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Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by Nobody: 8:45am On Feb 06, 2020
Good morning beautiful people. I urgently need help on how I can get marry to a positive partner, and as a lady without getting infected and still have kids?? I’m at the cross road.

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Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by cRobo: 8:49am On Feb 06, 2020
Yeah its possible

But you and children will be expose and eventually get the HIV

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Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by Nobody: 8:51am On Feb 06, 2020
cRobo:
Yeah its possible

But you and children will be expose and eventually get the HIV


Really I actually thought Perp could help by preventing that.
Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by MegaPlayBoy: 8:52am On Feb 06, 2020
I have the full video

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Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by matrixme(m): 8:53am On Feb 06, 2020
cRobo:
Yeah its possible

But you and children will be expose and eventually get the HIV
Oga you're not so knowledgeable in this aspect. Yes indeed, @op. There are a set of prophylactic drugs you can use to prevent exposure during sex, especially if your partner has stuck to treatment overtime. You will not be infected, neither your unborn kids. This kind of setup is known as discordant couples

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Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by Hoyindarmolar(f): 8:53am On Feb 06, 2020
MegaPlayBoy:
I have the full video
undecided

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Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by donbachi(m): 8:54am On Feb 06, 2020
Casala don burst be dat.
Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by Hoyindarmolar(f): 8:54am On Feb 06, 2020
Yes op, marry her... She loves you very much
Take the drugs well and you will live good lives
Hiv isn't a death sentence like before

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Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by Nobody: 8:56am On Feb 06, 2020
Hoyindarmolar:
Yes op, marry her... She loves you very much
Take the drugs well and you will live good lives
Hiv isn't a death sentence like before

What I am asking, is I don’t wanna get infected will that be possible??
Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by Nobody: 8:58am On Feb 06, 2020
matrixme:

Oga you're not so knowledgeable in this aspect. Yes indeed, @op. There are a set of prophylactic drugs you can use to prevent exposure during sex, especially if your partner has stuck to treatment overtime. You will not be infected, neither your unborn kids. This kind of setup is known as discordant couples

Thanks how can I access you?? We need to talk deep on this
Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by proclinician: 9:00am On Feb 06, 2020
Yes you can marry a HiV positive person and still stay negative and also have children that are negative. Through the PMCT that's the prevention of mother to child transmission of HIV your kids will not test positive of the virus and this process is very efficient and it's available in every NHIS certified hospital like where I work. However, it is not very certain that you will remain negative since as couples Na knacking will be without protection unless you have protected intercourse except when deliberate attempts are made on reproduction. with the viral load in check and with anti retrovirals plus regular check up you can stay negative.

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Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by Nobody: 9:01am On Feb 06, 2020
Casalinda:



Really I actually thought Perp could help by preventing that.

So you already know....if he hasn’t checked into a hospital and register, He should do so. The drugs are free. It will keep his viral load down to the extent he won’t be able to infect another even with skin diving sex....but they will advice u guys to have protected sex more .....

u need to help him monitor and keep a strict drug using pattern otherwise his cd4 count will go down and he will infect you and baby to come....

I salute ur courage and ability to take on such a dangerous Life long task knowing the risk..I dont know if I should call u crazy, in-love or both....

All the same, I wish u luck....

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Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by cRobo: 9:03am On Feb 06, 2020
I said might probably get it not that they will get it

So you think HIV is only transmitted via sexual intercourse?

Is like living in bondage not been free with each other in certain aspect

OP I am not saying you shouldn't go ahead and get married but just gonna be cautious now





matrixme:

Oga you're not so knowledgeable in this aspect. Yes indeed, @op. There are a set of prophylactic drugs you can use to prevent exposure during sex, especially if your partner has stuck to treatment overtime. You will not be infected, neither your unborn kids. This kind of setup is known as discordant couples
Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by onwuakpachris(m): 9:03am On Feb 06, 2020
just marry him..loose all ur guards..get infected and enjoy ur lives together..no holds bared..one thing must still surely kill you na..HIV or not...

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Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by clarocuzioo(m): 9:10am On Feb 06, 2020
Casalinda:


What I am asking, is I don’t wanna get infected will that be possible??

