If men can be looking for some features like good physique, beauty, intelligence and others (we all wish to marry women with good character, let's put that aside for this discussion) in ladies, and the society sees this as normal, should we be quick to judge any lady that wishes to marry to a financially buoyant guy and call them gold diggers? Reason for this thought is that, I think it is in the nature of every guy to marry to a beautiful queen with big boobs and butt apart from some few exceptions that prefer flat figure/shape. And it is also in the nature of ladies to marry to a man that can support her financially to a reasonable extent. So judging ladies on this area means judging wrongly or judging the nature. Do you have any contrary opinion against my thought on this?

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Yur opinion is not bad tho.....

Thank you op.
People that condemn people for wanting a better life are all hypocrites cos everybody has what entices he/She in life.

What's your point

It's not bad to want something gwud.

It's bad to want something good and not be ready to work with it while it's growing

everybody has their own morality compass about life issues,you do good or you do bad people must talk...its nature


so if you like marry a rich man or mad man...or a drug addict or politician it don't matter cos its your life to live.so live your life the way you want and stop fretting about wat people wud say

Most ladies don't deserve a rich man because they've the wrong mentality.

You are agreeing that a woman should marry a man because of his possessions. Is she a wife ...or a gold digger? Such a woman will never be contented.....and will always...always be looking for the opportunity to shift to a man who has more.

Rubbish

There is nothing you can do to justify gold digging
As a lady if a rich guy approaches you no fucking problem. But rejecting a man only because you want rich men then there is a fucking problem.

What will you ever do if years later the man you rejected becomes rich and the 'rich man ' you are with enters an unfortunate financial situation

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alterswerve:
It's not bad to want something gwud.

It's bad to want something good and not be ready to work with it while it's growing

Is it fair to remain plain while your desired woman puts so much in her looks?

Jayslicky:
Most ladies don't deserve a rich man because they've the wrong mentality.

Most men don't deserve a beautiful, intelligent, homely woman because they are dull, lazy and poor

Originalsly:
You are agreeing that a woman should marry a man because of his possessions. Is she a wife ...or a gold digger? Such a woman will never be contented.....and will always...always be looking for the opportunity to shift to a man who has more.

You are agreeing that a man should marry a beautiful well put together woman? such a man would never be contented...and will always be looking for opportunity to shift to a more beautiful and classy woman.

A1PHA:
Rubbish

There is nothing you can do to justify gold digging
As a lady if a rich guy approaches you no fucking problem. But rejecting a man only because you want rich men then there is a fucking problem.

What will you ever do if years later the man you rejected becomes rich and the 'rich man ' you are with enters an unfortunate financial situation

If men can reject a woman for just being ugly, a trait she couldn't help. And even make fun of her for it, why can't a woman turn down a poor man?

TimiRume:
You are agreeing that a man should marry a beautiful well put together woman? such a man would never be contented...and will always be looking for opportunity to shift to a more beautiful and classy woman.

No.....that's almost the same as marrying because someone is rich. Su h a marriage is not based on love... but on looks and classiness. And yes... the husband will always be on the lookout for a more beautiful and classy woman since that's all that matters to him.

Originalsly:

No.....that's almost the same as marrying because someone is rich. Su h a marriage is not based on love... but on looks and classiness. And yes... the husband will always be on the lookout for a more beautiful and classy woman since that's all that matters to him.

That's nice of you. Still, men should be allowed to have standards, and women too, nothing wrong with a little fancy.

Argon18:
If men can be looking for some features like good physique, beauty, intelligence and others (we all wish to marry women with good character, let's put that aside for this discussion) in ladies, and the society sees this as normal, should we be quick to judge any lady that wishes to marry to a financially buoyant guy and call them gold diggers? Reason for this thought is that, I think it is in the nature of every guy to marry to a beautiful queen with big boobs and butt apart from some few exceptions that prefer flat figure/shape. And it is also in the nature of ladies to marry to a man that can support her financially to a reasonable extent. So judging ladies on this area means judging wrongly or judging the nature. Do you have any contrary opinion against my thought on this?

The problem is men don't have the monopoly of money-making and as a girl if you can insist on financial standard for your guy then what is the financial standard of your brothers and father or male relatives? Are you now saying that your life has been miserable all along since most girl always want people richer than their male blood relation?

Nothing stops a woman from making legit money also.

In most cases, though not all, what will first attract a female to a guy will be her look, if the look is appealing to his sense of sight, he will go for her, after that, checking on other factors will follow. Factors like intelligence, moral discipline, good character e.t.c. This implies that no one can totally take away the beauty factor if we are to be real with ourselves. For the fact that a guy approached a beautiful lady at first doesn't mean that he cannot leave her if he later finds out she's not coping in other areas to look for another person. That means the guy isn't only looking for beauty but beauty was the attracting beautiful gate to the building. Can we now say the guy is prioritizing beauty? NO. On the other side a lady can still dump the rich guy if she later finds out that the guy is only rich but a drunkard, lacks caring, manners, good leadership and others, can you still call the girl a gold digger? NO. So most ladies will first be interested in a guy's financial strength before checking other factors and guy will be interest first on good look coupled with good curve before checking other factors.

No man can know the true character of any lady without moving close to her, and what will cause you to move close to her if you don't approach her. And what will cause you to approach her? Her Ugly face or flat figure?