MissRaine69:
My money is not communal property when will women learn that this mindset is toxic to any relationship?

how is this mindset toxic, the more you realise that the man is the head of the family, the more you realise that the mindset is the way things are meant to be

Eyeness:
how is this mindset toxic, the more you realise that the man is the head of the family, the more you realise that the mindset is the way things are meant to be

You overshot the point by 1000s of kilometers. Patriarchy is not what’s being argued here it’s dependency syndrome.

MissRaine69:

You overshot the point by 1000s of kilometers. Patriarchy is not what’s being argued here it’s dependency syndrome.

the two are not mutually exclusive

Eyeness:
the two are not mutually exclusive

Never said they were.

MissRaine69:

Never said they were.

but you implied they were

MissRaine69:

Let’s move away from this “real man” mindset all men are real the subject matter is women not contributing to the household they are part off that’s the bone of contention.

hahahahahaha. So the agbero on the street and deadbeat dad is a real man. marry one and enjoy the benefits these real men have to offer. Being a real man is more than having a manhood to pee from

Eyeness:
hahahahahaha. So the agbero on the street and deadbeat dad is a real man. marry one and enjoy the benefits these real men have to offer. Being a real man is more than having a manhood to pee from

Again to the OP's point, You are still persisting in strawmen arguments and trying to bring extremes into a simple conversation.
Obviously anyone with sense who marries does not go for these extremes you seem intent on introducing to this talk.

You are basically trying to deflect away from YOUR dependency problems.
I remember you from previous threads.
You are the girl who is too lazy to work if she is married.

Indulge in logical fallacies all you want, you are who you are.
Just be sure you make your parasitic intents clear to the men you meet.
Meanwhile Dignified, symbiotic women will keep on bringing more to the table and keep on being appreciated.

2buffagain:


Again to the OP's point, You are still persisting in strawmen arguments and trying to bring extremes into a simple conversation.
Obviously anyone with sense who marries does not go for these extremes you seem intent on introducing to this talk.

You are basically trying to deflect away from YOUR dependency problems.
I remember you from previous threads.
You are the girl who is too lazy to work if she is married.

Indulge in logical fallacies all you want, you are who you are.
Just be sure you make your parasitic intents clear to the men you meet.
Meanwhile Dignified, symbiotic women will keep on bringing more to the table and keep on being appreciated.

lol, i cant come to a relationship being a man and a woman, i am just a very feminine person and beleive that men should be men and women should be women. If you like, call it parasitic, but a lot of capable men are okay with it.
What you call dignified women are merely masculine women who have to pick up the tab due to men slacking on their responsibilties and poor home training.

Eyeness:
lol, i cant come to a relationship being a man and a woman, i am just a very feminine person and beleive that men should be men and women should be women. If you like, call it parasitic, but a lot of capable men are okay with it.
What you call dignified women are merely masculine women who have to pick up the tab due to men slacking on their responsibilties and poor home training.

So then I ask you, what happens if the man eventually decides you are not worthy to be his woman and throws you out of his house?...Replacing you with another woman?

Or do you just enjoy the idea of potential, uninhibited degradation?

2buffagain:


So then I ask you, what happens if the man eventually decides you are not worthy to be his woman and throws you out of his house?...Replacing you with another woman?

Or do you just enjoy the idea of potential, uninhibited degradation?

that is why he wont be the only guy in the picture, my goal is to be the woman that he is too afraid tonthrow away.i work towards that daily.

Eyeness:
that is why he wont be the only guy in the picture, my goal is to be the woman that he is too afraid tonthrow away.i work towards that daily.

So basically you are working towards cheating while you are married....as opposed to say...generating profit from a dignified business.
Well to each their own. All the best with your cuckold Maga search.

2buffagain:


So basically you are working towards cheating while you are married....as opposed to say...generating profit from a dignified business.
Well to each their own. All the best with your cuckold Maga search.

that is because i am not bound by romance. Women are polyandrous in nature.patriachy changed that

pocohantas:
The arrangement fits the typical traditional Nigerian family. If a man crowns himself head and lord...then he has to do what lords do. Take charge of the provision without complains.

Both sides of the divide are hypocritical if you ask me. So, to each his own.

I like traditional men (aka) ultimate head of house. Slaves to their ego, hustle and give me money, while I massage his ego and call him "nna anyi". God punish feminism

uh uh...preach gal, preach! . Abeg what is feminism sef?Is it when you call your man "Nna anyi, di'im...obii'm while rubbing his head and stomach after a good meal

Eyeness:
lol, i cant come to a relationship being a man and a woman, i am just a very feminine person and beleive that men should be men and women should be women. If you like, call it parasitic, but a lot of capable men are okay with it.
What you call dignified women are merely masculine women who have to pick up the tab due to men slacking on their responsibilties and poor home training.

