My name is Mirabel Umoru, I’m here to tell you my (true life) story of how I was used and dumped by all the guys I’ve dated.
Yes I have dated abusers, cheaters, woman beaters and deceivers. It was just as if there was a magnet that do attract them to me.
In the beginning, they would appear like a responsible men and a well-behaved men until after I got used to them, then they start revealing their true identities to me. They would start ignoring my calls, start abusing me both physically, verbally and emotionally. That wasn’t even compare to the ridicule and scornful gesture I got from people around me, because I couldn’t find the right man to marry me. You know how the society look at singles ladies who are above 30 years of age and are not married yet? And I was way above 40 without a responsible man in my life. My life wasn’t going smoothly at all and I was getting so desperate and frustrated. But the last man I dated changed everything for me.
I later found a man last year January who I thought was the right man for me. It was on my birthday, January 7th, I met Akin, a Yoruba guy. Akin was handsome and very homely. But one thing about Akin was that he was younger than me. I was 41 years old while Akin was just 31, but due to the love I had for him and more so, Akin carries a very matured look, so I ignored the age factor and decided to go ahead and have a relationship with me. Another issue about Akin was that he was jobless and had no reasonable source of income but I was also ready to sponsor him. I gave him Akin 5 million naira to start a business and also got a 3 bedroom apartment for him. Yes I could do that for a man because I am financially okay. I am a proprietress of a big school in Lagos so I have enough to spend on man like Akin.
So gradually Akin started his business and was making enough money, while our love life was blossoming and I felt like I was the only woman in the world. Even despite our age different, one thing I like about Akin was that he really behaved like a more mature man and I felt like a baby with him. He knew how to make a woman feel like queen. And that was what I wanted. My life was gradually getting perfect, with Akin beside me and my career flourishing, I was very happy with life. Akin will sometimes take me out and give me a treat. I was also satisfying him with all he wanted including having regular sex with him and I remember I also bought him a car worth 2 million naira. Akin, I was so much happy with Akin. So much in love with him. He was taking care of me like a princess. I even felt Akin was better than all of the other men I had dated in the past. Nothing could a 41 years old woman asked for.
However something happened by December last year. Akin and I had decided to visit my parent at Oredo in Edo state. I remember the first time I told my mom that I will be bringing my fiancé home by December, she was very happy. I could feel the tears of joy she was shedding over the phone. I was moved and likewise happy I was eventually going to make mama proud by getting married soon. My mom had announced to everyone including her friends in our town about my visit with my fiancé.
Eventually I and Akin decided to plan our visit. Akin was going to be busy from December 22 due to his huge customers, so we decided that I go first while he would make plans to join me by December 25th which was on Christmas day. I reached my hometown by December 20, with so much joy, because I felt my life was fulfilled. I had finally found the perfect one for me. When I got home, my parent welcomed me and everyone. I showed Akin’s picture to everyone who cared to know how my fiancé looked like. I promised them that my husband-to-be would be joining me by 25th so they could meet him. They were happy either and very eager to meet the lucky man.
By December 25th which was the said day, my mom and her friends had prepared food while all my friends and everyone at home was waiting anxiously for the coming of my fiancé. My dad also had invited some of his friends to come and witness the day of joy of his daughter. They had requested for palm wine to celebrate my day with me while we waited for my man. Akin was supposed take a flight on that day to Benin City.
To cut the long story short, we started waiting for my Akin to call me that he has arrived but I didn’t see any call. My father and his friends were getting impatience. Mama and her friends too was very eager. Everyone was getting anxious. I personally was getting restless too. The worst part of the situation was that when I decided to pull a call through him, he cut my call. I was surprised but didn’t let that bother me. So we continue waiting but we still didn’t see any sign of Akin. It was not long after I got a message from Akin

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op I've never said this to anyone online and offline.... but from the bottom of heart and with all sincerity: May thunder fire you in Jesus name...

lol, before I read any story, I will scroll down to the last paragraph, if I see continue I jejely look for another thread.

Giving a man 5m and renting an apartment for him?

Would b lucrative to create an app where ladies can order for husbands just like its done in India. There will b legal documents to sign to avoid stories that touch though.

