake? by eyinjuege: 6:34am On Sep 23, 2018 |
resurgent2019: You will definitely cheat on her by the time you get more financially stable. It's best you tell her point blank now you cannot marry her and quit the relationship so you can go after the women you like. I would advice you to try and chase such women even without money. You never can say, as you might be lucky to meet one who likes you for you. However if you chose to marry the poor lady who is not your specs just because you have no money and want children with plans to go after your specs once you hammer, you might just remain poor for life. 1 Like |
Re: Am I making a mistake? by kenex4ever(m): 6:47am On Sep 23, 2018 |
Shookonekilla:this thing is complicated madam. If the girl in question was very good looking, there is high chance she won't stick to the OP. Most marriages and relationships are based on conditional love. Every body wants to give less than they stand to gain or at least equal. Most of us finally settle with whoever that's available because time is no longer on our side |
Re: Am I making a mistake? by eyinjuege: 6:48am On Sep 23, 2018 |
cruchenutii: I have seen "ugly" women married to relatively rich handsome guys. Being ugly doesn't mean you have no options. Not everyone is shallow to be after physical looks. Some men have a deeper connection to some "so called ugly women". I have seen beautiful women married to poor ugly men. What the OP needs is to go for his specs and find who will accept him the way he is. |
Re: Am I making a mistake? by kenex4ever(m): 6:54am On Sep 23, 2018 |
Shookonekilla:madam stop this attack and reason with him. Will you marry a guy that you are not attracted to just because the type u want ain't forthcoming? And even if you do, don't you think you would be tempted to cheat when good looking guys keeps coming Ur way in d future. Be sincere and stop being emotional about it. |
Re: Am I making a mistake? by Ziggylady(f): 6:48pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
OldBeer: Amen!!!... funny you though .I am reading his posts on this thread fèling sick to my stomach..I honestly feel sorry for the poor lady whose life he wants to ruin. |
Re: Am I making a mistake? by Princessmkpafi: 6:37pm On Sep 24, 2018 |
Useless thinking! Your sisters fine? I believed that girl fine pass your sisters! If you maltreat that lady, better thunder wia no get papa and mama go strike u, and u go die, u get low mentality, u r a wicked man for real, after getting what you want, idiot, Na fine girls u want, who no fine? Ur mother fine? U better stay single, demon. So annoying, can ur relatives or ur sisters stay with u.... Leave that innocent lady, pay her off and continue with ur stupid thinking fool. She is not up to ur standard. If i may Ask? Who are you? Who is your father? Tell people about your background first before this ur high class. You are coursed! I pray for you now receive healing. I pity u. |
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