If you people manage the situation properly, stick religiously to his medication, you won't be infected.

Also when you are pregnant, from day one, attend to your medications, your kids will be negative.

I have a friend who is a pharmacist in a government parastatal, whenever I go to visit her, she attends to HIV patients, she shows me a lot of couple who are discordant couples with kids, they look normal and beautiful, you won't even know.

The lady carriers are so lovely and healthy, that you get scared when told these ones are carriers.

There has really been a lot of improvements on HIV.

The only challenge here is your moral burden, can your heart really carry it, knowing fully well your husband is HIV positive, how do you really feel about it? Are you ready to move along with him till eternity with this health situation? Also consider the possibility of your family finding out, how will they see you and respond to it incase they mistakenly find out? ,

Those are the questions you go inside and ask yourself, and try to truthfully answer yourself without sentiments.
Ignore the love that is shaking the two of you now, and think your future properly, then take a decision void of sentiments but based on facts.

When you have truely answered those questions, it will guide you on your next line of action.

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Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by GraGra247(m): 9:13am On Feb 06, 2020
Casalinda:
Good morning beautiful people. I urgently need help on how I can get marry to a positive partner, and as a lady without getting infected and still have kids?? I’m at the cross road.

So after all the advice from reasonable ladies and guys on this forum that you should quit this guy for all the red flags in the relationship you still chose to go ahead and even marry him.

Sometimes women get what they deserve.

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Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by Hdanny(m): 9:18am On Feb 06, 2020
Casalinda:
Good morning beautiful people. I urgently need help on how I can get marry to a positive partner, and as a lady without getting infected and still have kids?? I’m at the cross road.

You have opened almost 3 threads over your so called boyfriend, I hope the next thread won’t be Finally I am positive, how can I get it cured

Anyways I wish you well miss.

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Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by Teerach: 9:19am On Feb 06, 2020
Please sis, I've read all your stories. I would have ignored and not comment. But this is the height of it. My humble advice. Place a value on yourself. It's very important. That man won't value u at the end. I've seen these things played out in reality. Walk away from the relationship no matter how sweet you think it is. When you catch this disease, love go clear from your eyes. You'll look back and realized NL kicked against this from the inception.
I'm not saying that you shouldn't marry a partner with that status o. But don't marry a liar. Someone that lied about his status. Don't do this to yourself sis.

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Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by OPTIMUSPRIME08: 9:27am On Feb 06, 2020
This one is clearly into fantasy than logical.
Wetin money no go do to women. Lol
Brothers hustle oh make women dey cry for you even if your HIV positive

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Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by bluebay(m): 9:46am On Feb 06, 2020
Casalinda:


What I am asking, is I don’t wanna get infected will that be possible??
I'll advise you to avoid it.. You might love him very much , but its not going to be like usual life together. Prevention is better than cure babe.
Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by Kylekent59: 9:48am On Feb 06, 2020
So you later accepted the SUV and diamond necklace from him as I read on your previous post.

Your are not marrying him for love, but for wealth.

I hope when his money finishes you wouldn't run

Just as someone above suggested that you should ask yourself if you are ready to live with him as long as he has the disease.

Think carefully in other not to regret.

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Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by Nobody: 9:49am On Feb 06, 2020
Is this place a hospital or consulting room? Ok. Wait let a carpenter come and give you advice.

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Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:50am On Feb 06, 2020
Casalinda:
Good morning beautiful people. I urgently need help on how I can get marry to a positive partner, and as a lady without getting infected and still have kids?? I’m at the cross road.
Why stress yourself with an HiV positive partner? People just like courting troubles for themselves
Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by Nobody: 9:57am On Feb 06, 2020
1StopRudeness:


So you already know....if he hasn’t checked into a hospital and register, He should do so. The drugs are free. It will keep his viral load down to the extent he won’t be able to infect another even with skin diving sex....but they will advice u guys to have protected sex more .....

u need to help him monitor and keep a strict drug using pattern otherwise his cd4 count will go down and he will infect you and baby to come....

