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Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by konny1(m): 2:02pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
Yes |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by Mutemenot(m): 2:03pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
Many would say yes with their reasons but remember marriage is like a battle you don't fight alone. Families (mother father etc) matters alot I know a friend who ignored his family wish not to marry A certain lady, now the lady (his wife) and her family is battling him. My nigga dies in pain cos he couldn't involve his family cos they fore warned him not to marry the wife 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by Nobody: 2:03pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
enemyofprogress: You have got to be kidneying me 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by Manweysabi(m): 2:03pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
enemyofprogress: Interesting ( |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by wallpages(m): 2:07pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
since I know my parent love for me is undiluted, and they are aware they can't marry me either. surely what they wished for me is the very best, so I will listen to them provided their verdict did not exceed and contradict the limit God has granted to them. 4 Likes |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by Herrmes: 2:13pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
I can do anything I want against my parent's wish |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by frozen70(f): 2:14pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
For parents to be against one's marriage, there must be some things which they have seen and because "love is blind" you can't see them When such cases comes up, have a pep talk with them to a certain why they are objecting to it But if the intending couples go ahead, once there are any problems in that marriage, they will accuse the parents that stood against it It's better to go into marriage with their blessings than going ahead without their permission They gave birth to you and they knows alot 1 Like |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by HIGHESTPOPORI(m): 2:16pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
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Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by princeemmma(m): 2:28pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
Definition of terms: Married, against, parents, wish? it only matters to those who has parents, let me come and be going 2 Likes
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Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by clevermosaics: 2:28pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
I am in China my answer is yes, I can get married against my parent's wish |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by Duru1(m): 2:34pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
Yes of course, you can go against your parent's decision but do not come calling when the marriage crashes. Africans tend to hurriedly borrow craps from European and will not follow through. 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by spiceadole: 2:53pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
As a woman, I cannot get married against my parents' wish. If I were a man, Yes. I can |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by djon78(m): 2:58pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
spiceadole: My dear even as a man it is not safe. After God na ones parents. One must need there blessings!! 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by djon78(m): 2:59pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
Duru1: You dey mind them. Why is there so much divorce issues today? Many just follow there wish and small the thing crashes |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by HoneyBag: 3:02pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
haba..... yes I will do it a million times |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by excanny: 3:04pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
Why should a parent interfere in the marital choice of their child? That's trespassing. Just give ur advice if you have reservations. They should bear any consequences of indiscretion on their part alone. 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by condralbedez: 3:05pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
enemyofprogress:correct,ur head dey thr. |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by JERRY1925(m): 3:17pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
Actually faced with such issue..the girls parent want her to marry from her tribe..she keeps giving m hope..but I don't think she wud go against her parent wish..its just confusing sometimes |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by viktor88: 3:30pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
djon78:My friend rejected my friend wife to be and help him to get another girl from a good family, the married ended at 8 months. |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by advocatebaba(m): 3:31pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
enemyofprogress:Yeah, since they burned u, na ashes u 4b by nw. kikikikh 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by Charly68: 4:05pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
Don't marry until you secure the consent of your parents .Who will collect your bride price if you don't secure their consent ? |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by Nobody: 4:29pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
Our parent know more than us Talk sensible than us Think different than us See than us. But they can't predict tomorrow they can only analyse bad ones among many ones. Decision is ours to make because we are the one to choose Life Partner Not Them... 1 Like |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
donbachi:There is experience in marriage bro. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by Ebukaokeke5: 4:43pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
Yes of course. |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by sircrabo: 4:46pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
If you must oppose my marriage or spouse, then you must give me genuine reasons. I do not have any issue taking advices but African parents don't know where to draw the line. Most parents want to decide for their kids out of Selfish interest Here in Africa, we uphold our parents opinion more than ours ; making us stooges, it's not so in the west. At 18, people are adults, they make decision for themselves, yet their country is doing well. Another set of people we shelve our opinion for theirs is our religious leaders. we've been made to believe that if our parents and pastor don't approve a thing, then it shouldn't be done. LIES !!! If mark zukerberg, Tiger Woods, Larry page, Paul Allen, Bill Gates were born of African parents, they won't be where they are today. Their parents would have chosen something else for them. Too much sentiments in Africa in the name of respect Parents have blessed marriages than still hit the rock or the couples living in bitterness. African youths, Heaven won't fall on us if we make our choices 4 Likes |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by Nobody: 4:48pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
donbachi:I like your straight-to-the-point responses to that guy. What would you say is the recipe for peaceful yet effective leadership as a Man in marriage? 1 Like |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by Anuoluwapo23(f): 4:54pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
You answer for the GODS too WinningEleven: |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by Rocktation(f): 4:56pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
@sircrabo.... Well said! |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by donbachi(m): 5:08pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
Omoluabi9:comminicate well with her,play your financial role to the best of ur knowlege,don't kill trust,be sincere,shout when necessary but with love,put ur family first,see ur marriage as a reality show,cook if u can atimes and always give listening ears...it helps.nobody is a superhuman. 7 Likes |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by Dotng: 5:32pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
Life is lived forward and understood backwards. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Get Married Against Your Parent Wish? by supercent02(m): 5:35pm On Nov 09, 2018 |
Parents will soon leave this world to their internal home... Then you will be left with your fate! Marry who you think is right for you... Remember marriage is for forever! 1 Like |
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