olas2u:

Na cultist na.

blacksta:

I rather have a black mind than to worship the devil - Abeg spare the young lady since she is still a little love for Christ hopefully she will find a stronger xtisan brother and you can find another devil worshipper may be in another cult so the two of u can romance in hot flames forever.
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Seems you dont know anything about the workplace in Nigeria,or you are a low level staff in your place or entreprenur.In Nigeria the work place and political space is filled up with groups,that want protection,promotion,cover and many more.That is the society inwhich we live in Nigeria.So reason  with him and dont come up with this christ stuff here.You are not better than the white men that brought the religion to your doorstep.

dfrank:

my babe is one of those born again sisters (not fanatic )so we do go all the way once in a while.Am a STAFF (officer)in Abuja(she is working in lagos)when u do dat kind of job am doing most times you need to be a CONFIRMED man especially for protection from envy mates and juniors!undo i do go to church on Sundays,i have been invited to join a group by my boss (who senior me in rank by at least 15 years!)to fast forward my promotion in the service which i refused but MAY later join in the future.the problem then is :[b]she wants to get marry [/b]so should i tell her that am more than an ordinary guy so dat she knows what she is in for b4 marriage or i should wait after?and if i tell her,would she like [b]to be YOKE [/b]to somebody like me?maybe i just leave her (after 3 years relationship)and look for anoda girl who will take me for whom i am.pls house help a broda out.[color=#990000][/color]

Deep Soul:

[color=#990000]Thank God for the decoders.

@Poster:
your babe is definitely not born again. If she were, she would "go all the way" with you.
2ndly, she'd wouldn't be comfortable being in a r/ship with you because her spirit no go gree with urs.
Ther's usually no r/ship btwn light and darkness.
I no dey judge oh! Just correcting your statement.

@Question:
You should tell her. It would be unfair to her if you didnt. If you end up marrying her based on this huge deceit, she'll most likely find out along the line, whn u guys are married already. And that might be the end of the marriage. And God help you if you've had kids by then.

Please spare urself and your unborn kids the wahala, [/color]

Deep Soul:

Thank God for the decoders.

@Poster:
your babe is definitely not born again. If she were, she would not "go all the way" with you.
2ndly, she'd wouldn't be comfortable being in a r/ship with you because her spirit no go gree with urs.
Ther's usually no r/ship btwn light and darkness.
I no dey judge oh! Just correcting your statement.

@Question:
You should tell her. It would be unfair to her if you didnt. If you end up marrying her based on this huge deceit, she'll most likely find out along the line, whn u guys are married already. And that might be the end of the marriage. And God help you if you've had kids by then.

Please spare urself and your unborn kids the wahala,

hbabe:

It is better to let her know the truth before you get yoked together.

dfrank:

@blacksta, its obviously that you have a myopic way of reasoning so pls grow up or keep your black mind off the forum!
am just looking for a good and reasonable way out of my dilemma if i tell her and she says no wahala then we get marry if not i look for another girl,shekena!

olas2u:

Seems you dont know anything about the workplace in Nigeria,or you are a low level staff in your place or entreprenur.In Nigeria the work place and political space is filled up with groups,that want protection,promotion,cover and many more.That is the society inwhich we live in Nigeria.So reason with him and dont come up with this christ stuff here.You are not better than the white men that brought the religion to your doorstep.

Girl846:

Have you sought God's view on this issue?
According to the bible both of you 'going all the way' outside marriage and you wanting to join a cult is just out of the question?
Who do you think you are trying to fool here?
For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul (Matt 16:12)

Anything that is not of God is of the devil
You choose the side you want to be on. Its really that simple.

I do not doubt that this lady has the love of God, maybe she is just weak in the flesh and wants to stop fornicating (thats why she wants marriage.)

You should please tell this lady as soon as possible.