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Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by tetralogyfallot(m): 8:18pm On Oct 17, 2018
My neighbour called me today and told me shes suspecting her husband trying to sexually molest their six year old daughter.

She said early this morning their daughter woke up and was complaining of pains around her private area and lo n behold when she checked it she discovered that the hymen is almost broken and there's blood stain.

She asked the innocent girl and the girl said the place is always scratching her at night. She told her husband and the fool said may be its a medical problem.

She's seriously worried and disturbed, she called me this afternoon and it's really a pity when I saw the girls condition. I was dumbfounded and don't even know how to solve this issue please guys what advice should I give this lady?

Note: they are family of four, she, the husband, their daughter, and a son.

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by izzou(m): 8:20pm On Oct 17, 2018
sad

Advise? undecided

Let her get her daughter to open up and tell her the truth. Period angry

Abi you wan call police for matter wey dey inconclusive? sad

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by tetralogyfallot(m): 8:25pm On Oct 17, 2018
izzou:
sad

Advise? undecided

Let her get her daughter to open up and tell her the truth. Period angry

Abi you wan call police for matter wey dey inconclusive? sad
the girl said shes always feeling itches in the middle of the night. Shes a six year old daughter.

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by LadyAimy: 8:26pm On Oct 17, 2018
I hate to hear stories like this one.

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by LadyAimy: 8:26pm On Oct 17, 2018
tetralogyfallot:
the girl said shes always feeling itches in the middle of the night. Shes a six year old daughter.
And you feels its her dad?

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by izzou(m): 8:28pm On Oct 17, 2018
tetralogyfallot:
the girl said shes always feeling itches in the middle of the night. Shes a six year old daughter.

Then let her be taken to see a doctor

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by tetralogyfallot(m): 8:30pm On Oct 17, 2018
LadyAimy:
I hate to hear stories like this one.
am just week

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by tetralogyfallot(m): 8:30pm On Oct 17, 2018
LadyAimy:
And you feels its her dad?
I don't want to believe but all directions is facing towards him cos he doesn't sound so serious about the issue

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by ahnie: 8:33pm On Oct 17, 2018
Medical condition indeed!


She should lay siege to her husbands 4thress

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by ifyalways(f): 8:38pm On Oct 17, 2018
What is their sleeping arrangement like?

How old is the son?

Na real wao for waya. Won't bother typing any epistle here sha because last last, the woman will decide to keep quiet, save her husband and her marriage undecided

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by tetralogyfallot(m): 8:41pm On Oct 17, 2018
ifyalways:
What is their sleeping arrangement like?

How old is the son?

Na real wao for waya. Won't bother typing any epistle here sha because last last, the woman will decide to keep quiet, save her husband and her marriage undecided
a room and parlour self contain. The all sleep on the same bed at night in the same room

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by chii8(f): 8:42pm On Oct 17, 2018
Before you condemn an innocent man,let the mother give the daughter a close monitoring and a chat...at school,church and their residential area.Does she pick her daughter immediately school closes,or the daughter stay behind in school?who does the mother leave her children anytime she wants to run errand at home?do her children stay with her all through church activities or they are left with a sunday school teacher?

Because if the woman accuses the husband and it later turns out that he is innocent,that home will crumble ooo

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by ifyalways(f): 8:42pm On Oct 17, 2018
tetralogyfallot:
a room and parlour self contain. The all sleep on the same bed at night in the same room
How old is the son?

Sighs @ sleeping arrangement..

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by tetralogyfallot(m): 8:43pm On Oct 17, 2018
ifyalways:

How old is the son?

Sighs @ sleeping arrangement..
4 years
Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by ifyalways(f): 8:45pm On Oct 17, 2018
tetralogyfallot:
4 years
She needs to ask the daughter more questions in a relaxed manner. Just she and the daughter.

It could be a neighbour, from school or anyone in the family.

The husbands response could come from.a place of naivety not guilt. Such a sad tale

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by Nobody: 8:49pm On Oct 17, 2018
This ur post sef. Did u guys ask her if there's someone coming to molest her at night or at noon? Is it that her mum sleeps carelessly and doesn't know when a molester crawls to her daughters vjay? Abi her husband is a stay at home husband while she goes to work? We need enough facts to be able to conclude cos ur post isn't complete at all.
A six year old should be able to tell her mum strange things happening to her , about an uncle or an aunty that abuses her or about a possible molester. What do you think? pls as an enlightened person find out more about it and get back to us pls.
This is the 21st century and we have enough "damaged" persons who are/were victims of molestation from a young age...parents/teachers should teach kids to report/speak up on anyone who tries to molest them ,how they feel about their privates and whose hands shouldn't get to their privates.

