pryme:


Yeah that's OK, I but I have always wanted to ask the likea of you this question,

What will you do if the rich guy you married were to lose all his wealth, or got retrenched or his business hits the rocks?

What will you do then?

3RNEST:
Chai this woman after the banana na..

funmisticqueen:
who banana eppp

funmisticqueen:
depends on the circumstances by which he lost his wealth. But i will most likely leave

3RNEST:

Pls what's your definition of a comfortable Guy?

#Comment So deep!!

gloria34:
A guy who can fend 4 himself. I Dont care d amount a guy is earning just let him work. I cannot date a guy who sits at home asking for recharge card money from his mom

gloria34:
See u, searching 4 trouble where there is none. I Cant b earning above 40 and dating a guy that have no job, guy think am na. U as a guy, can u date such a girl?

MissRaine69:
A poor man can have ambition and drive but lack the means HOWEVER the biggest issue is some of you brothers struggle with discipline and loyalty! So a woman can stand by you while you both try to make ends meet but the moment the good times start to roll that very woman that struggled with you, is replaced with someone who was never there from the start. This is the biggest issue why would you replace your all weather woman with a fair weather one?

mhizv:
I can marry a man who is educated,career minded,ambitious,knows what he wants,isn't lazy,and can take care of a family. Obviously things would change. Besides I'd support too.

samysmoothfresh:


i had to read his post thrice after reading this comment yet i didnt see nor could i deduce how he took it personal


oh well, i'm not surprised anyway cos to a typical nl lady, discussing objectively means "shut the fvck up and tak what i say as the truth and final answer"

3RNEST:
Pls let's meet on WhatsApp I think I know dat guy.

gloria34:
Una don start ba? a woman is tested when a man have nothing, a man is tested when a he have everything. Its a game of chance, not everyone is willing to play. Personally, i have never dated a rich guy, i date Comfortable guys. D rich once always believe u are after their cash, thats an insult

Biglittlelois:



Same here, rich guys makes you feel unfulfilled in a way, like you cant bring anything worthy into the relationship, smh!!!

joseph6071:
Gone are the days when ladies do marry for true love, when nobody thought of material things when it comes to getting married. But it is quite different finding the same around these days.


I had a female friend then in school who told me that she does not really care about studying and passing, that all she wants to do is to look really good and she is sure a rich man would notice her and get married to her and they would spend the money together.


now my question is, what happens to those that are poor who needs a beautiful woman by their side to become successful with them, or is the saying that "behind every successful man is a woman" now obsolete?

I want to see all your opinions...cheers

source: https://www.musictori.com/2018/11/ladies-can-you-marry-poor-man-and-try.html

cc: lalasticlala, mynd44, dominique

MissRaine69:

There are women who have supported a guy when he had absolutely nothing
And when he made it
He replaces her can you also appreciate the scepticism and weariness a woman can have when it comes to this?

pryme:


No they don't.
More often than not the marriage will be based on material things.
if the man buys her a car, but have girls all over the place, she will still be the same person to complain, I mean why complain, you wanted a rich man and you had him.

Saff:
And who told you poor or below average men don’t cheat? You think it’s just men with money that cheat, you are funny. It’s clear that most of you men want women to feel guilty for setting a standard that they stand by. Just stop it.

pryme:


Yeah, there is a standard alright, a standard of being a broke ass and looking for a man that will lift your liability ass from its worthless nature.
If you are rich then money will not be the criteria you seek in a man.
But since you don't know what it's like to be rich you put that as a standard, clueless women like you think money brings happiness.

Being a shallow human being is one of the ills todays society, something you have worked so hard to become.

Your worthless standard will only appeal your worthless lot.
And why would a rich man marry the likes of you? Are you rich?

I look forward to your condescending reply.