SweetBuns:
No thanks. Its too risky. I can't help a broke man.
If he's not yet made, he shouldn't think of marriage at all

SweetBuns:
No thanks. Its too risky. I can't help a broke man.
If he's not yet made, he shouldn't think of marriage at all

naijaboiy:


But who is asking you for help na? They're talking about dating and obviously a man who has made it doesn't need much of your help either. What will you contribute when you don't know the foundation of his success?

Your type get married quite alright, but complain of lack of attention and not being involved in certain financial or family matters. Little did you know that your absence at the beginning of his struggle resulted to such attitude. You're just a passenger he met on his journey of life not a supporter or helper.

MissRaine69:
A poor man can have ambition and drive but lack the means HOWEVER the biggest issue is some of you brothers struggle with discipline and loyalty! So a woman can stand by you while you both try to make ends meet but the moment the good times start to roll that very woman that struggled with you, is replaced with someone who was never there from the start. This is the biggest issue why would you replace your all weather woman with a fair weather one?

naijaboiy:


But who is asking you for help na? They're talking about dating and obviously a man who has made it doesn't need much of your help either. What will you contribute when you don't know the foundation of his success?

Your type get married quite alright, but complain of lack of attention and not being involved in certain financial or family matters. Little did you know that your absence at the beginning of his struggle resulted to such attitude. You're just a passenger he met on his journey of life not a supporter or helper.

MissRaine69:
A poor man can have ambition and drive but lack the means HOWEVER the biggest issue is some of you brothers struggle with discipline and loyalty! So a woman can stand by you while you both try to make ends meet but the moment the good times start to roll that very woman that struggled with you, is replaced with someone who was never there from the start. This is the biggest issue why would you replace your all weather woman with a fair weather one?

naijaboiy:


Any type of man can replace a woman. This stereotype of the struggling man doing that stuff is so stale now don't you think?

Oni of ife has changed wives in less than two years. So? Y'all should come up with another excuse of why you're scared and always searching for that assurance and security.

naijaboiy:


Any type of man can replace a woman. This stereotype of the struggling man doing that stuff is so stale now don't you think?

Oni of ife has changed wives in less than two years. So? Y'all should come up with another excuse of why you're scared and always searching for that assurance and security.

MissRaine69:

There are women who have supported a guy when he had absolutely nothing
And when he made it
He replaces her can you also appreciate the scepticism and weariness a woman can have when it comes to this? I am very aware women are also guilty of doing the same.
But that’s a different story for a different time.

naijaboiy:


Already addressed this in my previous post.

MissRaine69:

So you make it personal rather than look at it objectively?
So typical on NL
Smh

Lmaoo!! What's personal in my post dear? Obviously that was a well thought angle and I subjected it to you for observation.

Okay, tell me where in my posts that I went personal and didn't stick to my objective opinion? You're the one rather acting like the typical Nl feminist backing out of a discussion when the odds of getting your points across is not in your utmost favor.

MissRaine69:

I am not going to have a discussion with you because you cannot be objective.

Sounds like I lost something important. Touche

naijaboiy:


Lmaoo!! What's personal in my post dear? Obviously that was a well thought angle and I subjected it to you for observation.

Okay, tell me where in my posts that I went personal and didn't stick to my objective opinion? You're the one rather acting like the typical Nl feminist backing out of a discussion when the odds of getting your points across is not in your utmost favor.

MissRaine69:

Name calling is petty and immature
And so what if I am a feminist? How does that impact on your life?
Like I said I would have discussed ....I will reiterate that is the operative word here but that’s not what you are doing.
Goading and name calling such a shame you have to resort to that. I will return when someone worth conversing with posts something.
Have a good day yeah?

Who called you names? Please maintain your lane as before jare!

MissRaine69:
A poor man can have ambition and drive but lack the means HOWEVER the biggest issue is some of you brothers struggle with discipline and loyalty! So a woman can stand by you while you both try to make ends meet but the moment the good times start to roll that very woman that struggled with you, is replaced with someone who was never there from the start. This is the biggest issue why would you replace your all weather woman with a fair weather one?

denko:
You are totally not correct. In those hustle time the woman must have made the man to pass through hell on earth, but that is not enough reason to act this picture you painted

SweetBuns:
No thanks. Its too risky. I can't help a broke man.
If he's not yet made, he shouldn't think of marriage at all

MissRaine69:

So you make it personal rather than look at it objectively?
So typical on NL
Smh

gloria34:
Una don start ba? a woman is tested when a man have nothing, a man is tested when a he have everything. Its a game of chance, not everyone is willing to play. Personally, i have never dated a rich guy, i date Comfortable guys. D rich once always believe u are after their cash, thats an insult

DanDeeBoss:
Nice one... I love the part "I date comfortable guys".....Wise move...