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What Should I Do Now??? by ayobamiJR(m): 7:19pm On Dec 06
I just got home from work about 7:15PM. I saw my wife crying that my younger brother that lives with us just put a slap to her face after she asked Him to fetch water for her but I could get a detailed explanation from both as they had become a captive of anger but My brother had claimed to have received the Initial slap before retaliation. What should I do pls
Re: What Should I Do Now??? by Samyj247: 7:21pm On Dec 06
how old is ur brother?
Re: What Should I Do Now??? by ojun50(m): 7:22pm On Dec 06
Sha be careful on what to decide,,,, bt first call yr brother a side nd ask him, question
Re: What Should I Do Now??? by JasonScoolari: 7:25pm On Dec 06
Resolve the issue and get a CCTV grin

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Re: What Should I Do Now??? by IamD18: 7:28pm On Dec 06
It's impossible for your younger brother to slap your wife because she asked him to fetch water.

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Re: What Should I Do Now??? by krattoss(m): 7:29pm On Dec 06
What that ur brother needs is job. Get him a job and let him go to work everyday rather than staying idle at home.
Cos an idle man is capable of many things.

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Re: What Should I Do Now??? by agbonkamen(f): 7:35pm On Dec 06
Your sorry ass brother couldn't wait for you to come back from work he decided to slap your wife oh No Pls get that your brother an ashawo to fu*ck his brain for three days no stopping till he finally get sense. grin grin
Re: What Should I Do Now??? by Emescot(m): 7:49pm On Dec 06
Tell them you will settle it tomorrow, then tomorrow go and get a small red and black cloth tie it around a small broom and horn, tell them to swear that something should happen to who gave the first slap.

But seriously women are devil, i swear down ur woman slapped ur brother first, in our culture women dont slap their inlaws, its not right to hit a woman but sometimes u have to correct them with a tap to the face. You have a home wrecker bro act fast

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Re: What Should I Do Now??? by Divay22(f): 8:12pm On Dec 06
Emescot:
Tell them you will settle it tomorrow, then tomorrow go and get a small red and black cloth tie it around a small broom and horn, tell them to swear that something should happen to who gave the first slap.

But seriously women are devil, i swear down ur woman slapped ur brother first, in our culture women dont slap their inlaws, its not right to hit a woman but sometimes u have to correct them with a tap to the face. You have a home wrecker bro act fast
Nothing can justify it.
It's not right and let it be so.

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Re: What Should I Do Now??? by Splinz(m): 8:23pm On Dec 06
Boxer007:



Women are useless sir. Be Gay & be happier. Preach

Who is this terrestrial spirit

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Re: What Should I Do Now??? by Sanemind(m): 8:35pm On Dec 06
Slap they both of them
Re: What Should I Do Now??? by Splinz(m): 8:39pm On Dec 06
ayobamiJR:
I just got home from work about 7:15PM. I saw my wife crying that my younger brother that lives with us just put a slap to her face after she asked Him to fetch water for her but I could get a detailed explanation from both as they had become a captive of anger but My brother had claimed to have received the Initial slap before retaliation. What should I do pls

Sorry, you're really in deep sh!t.

Now, who's at fault here doesn't really matter, but how to resettled your brother elsewhere.

For the fact that he slaps your wife, let it be known to you that as long as he lives under your roof with your wife, she'd never forgive him for daring to slap her in her own house. And she'll probably grow to hate him so...much. So, it is best he moves.

Again, it's absolutely pointless asking who's at fault. The deed has been done...

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Re: What Should I Do Now??? by Homeboiy: 9:00pm On Dec 06
Ask the two to go into a slapping competition
to determine who slapped firsf
Re: What Should I Do Now??? by ayobamiJR(m): 11:05pm On Dec 06
Samyj247:
how old is ur brother?

He's 19...my wife's 24
Re: What Should I Do Now??? by ayobamiJR(m): 11:07pm On Dec 06
Boxer007:



Women are useless sir. Be Gay & be happier. Preach

Don't judge generally..If you have a failed relationship, Ladies can't always be the same
Re: What Should I Do Now??? by ayobamiJR(m): 11:09pm On Dec 06
krattoss:
What that ur brother needs is job. Get him a job and let him go to work everyday rather than staying idle at home.
Cos an idle man is capable of many things.

It's His day off-work
Re: What Should I Do Now??? by samysmoothfresh: 11:19pm On Dec 06
Emescot:
Tell them you will settle it tomorrow, then tomorrow go and get a small red and black cloth tie it around a small broom and horn, tell them to swear that something should happen to who gave the first slap.

But seriously women are devil, i swear down ur woman slapped ur brother first, in our culture women dont slap their inlaws, its not right to hit a woman but sometimes u have to correct them with a tap to the face. You have a home wrecker bro act fast


this one just off me!!

