Why is this happening to me ?
Well am in my late 20's, with Bsc. Mech, working class, and not doing bad. The major thing in my mind is how to get a wife. I know its sound funny, Jus read on.
During my concluding part of my university i had a girl friend whom i intended to marry, i became very jealous of seeing her talking to other guys. Though, bieng my first girl and the only. All i knew was i will neva want to share her with anyone. During my NYSC she kind of started pressurising me for marriage, i was very anxiuos to get a source to settled down, until i couldn't bear it anymore. I let her go.
Now, bein workin and not findin easy to even toast a girl, cos am a slow starter. At time i will very sad 2ru out d day when ever it occur to me dat i ve no one. In fact, i started 2 threads on NL to get a clue of wats happenin to me. I was abondone with no advice. Common good people all i need is way forward.

Try dating sites.

Where singles meet.

That could help tho

tell us more about you. . . . . . . . . . . . .
- what do you do after work?
- what do you and your friends do?
- what are you doing to solve the problem?
- do you expect a gal to fall on your lap packed and ready to be married?!

If it's wife you looking for, have your mom find one for you. That's exactly what I'm going to do when I'm ready for marrage, like they always say, mom always knows best.

I support the dating site thing.f

go to facebook, add more ladies and send any girl you like a message.

You will find someone as long as you don't give up.

OR

if you are religious, involve yourself in church activities, sooner or later that sister that you want will surely come your way.

^^^^^^what?! all the gals turned you down so you became gay now?!

@ jot01
dating sites are full of scammers,  No need of a soothsayer.
@ femmy 201
i equally think u should relocate to "autos" where you can keep on marketing & clearing your 'scrap'.
@ deep soul
thanx alot. Noted.
@ ogidiboy
c'mon mom? Give me a break, you and i know its does not work lyk dat
@ papa190
read the last line of the initial post and notice "good people", and you think you are of them? Ehn? C'mon get out of this thread!

@ MrbrownJ
thanx alot.
Yes, my kind of work doesn't give me much tym.
Spends alot of tym outside the country or work place.
my friend's wyf has tried & failed severally 2 introduced 2 her friends, and concluded am not friendly. But, i think she's wrong, cos she is a nollywood actress, most of the ones she introduced are that kind of 'tatooed type' which we hardly relate. Beside that,my  sister even 'connected' me to one 'decent' girl she thought, but girl is kind of 'progrmmed' type, that doesn't not even know what she wants.

I have onece try getting back to my former girl, but, hmm.  last i cald, a guy warned me with all seriousness in voice. Even though, i was forced to let her go then by her mom. Cos , that tym i dey husle 2 even arrange my sef. Her mumc say i most com parform the traditional thing.

I reminded her of all i needed was time, but her mum convince her of the danger of allowin me to get a job and dumpin her.

It will cost you. If you hv some money and you are ready to spend some money on your self, I can give you some tips.

@ deniyor.
Mama mia! I dont think any vodoo,magic or octopus paul *roll eyes* can solve this, I mean jus sayin.
o.k go ahead and display or sample out the products or whatever you want to sell on NL for public opinion or dont you think i ve the right of knowin whatever am goin to buy.

I hope you have your credit card ready or I will send you my account details so that you can wire me some money.

Haha just kidding, don't worry I'm not selling anything or about to scam you. Can't blame you tho, with the way we naija always ready to do anything for money. Like I said spend some money on yourself. Buy clothes, look good, smell good, appear confident and shed some wowo look. If you still lack the confidence as a late starter, get some self help/ dating cds/dvds. I can recommend one that works for people like u. Years ago when I needed to step up my game, I used it. The tricks there are a part of me now. And don't think its just working on white women, it works on everyone and I find you might end up being less a mugu for women.

Anyways go the this website. You might learn some things there.

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/

^^^ thanx. also check d website.

Hi hola me na lets talk

ermm bro u can always date men, ghana men

I think what u need is for people to connect u.
As in, ask ur friends with decent wives/girlfriends to introduce their decent friends to you (not Nollywood o)
I know a lot of people that have met their significant other that way.
It just might help u but dont go around sounding desperate.
Take ur time and make a very good pick.

blank:

I think what u need is for people to connect u.
As in, ask your friends with decent wives/girlfriends to introduce their decent friends to you (not Nollywood o)
I know a lot of people that have met their significant other that way.
It just might help u but dont go around sounding desperate.
Take your time and make a very good pick.

yeaaaaaaa why not pick me

@ poster

u will overcome this stage, searching for life-partner is not an easy task

@ love.4bug
u don't have a contact

papa190:

im single and looking for a man to date maybe u mite be interested in me, just check my profile~

Na today, lol

Poster, no try NL dating ooo, Na guys wey go carry there sister dey talk to you on Phone and Next na to send Airtime or money to come Visit you.
After you deposit money, na another format dem go give you.

Go to dating sites where you have Nigerians lady abroad, who are ready to come home to marry or socialise , go to places on weekends and also facebook and add old friends at school, maybe some might be in same position,

NL is not the answer. At Papa190, Lady dey bear Papa, lol

God Bless All

@OP

You are still here replying to posts? Don't you have any facebook account, do some searches, add friends and send them a message.

I'm out!

Girls are cheaper than pure water these days all u need do is to tell them ur mind of what u want to do with them i.e phuck, marry, date or flirt.
All u need is a gud job, car and  a loaded pocket. The internet has also made nigerian girls more cheaper. And with ur explanation u shud not av any problem.

i wont even tell you to be patient n the rt woman will come cos na lie!apart frm asking frends and family to hook you up i think you shld be looking ard you there must be alot of nice ladies ard but u jst need to look hard nxt time you see a gal whom you admire frm far or near pls walk up to her and she might just be the one finally dnt give up just keep looking and try nt to be shy as fortune favours the bold.

190/Papa190 lets hook up

Na wa ooo, How are we sure if this guy can Perform self if he see woman, Hahahahaha

I dont think meeting a Girl/Lady should be a problem for a graduate,

There lot of Bankers looking to get married, those are the ones you need to hook up with.

Whenever you go to the Bank, Say Hi to the Ladies.

Give them your card, invite her for dinner, from there you start communicating via emails or Phone.

Easy and Simple, lol

Poster,
Do not rush to conclusions.
Relax.
Patience is a virtue.
Pray for the right woman.

This present generation of Nigerians is what Jesus Christ called a GENERATION OF VIPERS.
Beware of falling in lust.
Beware of fair weather lovers.

Good people, i reali feel beta with your candid responses. But, wait a minute this facebook of a thing does it raeli work? i mean last year i hook a girl 2ru my page, became so close and developed affection and even flew from italy to visit her in jos, d moment i saw her, hmm. D make up was so heavy in majority of her pix, dat i instantly lost intrest with d photogenic look. Am a naturalist. If you know wat i mean. thanx alot while i await more of your comments. Stay cool.

deniyor:

190/Papa190 lets hook up

yes send some money in2 my GTB account and i would be knocking on ur door 1st tin 2morow morning~