In the light of the present situation of things, here are a few pointers to note before agreeing to settle for a man and marriage.


1) Define yourself; determine what you will or will not take, what standards and values you will not compromise on. You must stand up for yourself, appreciate your strengths, downplay your weakness and decide the level of life you want to play at.

2) Don’t be with someone at any level lower than where you are at, socially, educationally or economically except you are convinced of his potentials and you are sure without a doubt that he is bigger than the place where he currently is.


3) He must bring more to the table than you do; he mustn’t be dependent on you in any way. He must have a place to stay, drive his own car and pay his own bills, the day you start to prop him up that day you have in your hands a liability.

4) He must buy you gifts; this is a sure sign that he is seriously with you. Do not take the lack of money as an excuse.

5) You must be proud to show him off to your family and friends.

6) Don’t manage him ever; even if you don’t really know if you love him or are probably with him because you feel you are getting old.

7) Let him be the one to impress you not the other way round; before you are married to him, you shouldn’t be the one trying to impress him, you are the queen, the princess, it is on you that the choice ultimately rests.

The people that matter most in your life should at least be comfortable with him, your parents and siblings and close friends.

9) Remember that he will not change – if he beats you, gets drunk, flirts around, is irresponsible before you get married, he will be exactly the same man after the marriage.

10) There are good men around; don’t think the good men have finished and stick to one who treats you badly.

Never settle for less…!

Who dey advice others never advice herself.




Copy and paste slayers.

JasonScoolari:
Who dey advice others never advice herself.




Copy and paste slayers.

plagiarism is appreciation

Lol see setup for mumu girls.
I pity the foolish female that carries all that one put for head.

Especially that #7. If you like don't impress him. Don't show him how much value you would add to his life.
Just sit there expecting to be catered to and see where that gets you.

Thirsty girls like the OP will be the first to snatch better man from mumu females. Standard flow. No be today

Amakavula:
plagiarism is appreciation

Enjoy, but do it with sense.

The OP is aggressively posting topics. Are you on your period?

JasonScoolari:
Enjoy, but do it with sense.

ode

haywire07:
The OP is aggressively posting topics. Are you on your period?

I am going back to work Monday, I wouldn't have your time again. So let me enjoy Nairaland small .

Amakavula:
ode

A witless person is always quick to insult.

JasonScoolari:
A witless person is always quick to insult.

Burn heretic ! burn in Spanish hell

Amakavula:
I am going back to work Monday, I wouldn't have your time again. So let me enjoy Nairaland small .

have my time? I'm not sure I begged for your attention. I was only pointing out the obvious, and I was just checking on ya

haywire07:
have my time? I'm not sure I begged for your attention. I was only pointing out the obvious, and I was just checking on ya

awwh thanks, your moniker reminds me of that crazy guy from Prison break.

Amakavula:
Burn heretic ! burn in Spanish hell

What is wrong with this thing?

Amakavula:
awwh thanks, your moniker remains me of that crazy guy from Prison break.

*Reminds* Not remains.

I guess we can now see who the real Ode.

Amakavula:
awwh thanks, your moniker reminds me of that crazy guy from Prison break.

Exactly. I think you have a trait of brightness too, you just need to put in more work to fire it up

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