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Re: What Should I Do Now??? by AeroplaneApple: 11:39pm On Dec 06
Whenever I come across you post what comes to my mind is "this mad boy sha" but with this post, I would love to say you are intelligent
IamD18:
It's impossible for your younger brother to slap your wife because she asked him to fetch water.
Re: What Should I Do Now??? by Samyj247: 1:21am On Dec 07
ayobamiJR:


He's 19...my wife's 24
don't support any of them. caution both to live in peace. is your wife pregnant, why can't she fetch water....she is just 24 n I believe she gave him that first slap. both of them should b fetching water......the guy is no longer a kid. it shouldn't b a one mans duty.

if u know ur brother has a better place to go to, let him go, to avoid more trouble cos both of them won't live in peace in that house..

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Re: What Should I Do Now??? by ImaIma1(f): 1:58am On Dec 07
Samyj247:
don't support any of them. caution both to live in peace. is your wife pregnant, why can't she fetch water....she is just 24 n I believe she gave him that first slap. both of them should b fetching water......the guy is no longer a kid. it shouldn't b a one mans duty.

if u know ur brother has a better place to go to, let him go, to avoid more trouble cos both of them won't live in peace in that house..


Does she have to be pregnant to get help? Why should the younger brother allow her to fetch water when he is around.
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Re: What Should I Do Now??? by Wuraola01(f): 2:28am On Dec 07
ayobamiJR:
I just got home from work about 7:15PM. I saw my wife crying that my younger brother that lives with us just put a slap to her face after she asked Him to fetch water for her but I could get a detailed explanation from both as they had become a captive of anger but My brother had claimed to have received the Initial slap before retaliation. What should I do pls


Whether ur wife initiated it or not, it is quite rude of your brother to slap your WIFE even if it is in defence. I would advise you sit your brother down and make him apologize to your WIFE and promise you never to do that again!!!

This is the problem with bringing in siblings undecided

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Re: What Should I Do Now??? by pedrilo: 5:50am On Dec 07
Make plans to assist ur broda wit his own abode.
That's d only solution
Any broda old enuf to slap a wife is qualified to live alone in his own apartment
They don't like each other n it's obvious

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Re: What Should I Do Now??? by Emescot(m): 7:18am On Dec 07
samysmoothfresh:


this one just off me!!
gringringrin no be me write am o
Re: What Should I Do Now??? by Emescot(m): 7:24am On Dec 07
Divay22:

Nothing can justify it.
It's not right and let it be so.
Yeah i know, but in ur own opinion how do u correct women with the fast hand to slap or lock a man's chest. Just asking cos it has never happened to me or my dad and i donr know how i would react if it did
Re: What Should I Do Now??? by Divay22(f): 7:35am On Dec 07
Emescot:

Yeah i know, but in ur own opinion how do u correct women with the fast hand to slap or lock a man's chest. Just asking cos it has never happened to me or my dad and i donr know how i would react if it did
Walk away.
Nothing tortures a woman more, other than silence.
If you hit her, congratulations you can as well kill her but when you walk away she calls herself to order and most likely feel remorseful.

If they lock your shirt or slap you and at the end you retaliate, no matter her offence people will support her and would tag you a wife beater.
Beating or slapping us changes nothing, but silence goes far more than you think.

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Re: What Should I Do Now??? by Emescot(m): 8:16am On Dec 07
Divay22:

Walk away.
Nothing tortures a woman more, other than silence.
If you hit her, congratulations you can as well kill her but when you walk away she calls herself to order and most likely feel remorseful.

If they lock your shirt or slap you and at the end you retaliate, no matter her offence people will support her and would tag you a wife beater.
Beating or slapping us changes nothing, but silence goes far more than you think.
Nice advise tho, i've just never been one to walk away from my problems grin


But let's forget all this talk and make out and forget it ever happened *wink*

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Re: What Should I Do Now??? by ImaIma1(f): 8:33am On Dec 07
Op the bitter truth is that your brother doesn't respect your wife and women for that matter. Slapping your wife whatever the reason is an affront to you. That also means that he doesn't respect you.

Let me ask you a question...if you slap him, will he slap you back?

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Re: What Should I Do Now??? by Pusyiter(m): 8:36am On Dec 07
Divay22:

Walk away.
Nothing tortures a woman more, other than silence.
If you hit her, congratulations you can as well kill her but when you walk away she calls herself to order and most likely feel remorseful.

If they lock your shirt or slap you and at the end you retaliate, no matter her offence people will support her and would tag you a wife beater.
Beating or slapping us changes nothing, but silence goes far more than you think.
You deserve a Kiss
but I no see the mouth to drop it. grin

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Re: What Should I Do Now??? by mhizbel(f): 8:40am On Dec 07
Splinz:


Who is this terrestrial spirit
grin grin grin
Haha Bros! Jeje nah

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