Akin was involved in an accident period

I be don dey enjoy this story oo until u come put dat mumu link. Anyway i know hw d story will end. Akin dumped u on d day of ur introducing him to d family. Akin don chop and run.

shege Yoruba demon

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Correct G

Nowadays I just scroll down to confirm if that nonsense continue reading here link ain't on the story before I read

To cut the long story short, we started waiting for my Akin to call me that he has arrived but I didn’t see any call. My father and his friends were getting impatience. Mama and her friends too was very eager. Everyone was getting anxious. I personally was getting restless too. The worst part of the situation was that when I decided to pull a call through him, he cut my call. I was surprised but didn’t let that bother me. So we continue waiting but we still didn’t see any sign of Akin. It was not long after I got a message from Akin that he was sorry he won’t be able to make it because he couldn't present himself as my fiancé due to our age different and moreover his parents weren’t supporting our relationship from onset. I literally died when I read the message. I was faced with so much embarrassment and shame in front of my people. What ought to be the happiest day of my life turned out to be the worst day. Akin was using me all these while, faking his love for me because of what he was getting from me. I was used and dumped again. Dumped at age 41. I was miserable. It was then I concluded my being born on earth was a total waste.

I remember returning to Lagos to meet Akin, with fury on my mind, I was ready to confront him on why he could be so callous. But that night, I met another lady in the house I rented for him. The lady was young and very beautiful and I felt jealous of her immediately because I knew she was 10 times more beautiful that I was who was getting old and shabby. The worst scenario that happened to me in the house was when I confronted Akin of why he would be so callous to do such a thing to me, Akin opened his mouth and called me old hag. He was just using me. When I tried to talk, Akin slapped me, and immediately tears jumped out from eyes. Akin wasn't bothered as he dragged me out of the house. The house I paid for. Everyone in the compound saw what happened that night as Akin pushed me out of the compound, hauling abuses at me. The lady that was with him also mocked me and called me husband snatcher. I was trying to remind Akin of all the things I have done for him, but he didn’t listen, instead when we got to outside of the gate, I tried to hold his shirt because I couldn't take it anymore, But Akin pushed me forcefully and my head bashed the ground, blood rushed out from my head and nose. I was helpless as people around laughed at me and hurried away.

That night I CRIED BITTERLY! I WENT AS FAR AS CURSING THE DAY I WAS BORN. I ALMOST COMMITED SUICIDE. I WANTED TO LEAVE THIS MISERABLE LIFE. TO ME, GETTING MARRIED WAS NOT MEANT FOR ME.

It was after a month to this incident I talked to one of my employee, a teacher who then advised me to see a relationship expert and a psychologist. This lady recommended Mrs. Temilola to me. I remember I had to travel to Abuja to meet this person. Believe me when I was going, I had no believe in whatever she could offer me because I had read a whole lot of relationship and dating books that didn’t change anything for me. But I guessed I just felt I needed a professional who could probe my life and tell if anything was wrong me.

I took a flight to meet Temi on February 18th. While I was with her, little did I know that day would be the most memorable day of my life. Temi let me know that nothing was wrong with me, as a matter of fact, she assured me that if I could follow all her instruction that I will get marry this year 2018. I laughed at her words and didn’t believe her because I was already losing my self-esteem. But she told me the only problems I had was that I was unable to attract the right men to me. This pave way for cheaters, deceivers, women beaters and womanizers. But she went further to assure me that, if I should follow everything she tells me to do, that all these would happen; ·

Attract responsible men who will be very much interested in a woman like me while I will have the power to recognize toxic men then I will be able to dodge them ·

As a psychologist, she told me she will teach me how to penetrate a male psychology through a feminine powers I possess but didn’t know how to use. She said this power when put into use will force any man to stay committed to me. She said this process works in such a way that I would plant myself in his brain that he will be so addicted to me. ·

And last lastly, she promised me I will get marry to the man of my dreams before this year run out.

Well, according to Temi, I followed all her direction and put all her instruction into practice. By April this year I can’t believe I had attracted more than 7 responsible guys to myself. I had thought I was getting old and shabby but I was able still attract men.

These guys were CEO and MD of big companies

At last I accepted to date one of them that caught my fancy who is also older than me. His name is Fidelix. Immediately I accepted him, I started using this psychological powers on him and immediately, Fidelix started craving for marriage. He was so afraid of losing me to another man. I was happy again seeing a man treating me like a queen. The man I wasn’t spending money on, but instead he was spending on me. And according to her last promise, Fidelix and I later got married this month. September 8th and we are now having our happily ever after.

The day Fidelix proposed to me, I ALMOST FAINTED.

Because this was something I've never experienced in my whole 41 years on earth. That day was the happiest day of my life.

So my dear readers, I know you should be able to learn one or two things from this my story. I don't know what you've been through in the hands of men that made you conclude that marriage is hard, well I've once thought a

clap for ur self

So what are the psychological powers you used on him?