OP.

WHy must i be the one to open the toilet's door ? . . .

As long as we are both healthy, virginity isn't an issue.

Horayce: As long as we are both healthy, virginity isn't an issue.

[size=38pt]this topic has be overflogged. Abeg close it[/size]

A virgin dat knw about sex

Poll: Assuming I were looking for a wife, this one's pretty tough. The first implies she knows exactly what she wants with her body and life and won't compromise with life, which is attractive. The second implies she knows the same and won't compromise with judgment of anyone, which would also make for excellent long time partner traits. I guess I'd ask which them into marriage more.

This sexual compartbility is essential in marriage, I still believe in Virginity is nt dignity bt lack of opportunity
your virgin woman might be sexually boring afterwards,n u might consider goin out in search of compatibility which Is against ur marriage vows.
You might prefer a virgin,bt wen my heart beats for her n hers for me,den the isue of virgin is negligible.I DNT WANT VIRGIN

U ar all talkin rubish..virgin d best imagine me marry some1 bein screwed manytimes..and i wil pay brid pric..GOD FOrbid..new stuff..guy wey dey talk lyk dat don useles many galz datz y dey say non virgin ar gud..trust me virgin is d best

Seun:
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When a docile person meets an adventurous person, they will communicate their preferences to each other, evaluate the similarities and differences in their tastes, and negotiate for a mutually agreeable resolution. It's not only in the bedroom that, as a married person, you sometimes have to try something new just to please your partner.

And nothing stops people who are planning to get married from openly discussing their preferences before marriage. Nothing stops you a young man from [I]saying[/I], "my dear, I am wild o. I have been watching these dirty films, and I want to reproduce all their stunts in our bedroom when we get married. What do you think?" And if she says, "over my dead body; we only need to make lov when we're trying to have children" then you know you have a problem.

Let's face it, a virgin cannot instantaneously become too wild and adventurous for his wife to adjust to if [I]her[/I] first night is also [I]his[/I] first night. Let both of them learn together, and together let them become as wild or docile as they want to be. Simple communication is the answer, not premarital sex![/s]

Update on 11th September 2015: I believe in premarital sex now.

Hi mr seun today is 11th september 2015 nairaland has evolved into somethings that mouth can not say eg, d self righteous people, cyber bullies and trolls....why not allow this virgin or no virgin thread die a peaceful death before nairalanders come at each others throat....albeit I would prefer to marry an experienced partner....
Besides what eveng changed ur views

misspicy:
Besides what even changed your views

Time and logic. It's clear that people's sexual preferences are very different and those whose needs are not being met have a tendency to go outside to look for people who can meet them. So it's better to make sure that your partner has similar sexual preferences before marriage.

Seun:
Time and logic. It's clear that people's sexual preferences are very different and those whose needs are not being met have a tendency to go outside to look for people who can meet them. So it's better to make sure that your partner has similar sexual preferences before marriage.

Right you are!.

Seun:
Time and logic. It's clear that people's sexual preferences are very different and those whose needs are not being met have a tendency to go outside to look for people who can meet them. So it's better to make sure that your partner has similar sexual preferences before marriage.

Agreed, but how do you suggest that. Going for a test in the hospital or actually getting physical?

Never knew people hated virgins so much

IcraveLove:
Never knew people hated virgins so much

Are u one

One of my guys married to a Virgin. On the wedding night, na struggles on the bed as the girl no gree allow him penetrate, saying it was painful. Two weeks after, no penetration yet ohh virgin girl still dey complain of pain. A doctor they later consulted with recommended an anaesthesia which they apply around her vulva area to deaden the vagina muscles before a little penetration was made. Based on the this, if you you love sex too much, don't dare go near virgins as they could be frustrating sexually.

IcraveLove:
Never knew people hated virgins so much

boiz2men:


Are u one

Does it matter?

.

IcraveLove:
Never knew people hated virgins so much

Who told you we dislike virgins? Don't let what we type here or say in public deceive you. The respect/love/trust we will gv a virgin wife is not what we will gv to a non-virgin

Trailblazer93:

Who told you we dislike virgins? Don't let what we type here or say in public deceive you. The respect/love/trust we will gv a virgin wife is not what we will gv to a non-virgin

Okay

Vieira:


Seun, you by your own admissions know very little about this. Take it from someone who is a bit more exprienced in this field, IT IS NOT A MYTH.

almost anyone who has had more than one sexual encounter will be able to tell you this.

Sexual Compatibility is one of a number of factors that can make or break a marriage. And no amount of talking about it or communicating will alter someones drive or fetishes or whatever. (unless you start using drugs!)

Since you are self admittedly not into sex stop educating people who actually do it about what is real and what is not.

during d days of our fathers majority of d girls marrid as virgins yet d rate of divorce was low compared to dis generation

IcraveLove:


Does it matter?

Does it not?

boiz2men:


Does it not?

Depends on your...

IcraveLove:


Depends on your...

am i suppose to ask "your what" ?

boiz2men:


am i suppose to ask "your what" ?

Sorry I meant depends on you. Are you looking for a virgin?

IcraveLove:
Never knew people hated virgins so much

In the end, you'll only marry just one person, not people.
And the person's preference in this regard will surely make all the difference.

I was redirected to this page from Google, based on personal research as my type of man would end any potential marriage relationship no matter how far it's gone, if it's proved the lady isn't intact.
I don't want to break anyone's heart, do I wish to be well-informed beforehand.

Can't live with the thought of another man having poked my wife, it's impossible.

And don't let online media rants deceive you.
I'm yet to meet or hear of a man who cancelled his marriage plans because his wife to be was a virgin.
Most of the guys ranting against virginity here are only tryna comfort themselves in not expecting too much.

If they were to hit on one, they'll add extra jars of palmwine for marriage Introduction and they won't come here to tell you.
Conversely, men abound who would terminate s relationship if they can't establish a proof of virginity.

Better to keep your options open, as someone up there said.
Whichever way you look at it, a virgin has more leverage in a potential marriage relationship than a non-virgin does.

When fidelity, trust and decency are thrown into the equation, the virgin can walk out with raised shoulders.
A non-virgin's options are limited.

The virgin could be anything the non-virgin currently is, so the issue of comparison does not even arise.