1johnjohn:



Who no dey cheat?...

see talk. Does ur religion allow it

1johnjohn:




No faults.. I want to happy and free. Its just for people to learn!

Lol

Its funny how people will easily run away from their responsibities on mere flimsy excuses. Oga work on your marriage to make it work. Women are like farm,if you don't weed them,there will be grasses. Do you run away from your farm because of weed? No. There is no perfect woman or man,so have it in mind that even if you divorce her and remarry,another challenge will come up that will be different from the first one. Do you keep on divorcing them?. Two of you should behave maturely and work on your marriage.

1johnjohn:
Baba mama no drama. I wish I did that shit...shout to davido and d rest.
Anyways...I have left home for weeks...
She stills fights on d phone...
I tired gaaam too much folks
But d peace is beautiful.. I don't think she loves been by her self....

So how Davison take enter d matter.
I still don't get

1johnjohn:



Who no dey cheat?...

this one na small pikin o, abi you just grow pass your sense ni? few as they are there are people who don't cheat.

And why are you even complaining? you deserve what you are getting then or worse.

Divay22:
If you like date your spouse for 10 years, you can never know them well enough.

Talk with her first, tell her the changes you've noticed and it's not making you happy let her open up to you too. Maybe you've changed also and after this talk, nothing positive then you can both free yourself.

True talk! You can never know your spouse well enough. I was watching a show on TV. The host was interviewing an old couple, the woman in her late 80s and the man in his early 90s I suppose. They just celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary. The host now said they must know each other so well, having lived together for decades.

The man said, "No! You can never know a woman enough. My wife did something on the morning of our anniversary party. I would've sworn she'd never do that!"
This humbled me, I've kept it in my head since then.

1johnjohn:
U so right...I want to be free and I want her to be free. Bit Christian says no !

But according to the bible adultery is a reason for divorce, and you committed adultery.

khiaa:


But according to the bible adultery is a reason for divorce, and you committed adultery.

he hasn’t admitted that to his wife

N0favors:
he hasn’t admitted that to his wife

I don't see why he hasn't, that would be his way out since he doesn't want her anymore.

You need to read the four seasons of love book.

No perfect relationship, marriage, woman or man. You will leave her and meet another issue.

HeavenlyCherub:
You need to read the four seasons of love book.

No perfect relationship, marriage, woman or man. You will leave her and meet another issue.

We still together.. Although I have withdrawn into my shell...how do I read about the book.

1johnjohn:


We still together.. Although I have withdrawn into my shell...how do I read about the book.

Get a divorce if you don't want her anymore..
Which one be all the tales by moonlight nau.. Marriage no be by force..

khiaa:


I don't see why he hasn't, that would be his way out since he doesn't want her anymore.

He might not wake up from sleep next morning. I’m sure he’ll be stabbed to death in his sleep by his wife if he ever confesses that to her

One must remain SINGLE even when MARRIED. That's the key to avoid BOREDOM!

Remember all the reasons you married her John. You will go into another marriage and you will meet another problem. Will you divorce again? Don't withdraw into a shell you are ruining your marriage. Communication, kindness and understanding is key. Read the four seasons of marriage. You can get it as an E book online but here is an extract:

Spring, summer, winter, fall. Marriages are perpetually in a state of transition, continually moving from one season to another—perhaps not annually, as in nature, but just as certainly and consistently. Sometimes we find ourselves in winter—discouraged, detached, and dissatisfied; other times, we experience springtime with its openness, hope, and anticipation. On other occasions, we bask in the warmth of summer—comfortable, relaxed, enjoying life. And then comes fall with its uncertainty, negligence, and apprehension. The cycle repeats itself many times throughout the life of a marriage, just as the seasons repeat themselves in nature.

The seasons of marriage come and go. Each one holds the potential for emotional health and happiness, and each one has its challenges. The purpose of this book is to describe these recurring seasons of marriage, help you and your spouse identify which season your marriage is in, and show you how to enhance your marriage in all four seasons.