Eyeness, well done... So a woman has to be the care giver, homemaker and provider...all in one?! 2buffagain and his crew try....so when the woman is all worked up looking old and all and is to tired to live up to her responsibility at night and constantly have to man up everyday to be both the man and woman...the same men will find excuse to fling her away that she is too old and they need young blood... annoyingly these same men will go out to spend their money on slay queens while their power couple wife pick the tabs. Personally I am a go getter and believe in the man as the head of the home but I still am as feminine as they come...I am going to sit looking pretty while my man do his thing. Forget all these chew gum boys that want a woman to pick the tabs and still want to form macho...na their type dey be gigolo...no real man...will have his woman call the shots especially financially....she can be his ride or die when the chips are down and support and stand by her man financially especially if he is going through a rough patch, but being the provider is exclusively his forté. My toro

highpriestess:
This woman and her threads?
I expect these guys to have engaged you by now, since you are the minister for men affairs

Honestly I weak myself.

I expect she should be married already not even engaged, as she posts topics that suits what guys want to read and see.




Then back to her topic. His money is ours, likewise mine is ours.

I won't carry money to grave.

victorian:














Honestly I weak myself.

I expect she should be married already not even engaged, as she posts topics that suits what guys want to read and see.




Then back to her topic. His money is ours, likewise mine is ours.

I won't carry money to grave.

So basically you agree with the OP.
So why call her out?

NAiralanders really need to learn 2 skills:
1 - Agreeing to disagree
2 - Agreeing to agree

2buffagain:


So basically you agree with the OP.
So why call her out?

NAiralanders really need to learn 2 skills:
1 - Agreeing to disagree
2 - Agreeing to agree

I agree but we all know the mentality people feel about Nigerian women especially men : which is a woman will say my money is mine and your money is ours.
That's what most men feel women are.

I don't see any reason trashing it here. Let each man deal with his wife and household as he deem fit . Simple

victorian:


I agree but we all know the mentality people feel about Nigerian women especially men : which is a woman will say my money is mine and your money is ours.
That's what most men feel women are.

I don't see any reason trashing it here. Let each man deal with his wife and household as he deem fit . Simple

There is nothing men feel about Nigerian women's mentality that has not been confirmed here.
If you cared to read the thread, most women who have posted on this thread reveal that they infact subscribe to "My money is mine, yours is ours"....confirming exactly what you say men feel about nigerian women.

Sounds more like you should be channelling your seeming dissagreement to such women for perpetuating such a majority view of women.
Your disagreement just seems undirected and wild.

2buffagain:


There is nothing men feel about Nigerian women's mentality that has not been confirmed here.
If you cared to read the thread, most women who have posted on this thread reveal that they infact subscribe to "My money is mine, yours is ours"....confirming exactly what you say men feel about nigerian women.

Sounds more like you should be channelling your seeming dissagreement to such women for perpetuating such a majority view of women.
Your disagreement just seems undirected and wild.

I can't channel my disagreement to these women.

You know why?

Cause they are above 18years old and considered adults.

One rule in life : YOU CANNOT CHANGE ANYONE'S MINDSET

only experience can change one.

We can argue from now til next year but there mindset will still be same, then why waste my precious hand typing back and forth when we all know, it won't yield any change?

My dear, I don't like arguing jare. I value every seconds I use in clicking words on my keypads. No need.

God bless you my sister

BlaqCoffee109:
Eyeness, well done... So a woman has to be the care giver, homemaker and provider...all in one?! 2buffagain and his crew try....so when the woman is all worked up looking old and all and is to tired to live up to her responsibility at night and constantly have to man up everyday to be both the man and woman...the same men will find excuse to fling her away that she is too old and they need young blood... annoyingly these same men will go out to spend their money on slay queens while their power couple wife pick the tabs. Personally I am a go getter and believe in the man as the head of the home but I still am as feminine as they come...I am going to sit looking pretty while my man do his thing. Forget all these chew gum boys that want a woman to pick the tabs and still want to form macho...na their type dey be gigolo...no real man...will have his woman call the shots especially financially....she can be his ride or die when the chips are down and support and stand by her man financially especially if he is going through a rough patch, but being the provider is exclusively his forté. My toro

Eyeness:
God bless you my sister

amen oh...and you too! Shior, na today?