All child molesters need to be shot five times at their privates and watch them die slowly.

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by Nobody: 8:56pm On Oct 17, 2018
tetralogyfallot:
a room and parlour self contain. The all sleep on the same bed at night in the same room
Then somebody must be "fingering" that child. Another thing, when the mum sleeps, does she sleep like a log of wood?...I mean as a mum who has kids,she needs to be aware of happenings around her since they all sleep on same bed.

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by 1Sharon(f): 8:57pm On Oct 17, 2018
Your neighbour is silly.

Are you the first person she is supposed to call in a suspected sexual assault?

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by tetralogyfallot(m): 8:58pm On Oct 17, 2018
EasternDamsel4:

Then somebody must be "fingering" that child. Another thing, when the mum sleeps, does she sleep like a log of wood?...I mean as a mum who has kids,she needs to be aware of happenings around her since they all sleep on same bed.
I think she sleeps deeply.
Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by tetralogyfallot(m): 9:00pm On Oct 17, 2018
1Sharon:
Your neighbour is silly.

Are you the first person she is supposed to call in a suspected sexual assault?
what is the best thing to do?

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by 1Sharon(f): 9:04pm On Oct 17, 2018
chii8:
Before you condemn an innocent man,let the mother give the daughter a close monitoring...at school,church and their residential area.Dies she pick her daughter immediately school closes,or the daughter stay behind in school?who does the mother leave her children anytime she wants to run errand at home?do her children stay with her all through church activities or they are left with a sunday school teacher?

Because if the woman accuses the husband and it later turns out that he is innocent,that home will crumble ooo

There is no need for any close monitoring. She needs to TALK to her daughter

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by Eketem: 9:06pm On Oct 17, 2018
TAKE THE CHILD TO A GOVERNMENT HOSPITAL IMMEDIATELY, stop all the guess work let her get to a hospital so she can get help for whatever is wrong first, if she is molested the report from the government hospital will show and it will be taken from there. If it is in Lagos there are social welfare who will talk with the child and get the actual issue from her.

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by 1Sharon(f): 9:09pm On Oct 17, 2018
tetralogyfallot:
what is the best thing to do?

Are you serious?

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by tetralogyfallot(m): 9:13pm On Oct 17, 2018
The daughter said something use to scratch her in the middle of the night in her pubic area

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by tetralogyfallot(m): 9:17pm On Oct 17, 2018
The daughter said something use to scratch her in the middle of the night in her pubic area. The father sounds lackadaisical towards the issue. He doesn't even want to listen to the mother when she was complaining in d morning.

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by LadyAimy: 9:18pm On Oct 17, 2018
tetralogyfallot:
I don't want to believe but all directions is facing towards him cos he doesn't sound so serious about the issue
My friend's driver was almost killed for a false accusation like this. Ask the lady to take her daughter to the clinic.

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by wristbangle: 9:33pm On Oct 17, 2018
The story looks half baked. Thorough investigation needs to be carried out to know if the girl was molested or not. Till then, one should not raise accusation finger against the husband

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by Kenekingisback: 9:33pm On Oct 17, 2018
Take her to socialreferant undecided

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by FroshD: 9:33pm On Oct 17, 2018
The question is


"wetin 6 year old pikin get wei some animal in a human form go still wan molest"

ah this world don spoil

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by ChiefSweetus: 9:36pm On Oct 17, 2018
Fake and stupid story
She can listen to mumuz like you and ruin her marriage by falsely accusing the man or she can take that child to hospital and probably find out the poor girl has an infection and is the one that was scratching her pee-pee too aggressively
Seems you don't realise some men are very shy and averse to anything concerning their daughter's intimate matters. Only happens in Room and parlour areas with room and parlour mentality like op

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Re: Somebody Is Trying To Molest My Neighbour's Six-Year-Old Daughter by itiswellandwell: 9:37pm On Oct 17, 2018
Hmm

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