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Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by queenfav(f): 8:46pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
DBestDoc:e hugs to u too sis. it is well Abeg.. |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Nobody: 8:47pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
semyman:lol abi o, words are so easy to type ehn |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Smile4mee01: 8:50pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
" Dont help women, cause they most likely won't help you " Haven't you heard of MGTOW. I cut myself off from people like this, she has no such right to ask you for money. Is she not an adult, why can't she work? Help your friend not his wife. I want to assure you, if this situation last for longer she would opt for divorce or hook up with a man with better offer. Then you would ask yourself where has all the assistance you gave gone, These women ain't loyal. They all loyal until....p[color=#990000][/color] 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by mechanics(m): 8:51pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Discuss it with your wife but she should also know you are a family man and you have needs to settle. |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by bluefilm: 8:56pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
That's one problem with people every where you go. Once you start helping them, you have started. No going back. The worst is that once you stop, they will forget all the good deeds you've done for them. Me, I can't deal o! E no dey be say e no dey I cannor come and kii myself for people wey no go even appreciate the efforts. |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Oponel1962: 8:59pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Let your friend make the demands not her. |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by HarunaWest(m): 9:03pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
negbike:did we all see things from different views...That you have your own view doesn't make mine stupid....We have different lives and live differently. So next time don't you ever quote me as such I wouldn't take it lightly. |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by alizma: 9:05pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
alimaa:Pls choose between being a giver or a borrower and God will honor your request accordingly. |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Bestie93(m): 9:12pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Always give out when you have. God will keep blessing you. |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Nobody: 9:14pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
HarunaWest: This is very wrong!! assuming she just asked once it's ok, but when she is constantly asking, he has to liase with his bro to know what's up. How would you feel if your bro keeps giving money to ur wife behind ur back 3 Likes
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Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Chiefochiefo(m): 9:15pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
negbike:So, Mr clever, as a married woman, advice her on what to do when the husband does not meet up abeg? Since you know how to judge ....Chiefo.... |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Olibboy: 9:16pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Before yhu do anything tell her your friend will see her that she shouldn't worry. Send the money to your friend, just for him to aware. Should I send my account details? Birthday in a bit. alimaa: |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by MarianaTrench: 9:16pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
They probably went broke cos they had a very lavish wedding 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Friend01(m): 9:20pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
alimaa:like I. would have advised make sure your friends know about this before helping her or better still send it through her husband since you said she is struggling. But the woman sha, is she not shy sending text messages to you like her breadwinner . I hope she is not want I am thinking. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by rinzylee(m): 9:20pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Try asking her to talk to your wife. It's safer to have your wife involved. My 2 kobo 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Adamuadeku: 9:26pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
The wrong thing you did was to give her money, from the very beginning you should have been giving the money to your friend and never let his wife even know you are the one. That act can make your friend loose control of his house because his wife will feel that after all he is not the one taking care of the bills and don't be suprised if she starts making advances towards you even with her pregnancy. You must understand that at any slightest provocation the wife can use that to insult him. It takes a very understanding woman to still respect and love her husband knowing fully well that he is not the one taking care of the bills, the fact that she calls and texts you without the husband's consent says it all. You are good man and friends like you are hard to come by, please don't stop helping them but let it be through your friend. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Olibboy: 9:30pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
MarianaTrench:were you there on their wedding day. what if some pple went home without food on that day 1 Like |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Charly68: 9:38pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Withdraw your assistance fast before the woman land you into trouble..there are things you must never tolerate ,never allow anybody to turn privilege to right doing so makes you a fool . When your friend needs your help do so but never encourage his wife to solicit help from you. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Olibboy: 9:46pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
MarianaTrench:They probably went broke cos they had a very lavish wedding[/quote]were you there on their wedding day. what if some pple went home without food on that day |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Nobody: 9:47pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
alimaa: You think? Friends - University - Best man/Wedding - Got Married x month ago - Sibling had an accident - Husband/Friend not in town - Wife antenatal (pregnant) - Same church... Very funny! Have you ever played puzzle game at all? |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by DedeNkem: 9:48pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
alimaa: She is not your responsibilty and it is wrong for her to be pastering and requesting money from you simply because you helped before. She has a husband and it is wrong for her to be doing this behind her husband. If you don't want to be accused of sleeping with your friend's wife, then stop giving her money! Even if you want to help (which I don't recommend), make sure her husband knows. It is ok to say no.. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by incogni2o: 10:07pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Not until i saw the answers, i didnt know the question was this simple |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by graphiti: 10:18pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
alimaa: When d husband inevitably sees these texts and call logs on her phone, what do u think will run thru his mind? 1. He may think u are having an affair with his wife hence the "secrecy" in exchange of money from u. Its a no brainer that most men usually will demand something in return for the "help" they render to women. Put urself in his shoes: If u find out your best friend has been financing ur wife behind ur back will u let it slide? 2. If his imagination paints a fling scenario btw the two of u, he may even begin to doubt the paternity of his wife's pregnancy. 3. It is pretty obvious that d woman, due to her immaturity, doesn't respect herself/her marriage. An adulterer of a man can easily use this opportunity to have sex with her EASILY! In short: she nor get sense. Do not be the 2nd foool. Once the husband begins to suspect u of having an affair with his wife, ur friendship is as good as gone as things will never remain d same. 4. Its all shade of wrong. rinzylee:This is a very safe alternative..... Either ur wife/fiance or ur sister doing the giving is near perfect, as it will be seen as "transactions" between two women. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by madgoat(m): 10:23pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
alimaa: This guy is secretly wanting to sleep with the friend's wife maybe he has already had a few secret knacks sef. |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by adecz: 10:36pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
If you give her antenatal money too many times, the pikin fit come resemble you ohhh. Better give them via her hussy. |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by skyfather09(m): 10:36pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
baba if I beg you for money now you no go give, buh you sabi give person wife abi |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Boss13: 10:38pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
alimaa: Very wrong my man - please bring it to the attention of the husband before he accuses you of sleeping with his wife. Going forward, inform the wife to channel all request via the husband. Your relationship is with your friend and not his wife even though she is an acquaintance. Avoid unnecessary issues and another future thread on NL 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by influenz: 10:40pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Help enrol her for the NHIS scheme. With that you won't have to be giving her money for drugs anymore |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by bizhop01: 10:58pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
If you have give it to her with free mind don't expect anything in return, Helping a poor & needy is better than giving out to all this yahoo pastors & babalawo that scattered every where. |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Keebee4bowale: 11:14pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
JONNYSPUTE: I support dat. Thanks |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Born2Breed(f): 11:15pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Avoid her... |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by frozen70(f): 11:17pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
alimaa: To be on a safe side, when next she calls tell her to inform her husband and let him be the one to come for the money. You might be helping her without the notice or consent of her husband and at the end you will be accused of sleeping with her even in pregnancy Alternatively tell her you can't really help that is if you can summon courage to do so. 2 Likes |
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