There was a guy i dated for almost 6years, we are a distance apart but i love him soo much and he claimed to love me too. Along the line he impregnated a lady and we broke up then. We later settled the dispute and move on with our relationship cos he only took the baby, As tym goes on he started misbehaving e.g he doesn't call nor received my call anymore. i decided to pay him a visit without a notice one day. It was a terrible day because he walked out of me and i hav to plead his frds to get him for me and i was succeded in that.
He told me he was told that we are not compatible by one alfa after 6years of our relationship, so i decided to move on with my life, i was planning to write my final exam and i was really affected because it wasn't so easy for me. after some months i hooked up with another guy just to while away my tym. Guess wat! two months ago my ex called me and started pleading that he wanted to see me because i have relocated so he doesn't know where i stayed presently.
I guess he loves me but u know guys neva for once appreciate what they av untill the lost it. i cant let him go off my mind cos i still love him and all his family has been pleading on his behalf but my new guy is far beta than him but i neva loved him. PLS NEED UR CANDID ADVICE.

Your mind is already made up and i don't believe you'd take on board whatever we tell you.

Life is full of risks so question yourself if he is worth the risk.

jay bee:

Your mind is already made up and i don't believe you'd take on board whatever we tell you.

Life is full of risks so question yourself if he is worth the risk.

the ex should go to hell and let him ask the alfa the side in which he will be, the left or right

damlolo:


He told me he was told that we are not compatible by one alfa after 6years of our relationship

Ask him if the Alfa did another compatibility test for you guys

@poster
no insult here, but abeg nor make me from this computer tear your face with slap
he is taking you for a ride and you are playing along with him like a dullard
truely love is overrated

I believe in love. I understand that true love does not die, but It fades.
Do u want him to write a script on ur Love lives titled POOR LOVER.
If u dont mind patching for the rest of ur life, MARRY HIM.

You're a confused lady. Search within yourself for the best option

You're a confused lady. Search within yourself for the best option

papa190:

Trust nairaland,
the response you would get is:
Move on
he is not worth it
He would go back and hurt you again
Get a life
[color=#990000]You are a dummy!
dont take him back else your life would be ruined again a 2nd time


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y me:

@poster
no insult here, but abeg nor make me from this computer tear your face with slap
he is taking you for a ride and you are playing along with him like a dullard
truely love is overrated

I believe i already said that~

respect ur feelings and go with whoever u tink wud make u hapi. . .

jay bee:

Your mind is already made up and i don't believe you'd take on board whatever we tell you.

Life is full of risks so question yourself if he is worth the risk.

Nice one! I agree.

There's this proverb which goes , " head wey go chop conk even if him carry house for head , when time reach to chop the conk him go comot the house ". My sister I think the time has come to chop that " conk " , no matter what anyone says here , including God , you'll go back to him and he'll f*ck you up again. He wasn't f**king your p*55y all this while , he was fc*king your brains and he did a pretty good job. Na only the new guy I pity as you don't such a man.

There's this proverb which goes , " head wey go chop conk even if him carry house for head , when time reach to chop the conk him go comot the house ". My sister I think the time has come to chop that " conk " , no matter what anyone says here , including God , you'll go back to him and he'll f*ck you up again. He wasn't f**king your p*55y all this while , he was fc*king your brains and he did a pretty good job. Na only the new guy I pity as you don't such a man.

@Poster, follow your heart, its your choice! u are d only one that knows d guy who makes u happy!

Omolola1:

@Poster, follow your heart, its your choice! u are d only one that knows d guy who makes u happy!

It's such a shame that the heart mislead most times, it’s better to use her head.

the best thing is not to go bak to him. if u do, the heart brk this tym will be more terrible than the first tym. but sms u don make up ur mind. that na my candid advice sha o. no say i no tell u oooooo