I salute ur courage and ability to take on such a dangerous Life long task knowing the risk..I dont know if I should call u crazy, in-love or both....

All the same, I wish u luck....

No salute any courage anything.
Na long throat dey worry this lady.

To her, she's seen a lifetime financial security, so she's not letting go. What a die-hard lady, all for money. I bet, if the man is not rich and can't afford the medicals, this lady will dump his ass. Hm na wa o.

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Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by Nobody: 10:00am On Feb 06, 2020
TonyeBarcanista:

Why stress yourself with an HiV positive partner? People just like courting troubles for themselves


You don't know why? Go and read from the part 1 of her story. You'll know why she's going through the stress of marrying a HIV positive partner. Ulterior motive things.

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Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by 2dice01: 10:01am On Feb 06, 2020
Someone said in the last thread and i quote


"Brother Hustle oo make money even if you get HIV or Coronavirus she will still marry"

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Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by Nobody: 10:15am On Feb 06, 2020
AshiraWealthy:


No salute any courage anything.
Na long throat dey worry this lady.

To her, she's seen a lifetime financial security, so she's not letting go. What a die-hard lady, all for money. I bet, if the man is not rich and can't afford the medicals, this lady will dump his ass. Hm na wa o.


Slow down Oga....don’t assume it’s all about money....women are the strangest animal on the planet....how they bring their mind to adjust to any condition still baffles me.....

one of my neighbors married an almost crippled guy.. the lady said all she wanted was a man that won’t cheat that she has seen too many heart breaks...she said she tot being crippled will reduce or eliminate the chances of being a cassanova .....she was wrong anyways...

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Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by Hdanny(m): 10:29am On Feb 06, 2020
1StopRudeness:



Slow down Oga....don’t assume it’s all about money....women are the strangest animal on the planet....how they bring their mind to adjust to any condition still baffles me.....

one of my neighbors married an almost crippled guy.. the lady said all she wanted was a man that won’t cheat that she has seen too many heart breaks...she said she tot being crippled will reduce or eliminate the chances of being a cassanova .....she was wrong anyways...

I wanted to say something but your last statement caught me.

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Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by cr7lomo: 10:30am On Feb 06, 2020
Casalinda:


What I am asking, is I don’t wanna get infected will that be possible??

U don't love him enough...if u did, u will allow him infect u...since u hv refused to hv sense
Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by Gentlerassky(m): 10:34am On Feb 06, 2020
You have killed English language this girl grin grin grin
Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by Nobody: 10:46am On Feb 06, 2020
1StopRudeness:



Slow down Oga....don’t assume it’s all about money....women are the strangest animal on the planet....how they bring their mind to adjust to any condition still baffles me.....

one of my neighbors married an almost crippled guy.. the lady said all she wanted was a man that won’t cheat that she has seen too many heart breaks...she said she tot being crippled will reduce or eliminate the chances of being a cassanova .....she was wrong anyways...


Helooo we're still saying the same thing but with different scenarios.

She's marrying this man against all odds for similar reasons ( security) your neighbor married her crippled hubby and not for love. Which still boils down to having ulterior motives which doesn't spell true love.
Ok...if she truly loves the man, why is she seeking means to be careful not to contract the disease. Why not damn the consequence and just go through without caution since the love is driving her crazy.
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Someone is meticulously planning to secure a lifetime financial security without getting stung in the process and you tell me " she adjust her mind to any condition" then why being careful? Why not adjust to living with the disease incase she contracts it? To me, this is not love but a Careful plan to 'eat her cake and have it". Selfish motive.

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Re: Can I Get Marry To An HIV Partner by Kingsteve(m): 10:49am On Feb 06, 2020
1StopRudeness:



Slow down Oga....don’t assume it’s all about money....women are the strangest animal on the planet....how they bring their mind to adjust to any condition still baffles me.....

one of my neighbors married an almost crippled guy.. the lady said all she wanted was a man that won’t cheat that she has seen too many heart breaks...she said she tot being crippled will reduce or eliminate the chances of being a cassanova .....she was wrong anyways...

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