DBestDoc:



Get ready for hospital bills, pampers, baby food, immunization and make sure you keep some cash aside for emergencies.

Things aren't smooth for them yet and they're already expecting in less than 4 months of marriage. No proper planning and the next thing is to rope God into their foolishness.

@OP only start what you can finish.

donshady:
FATHER Christmas

queenfav:
Wow.. Please barr her number. If she can't reach you, she will get the message. What kind of woman does that? Some men can even use that as an opportunity to proposition her for se.xx. That's a perfect opportunity for some bad guys to arrange how they will knack her even with that pregnancy. If she is asking for the money with her husband's consent, he would be the one to contact the op directly not her. Maybe she is seeing marriage to her husband as a mistake and wants to switch to the op. Because this is one of the most disregarding things a woman can do to her husband's ego.

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Who impregnate woman different, who she dey disturb for antenatal drug dey different! They could have held off on having a baby until they are in a better place financially. But no, most Nigerians prefer to live their lives to please the society even to their detriment. She is rubbishing her husband by asking you for money. Dunno how some women see themselves sha.

Chuksmonika:
leme borrow an expression that my Brother and Friend Antiriot uses frequently,I Put it to you that you are the wisest Lady in Nairaland

bucho8888:


BROS FLEE OOO, AM TELLING U DIS COS SAME HAPPENED 2 ME. IF SATAN WANT CAUSE WAHALA U WOUNLDNT C IT COMING. PREFERABLY, CONTACT D HUSBAND B4 SENDING THING HER. OR ELSE D STORY WILL DEFINIETLY TOUCH D HEART

alimaa:
I have a very close friend who has been like a brother to me right from our days in the university, we also worship in the same church, he was my best man when I wedded a few years ago. He got married this year and after the wedding things were not rosy for them the following month and I gave my little assistance as a friend. Around July this year his sister had a life threatening ailment and when he reached out to me I quickly responded with something meaningful. After some weeks his wife told me she was sick when we met in church, I quickly went to an ATM, made withdrawal and gave her money to buy drugs since her husband who happens to be my friend was not in town.

The irony of the whole thing now is
that my friend's wife now thinks that I am Father Christmas and now calls and sends texts requesting for money to take care of her antenatal drugs but I have refused to help because I believe it is wrong and she keeps pestering me.

Please what is your advice?

Shibaraba:

If you ask me... Na who I go ask?
Your Bible says whatever the right does the left shouldn't know about it. You just told the world. Blessing forfeited.
You think you're helping her? You're helping yourself.
No imagine she's reading this because you described her pe[color=#006600][/color]rfectly. Ask yourself...

HarunaWest:

See it as charity...the husband doesn't have to no...abi u wan chop the thank you from him

Oyindidi:
Call me a proud person the bolded is the reason I don't ask people for help. The woman may send you another message begging for your help later but see what you're saying behind her back. I don't think if the husband is doing well she'll come to you for help.

Mr rich man, if she ask anything from you again tell her you can't help her. She won't kill you

Chiefochiefo:
With your question bro, I think you are pompous and always seek public attention you must be greedy and selfish in your giving. Am sure you must have also told your wife that you are doing good to your friend and you know pretty well that women talks anyhow Try and be conservative next time. ....Chiefo....

negbike:


Very STUPID comment. The issue is that she's a MARRIED woman and asking behind her husband's back. Not proper. He's asking for advice to protect himself.

negbike:


Another DUMB comment. The issue is that she is MARRIED and going behind her husband's back. That's wrong.

oloriLFC:
You have to stop o before she turns it to something else. The woman is a parasite. Don't let her ruin your friendship with her husband. Antenatal ko! Brodanatal ni! Shey na you impregnate her?

brodalikeme:
No sane person will love to beg another person for help perpetually, and people always go back to where they have received help before.
I would have preferred if it's your friend that is doing the asking but he might have become tired and frustrated that he is now a charity case. Borrowing without end and not knowing even if he can ever pay back.
Please continue doing your bit, God sees your heart, like I always say life is like a pendulum, you don't know which direction it might swing tomorrow.

brodalikeme:
No sane person will love to beg another person for help perpetually, and people always go back to where they have received help before.
I would have preferred if it's your friend that is doing the asking but he might have become tired and frustrated that he is now a charity case. Borrowing without end and not knowing even if he can ever pay back.
Please continue doing your bit, God sees your heart, like I always say life is like a pendulum, you don't know which direction it might swing tomorrow.

alimaa:
I have a very close friend who has been like a brother to me right from our days in the university, we also worship in the same church, he was my best man when I wedded a few years ago. He got married this year and after the wedding things were not rosy for them the following month and I gave my little assistance as a friend. Around July this year his sister had a life threatening ailment and when he reached out to me I quickly responded with something meaningful. After some weeks his wife told me she was sick when we met in church, I quickly went to an ATM, made withdrawal and gave her money to buy drugs since her husband who happens to be my friend was not in town.

The irony of the whole thing now is
that my friend's wife now thinks that I am Father Christmas and now calls and sends texts requesting for money to take care of her antenatal drugs but I have refused to help because I believe it is wrong and she keeps pestering me.

Please what is your advice?

AuroraB:
God bless you for this wisest comment so far. You are wise. He wrote the husband isn't working yet previous poster's are calling on the husband? Wow!

HarunaWest:

Pls help her...since it's antenatal...Just do it,Am Sure God Has bigger plans for you...Health is very important for an individual.

alimaa:
I have a very close friend who has been like a brother to me right from our days in the university, we also worship in the same church, he was my best man when I wedded a few years ago. He got married this year and after the wedding things were not rosy for them the following month and I gave my little assistance as a friend. Around July this year his sister had a life threatening ailment and when he reached out to me I quickly responded with something meaningful. After some weeks his wife told me she was sick when we met in church, I quickly went to an ATM, made withdrawal and gave her money to buy drugs since her husband who happens to be my friend was not in town.

The irony of the whole thing now is
that my friend's wife now thinks that I am Father Christmas and now calls and sends texts requesting for money to take care of her antenatal drugs but I have refused to help because I believe it is wrong and she keeps pestering me.

Please what is your advice?

queenfav:
can i hug you? I am amazed at the level of some people's entitlement mentality.