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Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by Wuraola01(f): 8:48am On Dec 07
femi4:
There is this believe that you ll carry a curse if you break her heart since you are the first.

Welcome on board


grin Thank you, femi.
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by DanDeeBoss(m): 8:49am On Dec 07
Can't go through alot of stress..... If I have no intention of marrying you, then there's no point in going through the stress of deflowering you in the first place.... Simple!!!

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Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by Wuraola01(f): 8:55am On Dec 07
DanDeeBoss:
Can't go through alot of stress..... If I have no intention of marrying you, then there's no point in going through the stress of deflowering you in the first place.... Simple!!!



What stress are y'all talking about

Isn't it going to involve the same process as with a non-virg?
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by Ekitibiased(m): 9:04am On Dec 07
If the guy can be committed, I think he should go ahead with the 'process'. If he can't, it's not about his ego and bragging rights he should leave her jeje and not take advantage of the situation.
Some years back, I was very close to a girl who lost 'it' around the time we got close. It meant a lot to her, but I think the real problem was who she lost it too. I loved her so much and she was my first as well, we never dated and that was really heart breaking. It happened once and it took me more than a year to get over her.
I have only met a virgin, what did I do......as I mentioned earlier, If there is a future plan I won't mind but if none......I walk away
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:05am On Dec 07
Wuraola01:




What stress are y'all talking about

Isn't it going to involve the same process as with a non-virg?
Breaking the hymen sef na stress[though I learnt not all women have hymen, abi]... Plus the blood, cries and pain.... Maybe I can't stand itgringringrin
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by Iamicekid(m): 9:06am On Dec 07
Wuraola01:


Nah. Not at all

But this case is diff

I don’t see any difference there dear, A guy was also once a virgin why didn’t he also take it as a must for the girl wey disvirgin him that they must get married.... And this sex of a thing girls only make it a case cause truth be told we both enjoyed the thing and we agreed to have sex but once breakup or divorce happen, girls will always claim the victims which ain’t suppose to be so cause truth b told Na girls like sex pass sef
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by Peter4luv: 9:06am On Dec 07
Wuraola01:



Hmm. What if u get married to one undecided
well the stress might worth it..
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:06am On Dec 07
Ekitibiased:
If the guy can be committed, I think he should go ahead with the 'process'. If he can't, it's not about his ego and bragging rights he should leave her jeje and not take advantage of the situation.
Some years back, I was very close to a girl who lost 'it' around the time we got close. It meant a lot to her, but I think the real problem was who she lost it too. I loved her so much and she was my first as well, we never dated and that was really heart breaking. It happened once and it took me more than a year to get over her.
I have only met a virgin, what did I do......as I mentioned earlier, If there is a future plan I won't mind but if none......I walk away
Simple!!!
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by BafanaBafana: 9:07am On Dec 07
I've done it like twice. It's stressful if she isn't sure and you have to convince her. Stressful like you taking about 15 tries before you finally hit 3rd base. But if she actually wants it, then it's less stressful.
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by Iamicekid(m): 9:08am On Dec 07
DanDeeBoss:
Breaking the hymen sef na stress[though I learnt not all women have hymen, abi]... Plus the blood, cries and pain.... Maybe I can't stand itgringringrin



Their ain’t no stress there bro as long as she accepted tho, don’t rush thing let your finger do the talking for like 15min it will take care of everything Na for you to just slide in remain and unna both go dey happy after
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by Wuraola01(f): 9:11am On Dec 07
DanDeeBoss:
Breaking the hymen sef na stress[though I learnt not all women have hymen, abi]... Plus the blood, cries and pain.... Maybe I can't stand itgringringrin

Lol grin
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:12am On Dec 07
Iamicekid:




Their ain’t no stress there bro as long as she accepted tho, don’t rush thing let your finger do the talking for like 15min it will take care of everything Na for you to just slide in remain and unna both go dey happy after
Thanks for the encouragement..... Na liver I no get shagringrin
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by Wuraola01(f): 9:13am On Dec 07
Iamicekid:


I don’t see any difference there dear, A guy was also once a virgin why didn’t he also take it as a must for the girl wey disvirgin him that they must get married.... And this sex of a thing girls only make it a case cause truth my told we both enjoyed the thing and we agreed to have sex but once breakup or divorce happen, girls will always claim the victims which ain’t suppose to be so cause truth b told Na girls like sex pass sef


grin grin
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by Wuraola01(f): 9:14am On Dec 07
Ekitibiased:
If the guy can be committed, I think he should go ahead with the 'process'. If he can't, it's not about his ego and bragging rights he should leave her jeje and not take advantage of the situation.
Some years back, I was very close to a girl who lost 'it' around the time we got close. It meant a lot to her, but I think the real problem was who she lost it too. I loved her so much and she was my first as well, we never dated and that was really heart breaking. It happened once and it took me more than a year to get over her.
I have only met a virgin, what did I do......as I mentioned earlier, If there is a future plan I won't mind but if none......I walk away


Nice one � wink
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by Ekitibiased(m): 9:18am On Dec 07
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Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:21am On Dec 07
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by LightQueen(f): 9:22am On Dec 07
DanDeeBoss:
Thanks for the encouragement..... Na liver I no get shagringrin
Liver ko grin Abeg leave liver and get kidney grin
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:23am On Dec 07
LightQueen:
Liver ko grin Abeg leave liver and get kidney grin
Ah Sis.... Goodmorning.... No mind me joor....gringrin
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by LightQueen(f): 9:25am On Dec 07
DanDeeBoss:
Ah Sis.... Goodmorning.... No mind me joor....gringrin
Good morning dear. You dey here dey learn how to deflower abi cheesy
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by Wuraola01(f): 9:28am On Dec 07
Ekitibiased:
I am just being real and practical.......based on experience
Can we chat on whatsapp 08114000400


Yeah.

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Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by Wuraola01(f): 9:28am On Dec 07
Ekitibiased:
I am just being real and practical.......based on experience
Can we chat on whatsapp 08114000400


Yeah.
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:29am On Dec 07
LightQueen:
Good morning dear. You dey here dey learn how to deflower abi cheesy
gringringrin Learn?? Abi I dey contribute.... cheesycheesy..
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by LightQueen(f): 9:31am On Dec 07
darol4real:
I hate disflowering stuff....I met a Lady in school then so because she's virgin, I decided not to touch her since I will not marry her at the end...why would I touch if am not going to marry her...so I let go of such
Hmmm wink
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by Ekitibiased(m): 9:33am On Dec 07
Wuraola 01....waiting patiently ....chat me asap
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by samysmoothfresh: 9:34am On Dec 07
greatnaija01:
I am a guy, we can be friends if you want BUT AM MORE INTERESTED IN YOUR INTELLECT.

I perceive you read lots of books.



no be lie!!


If you know, you know.

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Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by Wuraola01(f): 9:56am On Dec 07
samysmoothfresh:



no be lie!!


If you know, you know.


Lol
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by Kingof2nations: 10:32am On Dec 07
hmmn baby I hope it's not you hidden under dis moniker
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by qwertyboss(m): 11:12am On Dec 07
Chai! See matured minds!
Me way never see woman toto na to they read comments KAWEI!
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by samisj4real(m): 3:32pm On Dec 07
Wuraola01:
Hello guys. I'm new here.
And there's something I wud like to know

Why do most guys shy away from deflowering virgins?
I have heard guys say "No ohh, I can't bed a virgin.. bla bla, bla", I can't go through that now and so on.

I would appreciate ur opinions. Thanks in anticipation cool
PS-No hate speeches please.
Hate seeing Blood.
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by Wuraola01(f): 3:35pm On Dec 07
samisj4real:
Hate seeing Blood.


Ohh. Don't you bleed? smiley
Re: Shying Away From Deflowering. by Wuraola01(f): 3:36pm On Dec 07
Kingof2nations:
hmmn
baby I hope it's not you hidden under dis moniker



What do u mean ohh, kingof2nations? undecided

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