seyi08:

Well I know I might sound a lil' cold but really I feel if anyone wants to leave, he or she should be allowed to leave. I know it is painful(very painful as a matter of fact) but you would get over it. I really think the issue of heartbreak is overrated. You should not hold anybody against their wish. 10 years broken relationship is by far better than 2months marriage. Learn to release people for the best. That is the only way to heal quick and understand that people have a right to be with whomever they so wish.

LeoMax:

A MAN WAS NOT BUILT FOR ONE WOMAN, AND A WOMAN WAS NOT BUILT FOR ONE MAN; ITS THE SOCIETY AND RELIGION THAT MANUFACTURES THE WORD "MARRIAGE" TO TAKE POSSESSION OF WOMEN. AND NO WOMAN AND MAN CAN SWEAR THAT THEY HAVENT PHUCK OUTSIDE THEIR MATRIMONY.

I have been trying to figure out why guys actually ditch a lady, even when a lady is very caring, nice and pretty.

One answer keeps popping up on my head, Choice. These days its just so difficult having someone that you feel its right for you, because, there are just too, too, many ladies. No offences meant pls.  Have examined myself, and 95% of the relationship i left, were simply becos i found' a better lady' o[b]r more attention,[/b]  That i think is a no 1 cause of breakup

Any more reason why guys ditch a girl?

oyinda.:


OP, you are very correct.
unfortunately some women think with their hearts and not their brains so they fall easily for such guys.

it is a no brainer that an entertainer personality (musician, athlete or guys who loves attention, dress flashy etc) is more likely to cheat than a nerd, austere or disciplined man.


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pls define disciplined man

snthesis:

pls define disciplined man