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Parents Disallowed Her From Marrying A Guy Of Her Choice by mxpinky: 10:16pm On Nov 02, 2018
What relationship advice do you have for a lady whose parents disallowed her from marrying a guy of her choice?
Your contribution is much important.
Thanks.
Re: Parents Disallowed Her From Marrying A Guy Of Her Choice by ImaIma1(f): 10:21pm On Nov 02, 2018
You gave no reason.What is their reason? Is it Bourne out of ignorance, selfish or other interests or being rigid?

Why are the parents rejecting the guy? That is a good place to start from.
Re: Parents Disallowed Her From Marrying A Guy Of Her Choice by mxpinky: 10:23pm On Nov 02, 2018
ImaIma1:
You gave no reason.What is their reason? Is it Bourne out of ignorance, selfish or other interests or being rigid?

Why are the parents rejecting the guy? That is a good place to start from.
religious differences sha
Re: Parents Disallowed Her From Marrying A Guy Of Her Choice by daben1(m): 10:29pm On Nov 02, 2018
..."for a lady" or you? we're not kids here
Re: Parents Disallowed Her From Marrying A Guy Of Her Choice by mxpinky: 10:31pm On Nov 02, 2018
daben1:
..."for a lady" or you? we're not kids here
you're a kid must everything be about the poster ?
Re: Parents Disallowed Her From Marrying A Guy Of Her Choice by habsydiamond(m): 10:36pm On Nov 02, 2018
This one of the reason why I like white people's culture...when it comes to their kids. Oyinbo man will never go against the wishes of his son or daughter... For this Nigeria religion is one of the major problem we are facing after poverty....

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Re: Parents Disallowed Her From Marrying A Guy Of Her Choice by solz007(m): 1:00am On Nov 03, 2018
Well Guess Her Parents Are Looking Out For Her..Cause Marrying Someone With A Different Believe As You Comes With A lot Of Challenges. You're Marrying That Person Means You Believe In That Persons Religion, When U Guys Get Married Y'all Will Become One... She Should Keep Love Aside And Use Her Head.. Does She Believe In His Religion And Would She Want Her Kids To Believe In That Same Religion Cause Their Eternal Life Should Matter To Her. Do You Think He'll Let You Practice Your Religion When You Guys Marry Or Would You Leave Your Religion For His? It's Just Complicated Sha!!!! Hope Things Get Better..
Re: Parents Disallowed Her From Marrying A Guy Of Her Choice by mezarddinny: 4:33am On Nov 03, 2018
habsydiamond:
This one of the reason why I like white people's culture...when it comes to their kids. Oyinbo man will never go against the wishes of his son or daughter... For this Nigeria religion is one of the major problem we are facing after poverty....
stop saying crap, oyinbo parents go against their children's decision, some even break ties with them because of it.


it is the children that actually care less unlike here where they don't want to disobey their parents

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Re: Parents Disallowed Her From Marrying A Guy Of Her Choice by ednut1(m): 6:53am On Nov 03, 2018
Carry belle. Case closed
Re: Parents Disallowed Her From Marrying A Guy Of Her Choice by habsydiamond(m): 7:36am On Nov 03, 2018
mezarddinny:
stop saying crap, oyinbo parents go against their children's decision, some even break ties with them because of it.


it is the children that actually care less unlike here where they don't want to disobey their parents
if u are to rate that of the whites to that of we blacks which one high pass...90% will still stick to the desire of their kids there unlike here that it's 50% and it's in all aspects marriage, education, lifestyle and so on that the parent want to impose on their kids
Re: Parents Disallowed Her From Marrying A Guy Of Her Choice by mezarddinny: 5:29pm On Nov 04, 2018
habsydiamond:
if u are to rate that of the whites to that of we blacks which one high pass...90% will still stick to the desire of their kids there unlike here that it's 50% and it's in all aspects marriage, education, lifestyle and so on that the parent want to impose on their kids
you are right here, nigerian parents like full authority over their wards
Re: Parents Disallowed Her From Marrying A Guy Of Her Choice by GOFRONT(m): 5:51pm On Nov 04, 2018
Religion and genotype be causing wahala from time immemorial grin
Re: Parents Disallowed Her From Marrying A Guy Of Her Choice by ojun50(m): 6:45pm On Nov 04, 2018
She jst have to move on either backward or forward,
Re: Parents Disallowed Her From Marrying A Guy Of Her Choice by Thugnificent(m): 6:49pm On Nov 04, 2018
Really bad.

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